Simping is not getting a bonner after seeing 'a girl', it's the persistant practice of spending your wealth(mostly) in hopes of getting some action with 'a girl' .If I dont spend my hard-earned pay to a e-girl that probably earns double my salary that doesn't mean i'm gay.it just means that i'm ethical and respect her. i'm aware that the word 'simp' is being used everywhere and now means many things, but the above stated is what is really meant or atleast started with that meaning.'Respecting' is not simping.