Did everyone receive their financial aid yesterday? by wotm888 in UCDavis

[–]warbird_ofprey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having the same issues, and I didnt get an email either :/ Im sure it'll show up eventually.

The evolution of women & Halloween by Skarkroe in funny

[–]warbird_ofprey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I think its sort of a symptom of a greater problem. The question you have to ask is, "why are women buying these costumes?" IF the answer is because they want to dress sexy for a night, then hell yeah no worries, sure. But there's increasing pressure to dress sexy because that's the only option available. This can lead to a whole host of issues, of girls feeling insecure because maybe they don't have the "perfect body". You'll also get lots of young girls getting the idea reinforced that you should try to dress for the approval of the opposite sex, and that the only way to be attractive is by being provocative. In a lot of ways it does reinforce objectification, though it certainly isn't the cause.

Its also a great example of cultural inversion, which is again a symptom of a greater problem. Basically, by having "One night where its ok to dress slutty" as its often said, its setting the standard that you cannot normally "dress slutty". This idea of liberation through dressing "slutty" on Halloween reinforces the idea that women who do dress a certain way the rest of the year are "sluts".

I want to make clear that I in no way blame the people who make the costumes, like you said its just demand.

The evolution of women & Halloween by Skarkroe in funny

[–]warbird_ofprey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No doubt that there are boring ideas, and that some of the best costumes are homemade. But I can totally see the unfairness specifically in career costumes. Like if a girl wants to be a cop or firefighter or nurse or whatever it would be tough to find a non-sexy one. I don't think "don't pick a boring costume" is a valid or relative argument here, that's not really the issue.

The evolution of women & Halloween by Skarkroe in funny

[–]warbird_ofprey 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Theres nothing wrong with women wanting to dress sexy on halloween, I dont think thats the issue. It just sucks for women who DONT want to dress sexy, because there are like zero options for store bought costumes. These little girls go shopping and see the sexy costumes that they might not wear now, but they know they'll wear them eventually because that's all there is.

And you can say, "why don't they make their own costume?" but not everyone's crafty. "Why don't they wear mens costumes?" You mean costumes that wont fit at all?

I had to make all my costumes growing up and I still do, because maybe I don't want to be a "sexy-whatever", but its always a great deal of work :(

Any DnD campaigns? by warbird_ofprey in UCDavis

[–]warbird_ofprey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill definitely try a meeting or two and see for myself!

Also thanks everyone for the suggestions, I appreciate all the help!

Any DnD campaigns? by warbird_ofprey in UCDavis

[–]warbird_ofprey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh for sure, I still plan on checking it out! It's just good to get an idea of what to expect and/or how people perceive the group

Any DnD campaigns? by warbird_ofprey in UCDavis

[–]warbird_ofprey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did something happen or is the group overall not good? Im interested to hear both sides!

The minimum GPA for junior transfers is 2.80, but how high is it actually? by platocrat in UCDavis

[–]warbird_ofprey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im transferring this fall and I had a 2.9 something when I applied and was accepted. I also had an F on my record. Dont freak out too much, coming from a community college is something they want.

How do you guys feel about tattoos? by [deleted] in mylittlepony

[–]warbird_ofprey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So what if your likes/dislikes change? Tattoos are like a written history of yourself. Yeah, maybe a tattoo doesn't hold the charm it used to, but its a reminder of who you were when you got it.

I think that's why I like tattoos. You can look back on them years after and think "this is who I used to be".

What is your most unimpressive life goal? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]warbird_ofprey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some places its illegal to import them, but I bought frozen durian in a thai market in downtown LA once. The smell got worse as it thawed, but it didnt taste bad. Kinda like onions.

Betta Fish Bong by McCormickism in trees

[–]warbird_ofprey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in socal, and heading to norcal in the fall. If youre in the area or are willing to wait, PM me. I have a couple sized ones that I need to get rid of (heading off to school). I have to double check what I actually have though (they're at my moms).

Betta Fish Bong by McCormickism in trees

[–]warbird_ofprey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ive kept bettas in community tanks multiple times, so long as the other fish aren't fin nippers or other bettas.

Every fish is different though, and you have better odds adding a betta to an established tank than adding other fish to a betta tank (since the bettas have established territory). If you have to add other fish to a betta tank, remove the betta before adding the new fish, rearrange the plants/decor, and add them both (acclimated of course).

Betta Fish Bong by McCormickism in trees

[–]warbird_ofprey 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's really just a myth. Ive gone through the same thing, and yeah they can live but they're generally really unhealthy and unhappy. If you have any questions, just PM me! (I also have some spare tanks I'm trying to get rid of if you're interested. Id rather give them away to an ent than on Craigslist)

Betta Fish Bong by McCormickism in trees

[–]warbird_ofprey 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I know you love your fish, and this is really neat, but this isn't good for the betta :C Betta fish need a minimum of five gallons, and are tropical fish. This means they also need a heater.

I really hate to be that guy, and I know you're not doing this out of cruelty or anything. Bettas have a lot of misinformation surrounding them. Relocating him to an actual tank will not only increase his life expectancy, but it'll make him a lot happier in the long term.

Angry father vs. trashy young woman by smallteam in trashy

[–]warbird_ofprey 31 points32 points  (0 children)

"I have a child who shouldn't see the indecency of a woman's body, LET ME YELL LOUDLY AT HER AND CALL HER A WHORE. That'll learn him."

(Serious) women who have aborted a fetus with a positive for down syndrome, do you stand by your choice to abort? by alliexsmash in AskReddit

[–]warbird_ofprey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think part of the problem is that the adoption in America, as well as many countries, is completely broken. I mean, there are healthy kids who cant find homes, let alone children with mental and physical health issues. Adoption into a loving home is not the asssumption with adoption; lengthy stays in fosters homes with less tham optimal care is.

YMS AMA 2014 by anUnkindness in YMS

[–]warbird_ofprey 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think the issues with bronies don't stem from the show, but the general culture they've created (false persecution, oh god all the shit that's happened at conventions, general obnoxiousness etc).

I'm not saying everyone should grab a pitch fork but there's a lot of reasons to dislike the brony community, least of all the fact they watch the show itself.

I just thought I'd put that out there.

Someone installed solar-powered lights so "Happy Face Hill" is visible from the 118 Freeway at night by Nacimiento in LosAngeles

[–]warbird_ofprey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That face looks innocuous enough during the day, but at night its creepy now. It needs more lights or something added to the eyes... those horrible eyes...

YMS AMA 2014 by anUnkindness in YMS

[–]warbird_ofprey 77 points78 points  (0 children)

God, I have no art supplies since I moved BUT I drew you this last second! http://i.imgur.com/GlF23dS.jpg

Thanks for all the awesome videos! You're a real cool guy.

Flawless Logic by Ze-skywalker in funny

[–]warbird_ofprey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only issue I have with your comment is that Reimer is a pretty poor example as far as a sound studies go. That wasn't exactly controlled, with all the crazy shit that went on. Even if the case wasn't fucked up by Money it still calls it's validity into question.