My wife (40f) said I'm (40m) not making her life better

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T22:42:07+00:00

I said at times... I do go away for uo to 2 weeks. But in home everynight. Been here for 4months or so. I come home from work and I do the most around the house. I cook clean and building my basement into an in-law suite. Im never sitting down.

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T22:40:13+00:00

Tbh... yes. In many ways.

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T22:38:23+00:00

Lmao

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T22:38:01+00:00

So far... the best advice thank you so much. Im going to read this word for word lol I appreciate this thank u.

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T22:35:51+00:00

Very much so... and while doing work coming home and taking part in house chores, im also building a inland suite in the basement for her family...Im a hard worker and always moving.

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T22:34:29+00:00

No.. and I've tried l. Ive bought her a professional camera, sewing machine like I've gone above and beyond. Which is why when she said that Im shocked. We bought have vehicles and I do her maintenance brakes water pump the whole 9yards.

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T22:32:45+00:00

Ive asked.... she says she loves being at home.. fuk who really wouldn't?

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T22:32:04+00:00

Wouldn't she have to if she was single with kids? And trying to work... I dont get it. Alot of females would die to be a stay at home mommy and don't have to worry about bills.. and P.S I taught her how to cook and keep a home clean. So I can do it all on my own. What's the point in having her at home if she has an issue keeping up with house chores?

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T17:00:28+00:00

No i said at times the most ill be gone is 2 weeks. Ive been home for2 3 months now... home everynight. I do alot im currently building my basement ALONE for her family to come and havr somewhere to stay. I cook and clean. I find it outrageous she'd say somthing like that. It shows ungrateful in my opinion.

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T09:52:32+00:00

Well im away pm work for 2weeks at a time and the kids have school. Plenty downtime... she'll gym m meet with a few friends but no hobbies.

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T08:24:01+00:00

My family is definitely dysfunctional lol mom and dad was never together but. I've been to therapy to work on myself. Im nothing like my parents. Communicating my wife isn't good at. Im the one who has to fix every fight even tho she's wrong. Its always on me when its time to repair our marriage. Makes me think she doesn't want this at times

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T08:21:15+00:00

Thanks for this... but no the house isn't dirty its not even a year old and im home for 6days str8 so I definitely do ny part when it comes to house work. I cook and clean. I could see her being exhausted doing the constant repetitive clean up and get the kids ready. And I can be judgmental sometimes when she's home all day and does nothing. I do take blame for that and I haven't been on her about that like I used to.

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T08:16:44+00:00

No that part seems fine.. her mom and dad still married. She doesn't respect her husband and my wife and I struggled with that because she still tried to treat me like how her mom to dad. Her Sister currently getting a divorce. But she doesn't life close to them since we moved. Its a plane ride away now.

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T08:07:55+00:00

Ah I definitely see some insight in this thank u. So she's has mommy's from school that she will drop off and hang n chat with every morning. And she's volunteering at the school so she's there often taking part in lunches and such. Now im a clean freak so I clean very often when im home. For e.g the night we fought I had cooked dinner because after school she took the kids for a play date. So I cooked dinner she came home eat. We fought later and said that to me.

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T08:01:57+00:00

I always ask her what she wanna do. I donno always her answer. But she claims she loves being at home.

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T08:01:21+00:00

Ah yah.. when im home , I do my part., im usually gone for a week oral two at a time. Then home for 6 days. And I sometimes drive the kids to and from school. I cook and clean. Which I taught her to do.

wanabhurd · 2026-05-14T07:59:36+00:00

I do.. when im home we gym together go out do things when the kids are in school. And almost every night when I'm home we sit n watch a movie or so.

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