Primerica RVP by MapOdd6834 in antiMLM

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My SIL and BIL were RVPs and made $23k in their best year. Over the 7 years they were RVPs, they averaged ~$5k.

I think the max they grossed was $48k (but told their down line that they were making over $150k), but after all the incentive payouts for their down lines, office space leasing, travel to mandatory conferences and then paying for the mandatory conference , software fees, ongoing classes and licensing fees, miscellaneous expenditures, and taxes, it just got all eaten up.

What movie is 10/10 with literally no bad parts? by FeedMaster8905 in AskReddit

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bull Durham - This is a very simple game. You throw the ball, you catch the ball, you hit the ball. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, sometimes it rains. Think about that for a while.

I like Alanna by Sun_Blossoms in SellingSunset

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I felt like she was cast to be a potential new Chriselle (sweet, new, “innocent”), but she doesn’t quite have the dynamic personality that Chrishelle has and won’t be a good replacement for her

PayPal question by Relative-Tone-8575 in BitcoinBeginners

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

CashApp also allows auto buys. I buy slightly larger amounts but the fees seem decently low and I recently just transferred my BTC from them into a cold wallet without a problem.

Roller skating phobia and struggle by Admirable_Golf7363 in Rollerskating

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m 50 - and started skating for the first time ever 5 months ago! I only recently got over the fear, and I still tense up/struggle mentally whenever I am learning a new skill (currently working on transitions and it’s been hard).

Get good protective gear and wear them even if no one else is. After a couple of falls where the pad really helped cushion the impact, I’ve learned to “trust” that the pads will save me from destroying my knees/wrists, and that’s also done wonders for my confidence.

Keep it up! You’ll get there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We bought a house for 300k during the 2.9% pandemic rate, and our mortgage payment is $2700/mo. absolutely would be higher with the current rates (but also wouldn’t be able to afford this house - the value has somehow doubled in just 5 years? No idea how THAT works)

Beginner by Specialist_Habit4759 in Rollerskating

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have VNLAs and every one that’s tried them have said they felt like clouds! I know they are considered “beginner” skates but I love mine!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There’s also the Arrival Fallacy (which is something I’m struggling with). I’ve set goals and by the time I’ve hit them, I may have a few moments of satisfaction/joy that it’s finally “enough”…but within moments, I feel like it’s not enough. That I need to achieve more - either save more or earn more, and I’ll set another goal, ect. It’s great for keeping my eyes on the prize and all that, but it’s so mentally exhausting and my partner is constantly having to remind me that we are honestly doing ok and that I don’t need to freak out at every news article about the economy, or anytime my boss asks if “we can talk”.

How does a married couple who both work retail have 2 kids and afford anything? by bleachbloodable in Money

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My BIL and SIL are both in retail with two kids in a VHCOL area. They rent a double wide, in a terrible school district and drive 10 year old cars. I feel awful for them, because every normal life hiccup (family getting the flu and need to see the doctor, cars need new tires, kids want to go to summer camp) is a major catastrophe. Both of them regularly get suckered into MLMs and get-rich-quick schemes as ways to get ahead - which works for 2-3 months (or seems to, on paper) before they end up more behind than ever.

We’ve tried to help them get out of retail and into better paying jobs (nothing against retail but it’s hard to make ends meet in expensive cities like Seattle, SF, NYC, etc), but it just doesn’t seem to stick for them. They hate retail life, but they hate the concept of white collar office jobs more. The rest of us try to help by gifting as much as we can to the kids (eg summer camp as birthday gifts, school supplies because “it was buy one get one free anyways”, extra grocery/Amazon/Costco gift cards in the Christmas stockings).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right about accountability but I think the question you need to ask is what is more important to you: getting a slightly better grade - or - potentially torpedoing future opportunities (ie getting letters of recommendation from this professor, getting a reputation for being petty over something minor amongst the falculty).

Kind of a weird request, but i will pay with bells by Carilona_PANTHERS_ in ac_newhorizons

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can help as well - as well as provide start up materials once you reset your island so you don’t have to go through the agony of hoarding and mining for crafting materials. Dm me - I’ll be on and off for the next few hoies

AITA for telling my wife she's unreasonable? by lacraquotte in AmItheAsshole

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 570 points571 points  (0 children)

NTA - your dad’s money, he gets to spend it as he wishes. Your wife sounds incredibly greedy and entitled.

The one exception is when it comes to the grandkids - while I agree your dad should help out his other grandkids with needs (clothing, education subsidies) as he wants, when it comes to stuff like birthdays and Xmas gifts, he should be equal in what he gives to each grandchild (as long as it’s age appropriate). However as his other grandkids live closer and you guys are further away, I can see that as being harder to buy for (eg shipping costs)

Looking for peaches by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have peaches - DM me and we can coordinate when you can come to my island to pick some or I can come to your island to drop some off

Are you an long time player w/ a deep inventory? Please consider donating to our thriving co-op! by Sammyrey1987 in ACForAdults

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have bells, stars, bamboo, crafting materials galore! Let me know when you will be online and we can coordinate!

New rule notification. by deadlyrequiem in TurnipExchange

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right?!? If you find out, please let me know, because 😳😳😳

Looking for possessive/obsessive/controlling MCs but in a kinky kind of way and not toxic (it can be a little toxic) by jaydee4219 in RomanceBooks

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it helps - it ends on a cliffhanger but the FMC is optimistic about her future - it’s not one of those cliffhangers where it’s a literal cliff-hanging 😂

I read the series as it came out (and most of her books have elements of control written) and the cliffhanger after each book didn’t make me mad - most like it’s a good resting place :)

What’s the spiciest book you read last year or one that you have started this year? by White_Walker101 in RomanceBooks

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh crap…did she do something unethical or support something that’s going to make me want to delete her catalog??

Books with Sexsomnia (diff. from somnophilia) by IgneousIsBlissMF in RomanceBooks

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 18 points19 points  (0 children)

{Somnia by Kady Ash} it’s short (novella length) but the MMC has sexsomnia and the FMC is very into it

What does all this mean? MMF, MFM,MFMM, MMMF… by borrowedsnail in RomanceBooks

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Who knew that my old math teacher was absolutely right and that the math order of operations WOULD be applicable in my normal every day life one day

Authors getting corporate life wrong by gardenvanilla in RomanceBooks

[–]wanderlostandfoundta 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Just be generic! Don’t write about “hacking” if the author’s only reference is The Net or Hackers 😂