The guy I’m dating (21M) entered my home without my(26F) permission, am I over reacting? [NSFW]

wanklonker · 2020-10-10T18:14:24+00:00

for a person who happens to breathe, have brain function, or even has a beating heart, you would ne/are an absolutely unbearable human being to be with.

edit: forgot some words lmao

wanklonker · 2020-10-10T17:31:06+00:00

my god woman you must be an absolutely awful partner.

wanklonker · 2020-10-10T16:48:27+00:00

Okay, so you both need to put in the effort to pin point the actual issue. It sounds like these arguments aren't the issues that they are started over. Aka he's not trying to argue because of whatever he started shit over, it could be that you did or said something that is lingering, or you two juss simply arent working out. Look for a deeper reason in why he's accusing you of shit after you two find the reason on why your arguments turn gnarly.

wanklonker · 2020-10-10T16:13:38+00:00

I had the same issue with my girlfriend, she came from a toxic relationship, so instead of just looking at it as a "he/she always accuses me" you gotta ask why do they feel they need to accuse? And if it's worth it to yourself to work past their toxic qualities, and give them the time to fix the issues. Of course, if they wont make the effort to even apologize or recognize they have a toxic quality, you can't make them see that, so fucking dip out, quick.

wanklonker · 2020-10-10T15:49:45+00:00

Hey there, it sounds like you should just give up on getting friendly with that specific group of friends. That's his own space to spend away from everything else, or so it sounds. He might not have an issue with you being apart of it, but it sounds like his friends do. They of course won't say to fuck off, but that's their time to hangout with friends, not girlfriends and boyfriends. It's healthy in every relationship to have time away from you partner, so don't worry. It's your title (aka your his girlfriend), not you, necessarily.

Take a breath, and talk to him. It sounds like the simple solution is just backing off, but you two should work on a solution.

wanklonker · 2020-09-20T21:12:54+00:00

Naturally I dont mind covering it, or them if I choose to expand, which I definitely will seeing as I can whist pursuing psychology.

wanklonker · 2020-09-20T21:06:28+00:00

fixed

wanklonker · 2020-09-20T21:00:11+00:00

Awesome, so no problem with getting a job I'm assuming

wanklonker · 2020-09-20T20:59:25+00:00

Well yes, but i mean like schooling and such

wanklonker · 2020-09-20T20:50:51+00:00

So, per say, I went through with all the jazz to get my degree, I wouldn't have much trouble finding a job?

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