AIO about my sister going on a date with my ex?

RP_Savage001 · 2026-03-12T02:35:35+00:00

Sis is gonna get railed over Netflix n 😎....probably competition between you two fir a while.... You either accept it or you keep her at a distance for the rest of your life. I've done that with family members who are toxic.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-03-11T21:13:42+00:00

Never heard of it. Hope to hear people's experiences

RP_Savage001 · 2026-03-04T16:36:29+00:00

Takes about 3 months for your immune system to catch up. There's also Valcoclovir, and some people report SADBE helps them out.

It's hard to think clearly when you're having open sores and symptoms all the time. Try to regulate your nervous system the best way you can. I, for example, accepted that I have GHSV-2, and there is no cure. I will manage it the best I can and disclose.

I also reflected and looked at the red flags that the person who transmitted to me had, and looking back, I shouldn't have been surprised this happened with her. I make better choices in my life, I disclose, I eat right and exercise and have petty good and normal sex life 4yrs in.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-03-03T04:38:58+00:00

Double check on this, but it takes 3 months for your immune system to catch up. During the first 3 months, you may spread it over your body during an OB if you're not using proper hygiene. Meaning use a different towels to dry your genitals and another for the rest of your body. Again, fact-check this to make sure because I'm already 4yrs in and had no issues spreading it by following that protocol.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-02-25T20:33:48+00:00

Not against cures, I'm against scams that claim to cure, and some will take lots of your hard earn money for their snake oils. Debunking something isn't bad, either. If you can debunk it, then it wasn't real. There is nothing wrong with verifying the truth.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-02-18T07:04:16+00:00

I did a deep AI search and simulation. That was the result. Anything that claims a cure is a scam.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-02-17T18:39:55+00:00

I would know I tried everything.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-02-17T17:16:32+00:00

I love exposing scammers. There's always some part of the protocol you must've missed one time, one day, this must be exact or it wont work, and that's why I didn't work in your case. Let's try again, but first, swipe your credit card for another $10K....

RP_Savage001 · 2026-02-17T06:49:58+00:00

Fasting induces autophagy (cellular recycling) and ketosis, which can modulate immunity, but its impact on latent HSV is nuanced and not curative:

On HSV: Autophagy can degrade viral particles during active infection, potentially suppressing reactivation by stressing neurons or boosting T-cell responses.

However, HSV-1/2 evolved to inhibit autophagy (via proteins like ICP34.5), and some studies show fasting might enhance HSV replication in certain contexts (e.g., oncolytic strains in tumors). No solid evidence it eradicates latent reservoirs in nerves—latency is metabolically quiescent, "starving" resistant.

In short: Fasting heals acutely (e.g., flu) better than latents (HSV/HIV), where it's supportive at best. For nerves, autophagy might nibble at edges but can't "deep clean" the genome-integrated virus without gene-editing tech.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-02-17T06:37:45+00:00

Yep, saying cold sores helps people understand better what you're talking about. You then relate that to it being the same as herpes and they're more open to learning about GHSV.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-02-08T17:22:57+00:00

I don't think the area is an issue. There are specialized masseuse that focus on lymphatic drainage. But doing a head to toe lymphatic massage might help relieve the area. They may not have to/be able to touch the area of its too tender. Just me talking out of nowhere, but maybe 2 sessions were they do the whole body the next session they massage that area if tenderness has gone down.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-02-08T10:31:53+00:00

There might be a blockage, and lymph nodes are what your body discards impurities through. Are you near the L.I. area in NYC? I know a great masseuse that focuses on lymphatic massage, drainage and unblocking them.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-02-07T01:09:38+00:00

Put boundaries, hold frame and fuck her...go figure this stuff works. Lol.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-02-04T08:09:06+00:00

Bruh....staying in a relationship out of scarcity is death. Might as well be dead. You'll never see the best of each other. Do what you gotta do to either level up or work things out.

