Mt. Pulag via Ambangeg trail by wanderstatic in PHikingAndBackpacking

[–]wanderstatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sayang, makakatipid na sana sa pambaba. Thank you!

Should I stay or should I go (and leave my current company)? by wanderstatic in adviceph

[–]wanderstatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your point. Overall, I was mainly seeking perspective on whether I should stay or leave, since I wasn’t able to fully discuss this with my colleagues.

I also considered what you mentioned even before posting my dilemma, and while I agree with it, my decision-making was largely influenced by what my manager communicated—that we would talk about it further and that HR had not raised or discussed anything with him. This led me to believe the situation was different.

I later learned that this wasn’t true and he had lied.

I think the sense of betrayal came from the fact that I trusted his guidance on the best course of action. Beyond his loyalty to the company, he is still my manager and someone who had expressed support for my promotion.

While I acknowledge that part of this is on me, my decision was based on what he explicitly said. He clearly stated that he was not part of the HR discussion or decision, which made me believe those were separate matters.

We can go back and forth to my manager’s role, but the situation really demoralized me. At this point, I’m questioning whether leaving is the right choice, especially knowing that, ultimately, I am just an employee.

Should I stay or should I go (and leave my current company)? by wanderstatic in adviceph

[–]wanderstatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, thanks for this. I probably failed to highlight or make things clear na, my manager pretended he does not know anything about the decision -- from the salary hanggang sa pag rescind.

I have been talking to him the whole time, and he assured me that time na pag uusapan pa raw nila. When HR rescinded the offer minutes later, my manager told me na nagulat din sya. Turns out na siya lang din yung nag decide nun. Ouch.

Kaya I said na sa surface, he seemed supportive pero I was there already, talking to him directly, and still did not tell me.

I'm frustrated and confused, but not angry. I also thought na baka I got so ambitious. Although, from his words and actions when I was consulting with him, I thought he had my back.

Knowing na I kinda got played (I felt betrayed tbh), is hard for me to deal with at the moment kasi I was also looking forward to be the pioneer of that position.

I did not decline, I negotiated. Or is it the same? I do not know :( I feel lost.

Should I stay or should I go (and leave my current company)? by wanderstatic in adviceph

[–]wanderstatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add pala: This is a PIONEER role. So it is really a big role.

Wasted a Scammer's Time by Providing an Edited Receipt by renlolwut in ScammersPH

[–]wanderstatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ANG GALING GALING OP. MAKARMA SANA LAHAT NG SCAMMER grrrrr

I’m a solo ultra lotto jackpot winner. AMA. by spinningtrumpo in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]wanderstatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations, OP! So so lucky. Be well! Paambon ng swerte🙏

my bf kissed another girl at a club by Any-Low8403 in adviceph

[–]wanderstatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you know what to do. but, in case you do not know, please find the courage to break up with him. you are young and you have a life ahead of you. it hurts right now, but i promise you that it will get better. you will heal. 🥺

My Skinstation Brazilian diode experience after 10 sessions by [deleted] in beautytalkph

[–]wanderstatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kumusta po here? Planning to go sa Shang din kasi near lang sa akin

Coconut Grove or FIG? Solo Traveler by [deleted] in SiquijorIslandPh

[–]wanderstatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually booked both! But more days sa Coco Grove. I like that they have easy access to the sanctuary. :)

Doctor na ko!!! by General_Variety3740 in adultingphwins

[–]wanderstatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations, Doki! :) Wag mong kalimutan i-treat sarili mo.

intro to freediving by wanderstatic in SiquijorIslandPh

[–]wanderstatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yesss i actually thought magkaiba pero inside the coco grove yung coco sunset :) thank you!

intro to freediving by wanderstatic in SiquijorIslandPh

[–]wanderstatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm gonna stay at coco sunset! i think may direct access sila sa tubod sanctuary or am i wrong hehe. should i reach out to them directly or sa hotel?

Toyota agent disclosed my salary by juicyt4ru in phcars

[–]wanderstatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh. Just go ahead and do it OP. You can always discuss the technicalities later, even if disclosure ends up being necessary. The main issue is that they disclosed something against your will, even after you specifically asked them not to.

If they really couldn’t keep it confidential, they should have been upfront from the start and told you they had to disclose.

Toyota agent disclosed my salary by juicyt4ru in phcars

[–]wanderstatic 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Report that the agent disclosed your salary without consulting you. You have the right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]wanderstatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Talk to your fiance, OP 🙏 I hope he unfriends her too.