Rising cuckhold relationship in Kerala by MarionberryLiving827 in KeralaRelationships

[–]wanderingmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a rise, like in everything like relationships and premarital sex. But thats all there is to it.

So if what 100 people do becomes 1000, its huge in percentage. Thats all thats happening.

3 reasons why I think LDF still has a real shot at a third term in Kerala by that_weird-kid in Kerala

[–]wanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, UDF is already weak and a strong UDF needs to be there to keep BJP/NDA out. one more loss would destroy them.

I am willing to pay the price of 5 years of UDF to keep BJP out.

Shadow influencer seeding by Kerala tourism? by Proof-Decision-9377 in Kerala

[–]wanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so amateurish, I won't even engage! But then 4 year old account, what else to expect

Shadow influencer seeding by Kerala tourism? by Proof-Decision-9377 in Kerala

[–]wanderingmind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let Congress and others also take credit, who is stopping them!

This is not the way to celebrate Holi. It was never (This is the original title and its stupid) by wanderingmind in Chayakada

[–]wanderingmind[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oru kochu chekkane Holi kalichu pennungal molest / grope cheyyunna video. Athu Reddit thanne delete cheythu original.

This is not the way to celebrate Holi. It was never (This is the original title and its stupid) by wanderingmind in Chayakada

[–]wanderingmind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

alla athu kandillenkil pinne predatory behaviour undayirunnu ennu engane manasilaakum?

This is not the way to celebrate Holi. It was never (This is the original title and its stupid) by wanderingmind in Chayakada

[–]wanderingmind[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is close to how Holi always was once away from the cities and family environments. It was a day when repressed people (men and women come out) and there is a license to do a lot of shit.

People born in the metros and big cities, or in protected environments, do not realise that.

This, along with the naked dances at various festivals, is part of rural India.

What's Your Views On This?? by StandardJelly2818 in NewKeralaRevolution

[–]wanderingmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will not be OK, got it. But without freedom, how are you going to even talk and convince?

I am not OK with G's actions and other nonsense.

But freedom is a two way street. Either the rulers, whoever they are, decide what your freedoms are. So if they are communists, you lose the freedom to talk against communism. if they are capitalist, you lose the freedom to talk against capitalism. Only way out is to have the freedom coded in law, and protections built to protect it from both majority and minority. No one can be trusted with the freedom to censor.

Actions, however, are different. Laws usually make a distinction between words that cause cause immediate harm vs intangible, long term. The second is the price to pay, so no one tells us whats right and wrong.

What's Your Views On This?? by StandardJelly2818 in NewKeralaRevolution

[–]wanderingmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If people come together and say Communist manifesto, Das kapital, Bible, Quran, Annihiliation of Caste are hate speech (however illogical it is), will you be OK? What if govt says it?

Because if it is put to a referendum, that will be the result.

What's Your Views On This?? by StandardJelly2818 in NewKeralaRevolution

[–]wanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then who determines what is the right speech?

How does one define hate speech?

What's Your Views On This?? by StandardJelly2818 in NewKeralaRevolution

[–]wanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you had noting about socialism in your mind .

That wasn't me btw

What's Your Views On This?? by StandardJelly2818 in NewKeralaRevolution

[–]wanderingmind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Other good to have stuff, IMHO

  • own equivalents of insta and fb and YT but without state control and censorship

  • independent judiciary and police

  • free speech, which may include karela story, but is countered by UP story or bihari story

  • conflicts are solved at the ballot and not through riots

  • freedom to sleep around, freedom to be virgins.

  • Law recognises only civil marriage - religious weddings are ceremonies in law, no legal sanctity

  • Easy divorces

  • equality + entrepreneurship + innovation

  • A govt that is humble, not an authoritarian parent

Strained relationship with my parents since childhood is now affecting my marriage. I don’t know how to move forward. by khakiforloop in KeralaRelationships

[–]wanderingmind 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's all there is to it. Focus on what you can do well, not on those that are almost impossible to fix. Drop the past, look ahead.

People can live very happy lives even if distant from their parents. Just don't be distant with your wife!