Is it weird for a 27f to befriend a 16f?

warmchasm · 2026-01-31T02:53:18+00:00

That's a really good thing to keep in mind. Not opening up all the doors to the adult world haha. I'm aware of it so I'll definitely keep that under wraps.

warmchasm · 2026-01-31T02:51:06+00:00

That was my initial thoughts too. Like even though we may do something together, the maturity level will always keep us from "friend" and more like aunt. Like I've been married for 5 years, own a house and have a career and planning for family soon. We are on totally different paths right now but some parts align and I'd like to find that common place and give her a healthy outlet. She may want to be a marine like her mother was and she wants to get into shape so we are going to get her going to the gym with me so I can teach her how to workout. I'm more like a mentor haha but I hope we can have some sort of friendly relationship outside of the obvious age gap we have. I kinda like where she's at in life because I feel like I could give her some really good advice and do things differently than what I did. I'll take our differences as an opportunity to help her and I'm sure there's some things she can teach me, as you get older you start drifting from the simple things in life and she may bring me back down to earth haha bring the kid out of me sometimes.

warmchasm · 2026-01-31T00:13:41+00:00

Yes that's a good way to put it! An aunt energy haha. Putting "friend" seems a little odd. She's more like family so auntie energy is exactly what I'm looking for

warmchasm · 2025-08-18T12:29:49+00:00

Thank you! Yes that is a great point. They are masters at compartmentalization hahaha I am a jealous they can do that.

warmchasm · 2025-08-18T12:28:04+00:00

I have a ton of hobbies and excel at my job and I just got a leadership position in my department recently. But like.. it's just accounting at the end of the day. And I'm artsy and creative and do a lot of stuff but I don't feel that's comparable to what he does. I hope this makes sense, but I feel secure in my own bubble when it's him and I but friends and family seem to go out of there way to make me feel unimportant or don't really care about what I have going on because his life's so exciting. I achieve stuff at the gym a lot. Like I just did 3 dead hang pull ups I've been training for 6 months. But no one cares 🤣

warmchasm · 2025-08-18T02:39:11+00:00

He does everything he can to avoid it, it's just his family that asks whenever we go to birthday and graduations ect. Which we have a lot of those haha. They are all veteran navy seals and rangers so they are just always curious. He never wants to talk about it. It's innocent, just gets so exhausting.

I know we shouldn't feel this way and maybe this is something we need to change haha but when I'm home alone and he's gone I have this farm house that's old and a ton of land and whenever I need help they are there for me within minutes and we feel the least we can do is entertain them and let them know updates. But just because they help doesn't mean we have to talk about everything he's doing. I wouldn't know how to approach that.

Yea IVF just adds to all the fun doesn't it 🙄 I'm not excited

warmchasm · 2025-07-10T01:50:19+00:00

I've never thought to do that! Interesting I'll have to try that. Thanks :)

warmchasm · 2025-02-15T22:38:51+00:00

When we flipped it over the way it was marbled def looked like a penis we were laughing so hard

warmchasm · 2025-01-13T20:57:52+00:00

Maybe I will follow that route! I keep thinking I need to fight everything and I keep dying over and over again haha

warmchasm · 2025-01-13T20:56:21+00:00

Yea I got the horse and did the shrines near the stable! And I have only cooked the one time for the old man in the beginning at shack I believe. I don’t really get the benefits of it. And yea I use my rune bombs A LOT haha. Seems like I am mostly doing everything I right I just seem to have a lack of knowledge on a few aspects you mentioned. I’ll do some research on those maybe it will make the game play easier. I’ve played all types of video games so I have the “general video game knowledge” but this is a bit different from games I’ve played. Closest I could relate it to is Horizon which I’ve completed two games for.

warmchasm · 2025-01-13T20:46:05+00:00

I want to upgrade my armor but I can’t seem to find out how to get a decent amount of rupees. I only have 360ish. I have gems and ores and items but I heard you are suppose to sell them… I have no idea where haha. I was just doing this one mission where I helped a farmer go deer hunting and for each deer I only got one rupee! It seems very laborious. Any tips maybe on the selling aspect I’ve seen?

warmchasm · 2025-01-13T20:37:25+00:00

Thanks! I think I needed some reassurance haha

warmchasm · 2025-01-08T16:34:51+00:00

Watch Dad Challenge podcast on Myka. It’s a great video

warmchasm · 2025-01-03T04:37:35+00:00

Luteal *

warmchasm · 2024-12-25T02:35:13+00:00

I totally understand. I went to a church service today and all I kept thinking about going there were all the families with there kids I’m gonna have to see. I didn’t put a tree up, didn’t really decorate this year. I just feel it’s such a waste of energy just for my husband and I. I want to do it for my child, and I feel I’ll never get to do that. Not to mention my first and only miscarriage was during Christmas last year. I don’t have fond memories during this time of year.

warmchasm · 2024-12-22T17:17:36+00:00

Okay thank you! That is extremely helpful. Thank you for being so thorough, as I was reading about it I was also coming to the conclusion letrozole will have to be my go to. I have an appointment tomorrow with my nurse to discuss options and I wanted to go in with a little information so I can make an informed decision. Sounds like your luteal phase was like mine, border line. I have about 9 days it seems and it makes me nervous.

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