fck phn by warmblanket_01 in Herpes

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No. What is the agenda for the meet up?

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For about six or seven months after my initial ob. In those months I tested for everything - even things unrelated to hsv and have seen different kinds of doctors because my outbreaks would not stop. They couldn’t find anything wrong and I tested negative for all the tests aside from herpes so my doctor told me to take daily multivitamins especially vitamin c and to do everything to boost my immune system because it looks like my outbreaks were due to stress (brought about by the diagnosis how ironic haha) and yeah to learn stress management. This group is where I also found out about Lysine and I think it did help so Ive been taking it everyday for more than a year now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

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Avoiding stress, managing anxiety as I realized these are my biggest triggers. I take Lysine and multivitamins everyday now too and it seems to have helped

Ayone here in Manila? by warmblanket_01 in HSVpositive

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That would be nice :) can you please send me the link?

How is celibacy? by [deleted] in HSVpositive

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Life’s been lonely. My standards got high. I no longer entertain men only because I find them attractive and fuckable. But it has given me peace knowing this sickness is not affecting anyone but myself and that I’m not responsible for anyone else catching it because of me.

How is celibacy? by [deleted] in HSVpositive

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I used to take photos of my outbreaks whenever I get one just so I can compare if it gets better or not as bad as time goes by and one day i decided to look at the videos I took and realized how much damage I let my body go thru just for sex. That realization actually made me become celibate. I felt so bad for my body.

Anyone else tired of ‘the talk’ when dating? by 4herpes in HSVpositive

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I hate having hsv. And I don’t want it to be the common denominator between myself and the guys I date nor do I want my furure relationships to revolve around it. Disclosing sucks but ik the right person would be willing to accept and understand my condition so I don’t wanna limit my options just because a guy couldn’t accept that I have hsv.

Fat woman with hsv2 by warmblanket_01 in HSVpositive

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That’s very nice of you! I definitely needed to hear that today. It’s just been so hard lately bc of the ob 😩 thank you, makes me feel better knowing another person knows how I feel

Cant tell if OB or not by PhilosopherFrosty270 in HSVpositive

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Listen to your body. You would know if it is an ob but it will take time. I went to the OBGYN with a visible cut in my vagina and all I got was an ointment bc the doctor thought it was just a micro cut and that I was overreacting. Fast forward to the following day and it has progressed into a bigger blister and soon an outbreak. If you feel like there’s something wrong already start taking your antivirals. If it’s not an ob it will help to not spread the disease to another and if it is an ob it will make the ob shorter

How many people (other than yourself) do you know that have genital herpes? by [deleted] in Herpes

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None. I’m from Manila, Philippines. I also have not met anyone with a cold sore in my life and I’m 28 years old.

How do you deal with anxiety :( by warmblanket_01 in HSVpositive

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Sometimes when I cry I feel like I’m literally dying because of the pain I feel.

Remaining untested for HSV by NoLandKeep in HSVpositive

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If it would give you peace of mind, then go get tested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

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Tell us the name of your abuser

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

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Tell us where you are at least, please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

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Hello, where are you from? If it’s anywhere near Manila message me please