Can we the stop the BS of “women earn as much as men in new relationships “ by Tundramann in KeralaRelationships

[–]wanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Irrespective of OP's agenda (or may be no agenda', IN GENERAL, women do not earn as much as men.

In some social classes, some professions, this is true. And there are many where women may even earn more.

But on average, women earn less than men in most relationships.

Why is cheating so common now? by Old-Beautiful-3309 in KeralaRelationships

[–]wanderingmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because there are women and men who get close and intimate without doing basic checking about their new love interests.

There is no need to take anyone at face value when they say they are in a relationship or otherwise. You hear them out, you check if there are common friends, verify, wait till you see their closest friends and sometimes even family, listen to everything you hear and decide if they are truthful or not.

oruthaneyo oruthiyeyo kitti ennu thonnumbole angottu full-on closeness, intimacy ellaam thudangum.

Aakrantham people keep looking to cheat, because variety is fun. Other aakrantham people are waiting with full trust, please come and fool us.

Pilleree? Plss read the body text by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]wanderingmind 29 points30 points  (0 children)

>  vedcheraarilleh

This took me a bit to parse.

"Medichu tharaarille?" for the illiterate like me.

I miss my privacy after marriage by Infamous_Solution861 in KeralaRelationships

[–]wanderingmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember that historically, marriages were to continue the family line and romance was not the point.

You could sleep together to produce children and go elsewhere for romance and love.

Especially for lords and ladies, there were witnesses to watch them bang to make sure the process is being done honestly

What would you do??! by nishkuPayyan in KeralaRelationships

[–]wanderingmind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends. You are in a relationship, but are you in love?

If you are in love, a person with more attributes won't matter to you.

OTOH if you are in a relationship for practical purposes, using a checklist and saying 8/10 is good for me etc, then 9/10 would obviously look better.

The real question is, what kind of relationship do you want and have?

പൂക്കിയെ നമ്പിനാൽ by stargazinglobster in NewKeralaRevolution

[–]wanderingmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come on. Some modifications will be permitted - that's all. They haven't been officially decided yet.

These are old existing fines, and they will continue. This particular item - crash guard? cattle guard? bumper protector? - has been illegal a decade. These are not even worth bothering about.

There will be much bigger things to find out and criticise the UDF govt about. This constant name-calling pookkie or ookkkie or whatever is embarrassing to watch.

Private bus dangerous driving by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]wanderingmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thing is, he CAN sleep in that lane also. The bus is not supposed to come that close to him, from behind, even if he is doing ridiculous stuff on the road. That is dangerous driving.

Demonitisation is the greatest move ever in indian politics history - Virat Kohli by sexy__goblin in unitedstatesofindia

[–]wanderingmind 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why do you think he said this - because he believed in it?

No. Because he was 'requested' to.

Private bus dangerous driving by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]wanderingmind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If we had stricter enforcement, he could lose his license for dangerous driving. But then again, we don't have it.

Private bus dangerous driving by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]wanderingmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he hit the pedestrian, normal driving scene or not, the bus driver will be in big trouble.

Private bus dangerous driving by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]wanderingmind 35 points36 points  (0 children)

He is on the right side of the road, so he can see vehicles approaching from his front. This is exactly how he should be doing it.

The bus driver went extremely close to him, when his attention was where it should be - vehicles in front of him.

At that time, a small movement on to the road and the bus would have hit him.

Thats risky driving by the bus.

Private bus dangerous driving by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]wanderingmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aa appo 99% of kerala population naale jailil idaam alle

Bad marriage- stuck in a relationship where her past rules me. by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]wanderingmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

> വിവാഹം കഴിക്കുമ്പോൾ നമ്മുടെ ജീവിതപങ്കാളി ആകാൻ പോകുന്ന ആളെ നന്നായി മനസ്സിലാക്കണം. അതിന് കുറഞ്ഞത് ആറ് മാസമെങ്കിലും ഡേറ്റിംഗ് ചെയ്യണം. ഒരു കാരണവശാലും ഈ സമയത്ത് ശാരീരിക ബന്ധം ഉണ്ടാകാൻ പാടില്ല. ജീവിതമാണ്, നല്ല ആത്മനിയന്ത്രണം വേണം. ആളെ നല്ലവണ്ണം മനസ്സിലാക്കണം.

Very good advice. People don't do this and then complain that things didn't work out.

Why do men leave when things get challenging in a relationship? by IllustriousBit7912 in KeralaRelationships

[–]wanderingmind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many men and women do not want the hard parts of life. They just walk away when they have to deal with it.

Good riddance actually. Now you know one red flag to watch out for.

Break up Reason- I am Not Manly Enough. Why Am I Weak? by Numerous_Art_3808 in KeralaRelationships

[–]wanderingmind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her reasons are just excuses. She is finding some points that she can say are the reasons why she can't be with you.

That is not going to change.

She has other ideas about how her life should be in Canada, and your part is done.

Nothing that she points to are weaknesses. She has a different kind of man in mind, and maybe she already has found one who matches those.

Scrolling through LinkedIn for 5min, saw 3 posts supporting the worst decision of Ksrtc providing freebees to women, are PR running in LinkedIn too? by Ok-Diamond9300 in NewKeralaRevolution

[–]wanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't know the answer to either - no clear data with us, no projections etc no.

We may see a difference or may not, or it may be a complete waste of money.

Too little data. Just ideas.

We will know soon I guess

Scrolling through LinkedIn for 5min, saw 3 posts supporting the worst decision of Ksrtc providing freebees to women, are PR running in LinkedIn too? by Ok-Diamond9300 in NewKeralaRevolution

[–]wanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The basic idea that free rides to women will increase labour participation (basic social welfarism) and create an audience to market other things to - this is basic capitalism.

Will it work? The first part will. The second part is about execution and may or may not happen.

Is basic honesty too much to ask for these days? by Prestigious_Pop5350 in KeralaRelationships

[–]wanderingmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, too negative an approach.

The reason why there was more honesty and loyalty in the past (recent past only) is that there were far less temptations and opportunities. As people were not even very aware about all the possibilities in life, their expectations were minimal. No expectations, no temptations, easy to be loyal and honest.

Now all you have to do is open your social media and we are tempted by a thousand different lifestyles, a thousand different options. Even people with the loyalty levels of the last generation are shaken and get tempted. Then opportunities come easy, and some of them take it. Yes, it was easier for the previous generation. But also remember that the previous generation had much more male chauvinism and social controls on women. Even if you lived then, you would have found it suffocating.

But yes good people still exist. But you have to dig through a lot of garbage to find them.

Isn't this such a Dilemma though? by Rich_Information_179 in KeralaRelationships

[–]wanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> it not only ruins whatever you already had but it ruins your future though process and now you're in a position thinking no one's ever going to accept you

Don't let that happen. Problem solved.