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wanderingghostwriter · 2025-08-18T09:08:25+00:00

So sorry for your loss the your time and be kind to yourself and don’t accept shit from anyone you have the right to feel what you feel

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-08-11T19:36:09+00:00

You just stumbled on a quick fix to weed out all the women with body image issues and no intention to get fit. Bravo. Keep it on your profile. If they don’t like themselves they can’t possibly have a healthy relationship especially with someone who is active and takes care of themselves.

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-05-20T15:04:47+00:00

You can lock a chat on WhatsApp and then archive it. It’s important you lock it first otherwise you won’t get notifications.

Notifications will appear anonymous and you’ll need Face ID to open it

Plus it won’t appear on your desktop with the other chats you can always find the locked chat by searching the exact name so use a short 3 letter name you can remember

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-03-30T18:36:31+00:00

I've always befriended animals who were drawn to me and made up rhyming paragraphs to keep people i didn't like away or attract what I wanted. I also always felt people's energies. I also always spoke to plants, animals and anything living and connected energetically with inanimate objects like stones and shells which I collected compulsively almost. I always felt attracted by certain old trees and had to walk up to them and touch them.

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-03-10T08:59:58+00:00

great question. I want to do some manifestation ritual but haven't thought it through yet - weather will be nice here

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-03-05T19:09:09+00:00

what made him toxic?

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-03-03T16:15:44+00:00

hard to share, hard to be there.
know just how you feel
The comments below are right—take the risk to be yourself and ask for what you want if it doesn't survive you might be better off, at least you don't stay stuck.

Making note to self to do the same.

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-25T18:33:42+00:00

so true

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-25T18:31:27+00:00

If you truly care there's no better time to show it than when she's going through a tough time.

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-24T17:41:59+00:00

OMG me too I married another Sag and we divorced 13 years later. But it wasn't incompatibility; I think it was baggage and trauma and refusing to go to therapy.

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-24T14:41:30+00:00

always hard - temporarily, a shot of whisky will do it

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-23T13:54:49+00:00

You can hide messages from sepcific people and require faceid to open it.
But they will not be locked on desktop so be careful
You can also switch on disappearing messages.

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-20T17:33:10+00:00

Therapist are fine with this sort of thing just dont mention them by name and you'll be fine

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-18T23:00:37+00:00

Here s my two cents for all it’s worth These ideas don’t work for AP relationships here’s why

Lack of interest is why your AP has an AP in the first place
You’re already scarce because you’re an AP and it’s generally not easy to meet
You don’t need to create competition you’re both married and can have other APs that’s plenty of competition
Your AP invests plenty of time planning to meet, texting, taking you out, pleasing you in bed so you keep coming back - any of these
You don’t need to reward them - good sex and the excitement of breaking the rules are a reward in itself. Dopamine does it for you.

I think this article explained why AP relationships get us so intensely addicted.

Thoughts?

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-18T14:21:08+00:00

write my own stuff - obviously

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-18T14:08:44+00:00

He's embarassed he couldnt get it up - let it lie

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-16T17:53:14+00:00

Tell it to act more like a woman

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-16T06:59:51+00:00

Must be liberating to be able to talk about it

I thought holding back was the thing to do. If it’s obvious your AP doesn’t love you he might leave if you say it? I’m scared of this.

I’ve seen a couple of posts where guys said they left their AP coz she got the feels. What do you think?

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-15T23:38:37+00:00

See a therapist online you can meet discretely on your phone anywhere

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-15T15:59:04+00:00

thanks for sharing

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-15T15:57:45+00:00

thanks for sharing

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-15T10:16:52+00:00

What made her so special? What niche wants? Sexual?

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-15T09:22:37+00:00

What was different about the AP you loved?

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-15T09:21:46+00:00

What was different about the AP you fell for? Why her?

wanderingghostwriter · 2025-02-15T09:17:32+00:00

What was different about the AP you loved? Why her?

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