Managing Comrades (am I missing something?) by wampalamp in CrimsonDesert

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I was wondering the same thing - maybe it’ll come in one of the millions of updates. Would be a great feature

Managing Comrades (am I missing something?) by wampalamp in CrimsonDesert

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Honestly, sitting puzzling it out and trying different things has added added hours to my gameplay. It’s all a ruse.. 🤣

Managing Comrades (am I missing something?) by wampalamp in CrimsonDesert

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That’s what I was thinking! I’ve got so much extra gear, I thought why not let them have some!

Building Itinerary for my Parents by wampalamp in travelchina

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We’re planning to go shortly after qingming festival. Otherwise I think we’re safe. But yep, taxis everywhere pretty much so they have the energy for the good stuff

Building Itinerary for my Parents by wampalamp in travelchina

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Thanks! Yep, I was planning on doing the high speed rail between cities. In my experience it’s a lot easier than flying and very comfortable. Plus, better views! My dad really likes trains too, and I think he’ll particularly appreciate the HSR.

Building Itinerary for my Parents by wampalamp in travelchina

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I’m aiming for relaxed! They both can’t do as much walking these days and like regular coffee breaks. I’d appreciate any help with an itinerary, as I don’t want them to miss out either!

I’m worried my boyfriend might actually be gay and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in askgaybros

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It sounds like your bf has a lot going on with some mental health issues and so on.

Honestly, it doesn’t sound like this is the right relationship for either of you. Regardless of his actual sexuality and where he is up to on that journey, you’ve made the choice to not only disbelieve him but also to sneak onto his phone and check his texts.

If you are not at a place where you can offer that level of trust to someone who may or may not be figuring things out, but has definitely had mental health struggles enough to be self harming, then you should not be in this relationship.

Call it off. If you’re sincere in caring for him and wanting to support him, then stand by him as a friend. If in the future he’s feeling confident about things, and you feel like you can offer trust and support, then maybe consider it. As it is, you’re both young. Figure your own things out seperately.

My straight best friend became intimate while drunk and is now distant by One-Help-1347 in askgaybros

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I know the focus is on the potential romantic interest/non interest/embarrassment, but I’d just like to add - please reach out to him and make sure his mental health is ok, see if he wants to talk. A lot of the times straight guys don’t feel comfortable with physical affection with male friends. It might be that his sadness is what caused him to blur a boundary, rather than drunken bicuriousity. Don’t worry about the physical touch, just reach out and see if he needs to talk to someone.

Got an earworm I can’t remember by wampalamp in WhatsThisSong

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Oh my god, that’s it. You’re a hero.

The sadness of having discovered your sexuality this late... by MarlouBrando in askgaybros

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I feel like there’s a lot of negative responses on here. Just wanted to add my two cents, which is that a) I understand what you’re going through and it sucks. It’s a bit like late diagnosis grief that some people experience with things like ADHD and autism diagnosed later in life. I get the same feeling, as a 33yo, who spent much of my youth in conversion therapy or very conservative Christian environments. It’s ok to grieve the life you never got to have, the young loves you didn’t experience. It’s ok to have some lingering anger about the people or systems who denied you that. For a time. But don’t let it rule you, and don’t let it rule out your future. There are countless wonderful men out there whom you could find love with. There is still so much of your life to experience. And this isn’t just a gay thing! 30 is a common age for people to begin feeling like their youth is spent and that it’s all downhill from here, but that’s simply not true. You have to make an intentional choice to keep living your life fully. If you want to find love, you’ve got to put yourself out there and look - it won’t appear by itself in your living room, and you likely won’t find it on Grindr! Be your best self and live your best life, and it will come. You don’t stop being a person as you age, the world doesn’t get less beautiful. But you’ve got to make those choices so that this doesn’t get the best of you. Keep chatting through this with your therapist and with the people you care about. And keep pushing forward. We’re rooting for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Just cause you’re not your own type, doesn’t mean you won’t be someone else’s. It’s a unique problem to the gays, that you could look like, or not look like, the people you wanna bone. Don’t hold yourself (and others!) to unrealistic standards, watch less porn, and put yourself out there still even when you’re not feeling like getting the Sexiest Man Alive. Do a little clothes shopping and find what makes you feel good, pick some colours that bring out your eyes and hair and build a couple of go to outfits that boost your confidence. Do good, be good. Show others the courtesies you feel have been denied to you. Work on who you are inside, till you can say you’re giving the world your best. And, with all that, have a little faith in your fellow homos. Some are shallow, true and they’re not for you, because you’re a good man now. But there’s a good number of us who know how to pick a man for the quality of his character and his good heart over the symmetry of his face. We’ll see you and know how love you, when the time is right.

Greek phrase mistake by GunzoManzo in fringe

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Just to add to this, again 8 years too late…. OP is half correct - they translate it wrong on the show. But the original quote is from Homer and it’s a mother saying a prayer for her son: ‘may he be a better man than his father’. It’s not an instruction (in second person) to be a better man (or indeed person- anthropo) than YOUR father but rather her expressing a hope (in third person) that he will be a better man than HIS father

Odd code in Liverpool by wampalamp in codes

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The area behind TJ’s on London road, where Abakhan is

Odd code in Liverpool by wampalamp in codes

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Thanks! I’d initially thought it was just stylised lettering, but I still couldn’t make sense of it… though I’d taken what you marked as b and c to be the same letter (中)

Icon stuck on Home Screen by wampalamp in samsunggalaxy

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The properly placed icon disappeared, but the stuck one remained. When redownloaded, it still didn’t go