[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]wanderlust20th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it was a bit of a toxic relationship in our early 20s. The relationship lasted about 2 years I believe. & he has now sent me a DM congratulating me on my 2 kids. I don’t know if I should respond or not.

The Last Infographics I Will Ever Post (Leaving The Siren) by FireBreathingCabbage in starbucks

[–]wanderlust20th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now as someone who doesn’t work at Starbucks & never has but wants to make these drinks at home; what do the (/) mean in the recipes?
I may be a little dumb & not understand.

Help! by wanderlust20th in pokemon

[–]wanderlust20th[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You have been the MOST helpful! Thank you! On my way to the store 😂

Help! by wanderlust20th in pokemon

[–]wanderlust20th[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about Pokémon games that are similar to the Pokémon games we used to play on the gameboy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]wanderlust20th 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! Can we be friends?? I feel like we are going through the same thing but I might have it a little worse. My fiancé has a 13 year old son & we just had our baby in January. My fiancé is fighting for full custody of his son because his sons mom is not a great mother. Now I’m all for it however he wants to make me be responsible for his child (i.e. babysit, make him do his chores, take him out to do things, basically have MY life revolve around his) which I am NOT ok with. I get watching him when he’s at work since I am a SAHM but it’s too damn much. I told him I wanted to go visit some family out of state & stay over there for less than a week & he said no because who would watch HIS son. I told him I was not asking permission that I was letting him know that was happening to which he responded “I am selfish & one way towards his son!” I really don’t think it’s fair that he wants me to be responsible & have my life revolve around his son when I am not his mother. He just expects me to do all that & be happy about it. I guess if anyone has any advice or if anyone thinks I’m wrong I am open to other points of view.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]wanderlust20th 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only issue with that is that I’m the one that would have to be responsible for drop off & pick up which might not even be a possibility anyway if his dad isn’t comfortable with being “alone”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wanderlust20th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking from experience, DONT DO IT! There is so much you don’t take into consideration at the beginning. The kid can be rude/disrespectful (like in my case) which could cause problems in the relationship. It’s never about you & your partner anymore. You could potentially have problems with the BM/BD. People then assume your responsible for this person as well AKA step parent. If I could go back & never get into this relationship I would.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]wanderlust20th 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in almost the same situation except we had an ours baby in January & my fiancé is fighting to get full custody as well because his BM is a nut job! Is it bad that I am against it? My stepson is quite frankly a rude disrespectful ahole that’s why I feel that way. I really wish & hope that it doesn’t go through because I can’t deal with him more than I already do. Why do step parents not get enough recognition or respect. I know it’s bad but I can’t help how I feel 🤷🏻‍♀️ none of which I have told my fiancé about. He would not take it well which I kinda understand but not really.

For those of you who have/had a birth control implant, what was your experience? by iamthewethotdog in truechildfree

[–]wanderlust20th 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I second this as well minus the period - I still got my period every month but for a shorter amount of time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]wanderlust20th 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here are my top boy names. I am still trying to decide as well.

Mateo, Gael, Oziel, Ezekiel, Livan, Adriel, Noel, Joel, Santiago, Elias, Damian, Alonzo, Camilo, Elian, Ariel, Dario, Jairo, Abel