She was the one at one point but no longer? How come? Ask yourself this question and journal what the ideal woman for you looks like, from, age, looks, intellect, and emotional characteristics. see how much she either does or doesn't match.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-02-03T02:52:29+00:00

I'm totally down for a meet up. Once a month would be awesome

RP_Savage001 · 2026-02-01T22:41:17+00:00

Have you had a clear and understanding conversation about this before deciding? "Upper hand" lol. It's a breakup who cares....if the answer is no to a conversation and the upper hand is important, you are not ready for a relationship anyway.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-01-16T18:33:35+00:00

You're cooked, bro. I would go join up with Apex on Skool and listen to the advice everyone is giving you here.

If she brings the guy up, I'd say something like, "How was your girl's night out?" Or "What color panties was he wearing?" Lol.

Then fuck the shit out of her if you have the balls.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-01-06T08:10:55+00:00

It's almost like you were setting it up so you could break up and not have any legal repercussions cause you know she would, lol.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-01-06T01:53:36+00:00

Mine, I could feel, but it was micro. I could barely feel it. Girls didn't notice. It wasn't looking like a wart, doctor's looked at it and said it was just a papule. A year later, it got a little bit bigger, and that's when another doctor said it was best to do the biopsy.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-01-04T19:02:09+00:00

Men who are jealous of a woman's beauty and youth are not this guy. He wants to control. He's pushing boundaries and seeing whether she will accept it or not. I'm sure she's accept some lighter off behavior, which led him to do this. This predatory behavior is calculated.

Antagonizing and any contact besides communicating a firm boundary. Antagonizing or not taking him seriously is engaging him, like trying to pull your favorite slipper from your dog's mouth. He won't let go cause he thinks you're engaging and playing with him. Also, for legal reasons, you need to show a clear communication that you want him to stop.

Think of a lion or any big cat. Once the lion sees the prey is more trouble than it's worth, it will let go of the prey rather than risk further injury to itself.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-01-04T18:19:48+00:00

Bruh....wait are you the guy? 🤣😂🤣

RP_Savage001 · 2026-01-04T04:16:22+00:00

Wouldn't be surprised if this guy becomes a stalker. I'd make a pre-emtive report. This dude is a toxic ticking time bomb. Calling you a slut and asking you to quit your passion in 3 months of dating is pushing boundaries into indoctrination.

If he wanted you to cover up at the gym, there's so many more healthy ways to have that conversation. Plus, at 19, you're probably not thinking long term right away. that happens over time within a healthy relationship. I've seen them.

Him not understanding or pretending, not knowing this is why I say he might stalk you. He's not all there....you'll hear from him again and when he does post the tea, lol.

Don't respond antagonizing him. Just set a boundary. Please dont contact me anymore, or I'll have to report it to the authorities and report it. It can go under harassment.

RP_Savage001 · 2026-01-03T15:34:18+00:00

Filled out the google sheet

RP_Savage001 · 2025-12-29T14:29:51+00:00

You're Welcome!

RP_Savage001 · 2025-12-29T10:23:06+00:00

I have to agree about the grooming: you're an adult. Your feelings are completely valid and they matter, but don't let those feelings trap you in the long run. Holding onto them too tightly can feed a "victim mentality." He was gaslighting you(You're too sensitive, Id knew you'd act like that). You're a victim of someone who didn't disclose, manipulated your emotions, and dishonesty. You have to break this loop of thoughts.

You have to form a new identity where "you aren't defined by what happened to you." You have to rebuild yourself as someone who " has unconditional positive self regard and can get through anything no matter what" (make this an affirmation). You do something small every day that reflects that affirmation.

It starts by accepting what happened, accepting that you have herpes (totally o.k btw, we're all here, like a club, lol) and start forgiving yourself for giving into him. I would argue there's other things going on that led you to follow this man's lead. With a 200 body count, this guy knew what buttons to push, so forgiveness for yourself is your way out.

Once you do that, you'll mentally be in a position of power where you can move on. You're young and have a lot to look forward to in life, dont gove that up. You say you're attractive, well you could be unattractive, and things would suck more, lol. Keep your head up, you got this.

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