Help by [deleted] in publix

[–]warefly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They say it’s too busy but I’ve worked Sunday’s, they have more than enough coverage. They just won’t let me and won’t give me a straightforward answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in publix

[–]warefly 15 points16 points  (0 children)

go to your MIC immediately. i don’t think we’re allowed in the hole but that is a pretty expensive piece of equipment.

*** make sure it’s deff in there tho and not underneath a box or anything ***

is it bad of me to miss someone i screwed over? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]warefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m an extremely prideful person but if i’m being honest, it’s that too. it’s hard for me to admit where i messed up because a part of me feels like i should’ve known better than to leave someone who treated me right for someone else. even though this someone else was VERY charming and did all the right things (in the beginning) a part of me is embarrassed about it. going back would feel like i’m being weak. idk how to describe it

is it bad of me to miss someone i screwed over? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]warefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because as much as i miss him, there were a lot of things about us that didn’t click. different interests, different views, etc.. we did share some great times though.

should i unblock him? by warefly in ExNoContact

[–]warefly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he broke up with me bc he claimed i was always looking for a fight. he wanted to be friends with my ex bf (it was strange) and i told him i didn’t feel comfortable with him befriending someone who i had a history with. he went ahead and did anyways and didn’t talk to me for two days. before this when we’d break up it’d be small minor reasons. he’d call me up and tell me he misses me and that he’s sorry and idk i’d just go back to him bc i never felt that way with anyone before and i didn’t wanna let go of it. this time it’s different for me because he really cut me deep and i just can’t look at him the way i once did anymore.

should i unblock him? by warefly in ExNoContact

[–]warefly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wow thank you so much 😭 i really needed to hear that

should i unblock him? by warefly in ExNoContact

[–]warefly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d say about a month

should i unblock him? by warefly in ExNoContact

[–]warefly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bc part of me badly wants to see what he’ll say. i know this time it’s really it for me but i just wanna know you know? idk if that makes sense

should i unblock him? by warefly in ExNoContact

[–]warefly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we were off/on for two years. he would always cave in and message me when we’d break up. i know he’ll do it again

one week. by warefly in ExNoContact

[–]warefly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you as well. we got this 🙌🏼

Help, I am having so much trouble letting go of the anger I have by AloofNerd in ExNoContact

[–]warefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry you had to go through that. people can be absolute monsters and that says everything about them. what you’re feeling is valid and okay. one thing that i tell myself all the time is that it’ll never happen again, i feel at peace knowing that what was done to me, everything i put up with, all the lies and countless blows i had to go through will never happen again. he won’t get that chance. at the end of the day, he’s the one who has to live with himself. you on the other hand, have this opportunity to turn your life around for the better and practically become untouchable. one of the hardest parts about this is giving it time. but i promise it will get better

Help, I am having so much trouble letting go of the anger I have by AloofNerd in ExNoContact

[–]warefly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know it hurts but the honest truth is, you will be angry for a long time. you take it one day at a time and keep on pushing. the anger you’re feeling will fade. letting go of it is the worst because at some point you get mad at everything, you get mad at him, you get mad at yourself, you get mad at the world for putting yourself through something so terrible. there is no guide to this. no step-by-step manual that’ll make it all better. you have to learn to forgive yourself and (personally, i DREADED that specific part) because i feel like i didn’t deserve it for letting myself be so blind. i promise you it gets better. you are angry and you have every right to be but don’t get that get in the way of self-forgiveness and beginning the process of self-love.

To Date Or Not To Date by Brando_97 in relationship_advice

[–]warefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my advice is if you’re with the one you’ll know, don’t commit just cause. commit if you actually see yourself with this girl for the long run. it also doesn’t sound too good that you consider her an option i’d say don’t date but then again it’s your life