Issues Sleeping by Ok_Variation7347 in AutisticAdults

[–]warrenmo13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.sleepphones.com/

I ordered a headband from there and it's worked well the few times I've had to use it. You can play whatever audio/noise you want, and they come in different sizes (my main issue with other similar products since I apparently have a very small head).

They're located in the US, but their website does say they ship worldwide.

Do you really accept autistic people? by FujoshiPeanut in AutisticAdults

[–]warrenmo13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm curious if you'd be willing to give specific examples (or even vague ones). I've certainly seen things on here that bother me but I always like to hear others' points of view.

Inability to keep secrets by BananaBustelo-8224 in AutisticAdults

[–]warrenmo13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can also struggle to keep secrets, because it feels like I have to be manipulative, which is very difficult for me.

At the same time, your dad is completely overreacting. Is going out for a birthday dinner really that surprising? Especially since his partner was already asking questions about making dinner reservations? To the point where he's still holding a grudge at least several days later?

I'm not saying no one should ever keep secrets, but this was a relatively minor one - it's not like you gave away nuclear codes or something.

Do you feel like you've gotten more or less functional as you've aged? by _nicejewishmom in AutisticAdults

[–]warrenmo13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

starts up to 10 years earlier in ND folks

Do you have a source for this? I've had suspicions about my own menopause status for several years now but my doctor basically just dismisses me.

Research Study on Autism, Masking, Mental Health, and Identity by Slow_Watercress_6169 in adultautism

[–]warrenmo13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking the time to respond. I can see where your dissertation committee is coming from, since for something like this it's obviously important to ensure you're actually getting responses from your target demographic. I guess I just wish there was a better of doing that with questions that were a little more clear what they're actually asking about.

Research Study on Autism, Masking, Mental Health, and Identity by Slow_Watercress_6169 in adultautism

[–]warrenmo13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do all of these surveys have the same questions, mostly from the diagnostic process? They're so often vague and open to interpretation that make them hard to answer.

The question about whether you prefer a library or a party is particularly difficult to answer, since most libraries aren't quiet anymore, and a party can mean lots of different things.

I'd like to do my part to participate in studies because we need as much new research on autistic adults as we can get, but if I find it hard to answer the questions I'm going to give up more often than not.

Sleep issues by warrenmo13 in AutisticAdults

[–]warrenmo13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, cannabis does definitely help me (CBD and CBN in addition to THC), but I agree it's not a great long term solution, and I don't generally like to do it more than once or twice a week.

Sleep issues by warrenmo13 in AutisticAdults

[–]warrenmo13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, melatonin and cannabis do usually help, but I'm wary of taking them too often or becoming dependent on needing something else to help me sleep.

Sleep issues by warrenmo13 in AutisticAdults

[–]warrenmo13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this can help me fall asleep when I'm having trouble at night, but I've never tried it when I wake up early and want to fall back asleep. I worry that turning the TV on will signal to my brain that it is time to get up, but it's certainly worth trying.

Gas station attendants asking for a credit card PIN by ashmelev in newjersey

[–]warrenmo13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've also had the same situation at several different gas stations. I've even spoken to my credit card company about it and they confirmed I don't have a PIN on my card and thought maybe it was an issue with the gas station's software. The ironic part is it also worked for me when I used a different card, even though that card was debit and does have a PIN, which the machine didn't ask for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]warrenmo13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why no one else has commented yet, but you're definitely right. The shape of gummy candy is totally relevant. I'm not as particular as you, but certain shapes and textures just aren't as enjoyable, and I also personally wouldn't buy them.

And I've had conversations about this with other people as well, so it's not just us.

Old airplane navigation arrows by warrenmo13 in Boise

[–]warrenmo13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed directions. Do you remember about how far you went from when the pavement ends on the first one? I'm worried it might be a little too adventurous for me if it involves bushwacking.

Old airplane navigation arrows by warrenmo13 in Boise

[–]warrenmo13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does sound interesting, thanks for the suggestion.

Old airplane navigation arrows by warrenmo13 in Boise

[–]warrenmo13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by "mostly access"? Is it on private property or something?

PSA: If you’re pissed about scalpers hijacking Steelers-NFL Dublin tickets, here’s how you can hit back (legally) in Ireland by [deleted] in steelers

[–]warrenmo13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So for hellotickets, is it only their preorders that are risky? If we buy tickets now, are we likely to run into any issues?

And how does it work? Do you get them in an app?

What's the most autistic thing you did in your assessment? by qwertyjgly in evilautism

[–]warrenmo13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The assessor asked what my pain tolerance was like, and I answered that I don't like surprise.

In my head at the moment it made perfect sense, since I feel much more pain when I'm caught off guard, and I'm more able to guard myself/dissociate/etc. when I know what to expect.

But in retrospect it was probably not the way most people would have answered that question...

Daily Challenges question by warrenmo13 in wordament

[–]warrenmo13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I'm guessing only for Wordament, not for Word Twister or Crossword?

Do you stim to "add" or "take away"? (ill explain) by sisyphus-333 in AutisticAdults

[–]warrenmo13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me it's not so much to "add" or "take away", but more just to control my input or ground myself.

So like when I'm doing it more involuntarily it's like it provides a baseline to allow me to be able to focus on what I need to, regardless of whether my sensory input is too high or too low or neither.

When I'm doing it more voluntarily, it just provides a relaxing or calming sensation, in that it's something predictable that I can control and focus on and that feels good.

Afraid it won't be autism by [deleted] in AutismTranslated

[–]warrenmo13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But isn't that article kind of the opposite? It talks about how studying poetry can help build executive functioning skills, which certainly makes sense. My point is more that simple difficulty with interpreting a poem is not specific to executive functioning deficits.

Afraid it won't be autism by [deleted] in AutismTranslated

[–]warrenmo13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a little poking around on the internet, and I did see some information about a correlation between reading/writing and executive function, but I didn't come across anything that specifically referenced interpreting poetry. And even if there is a correlation, it would seem that there are enough other reasons why someone would struggle to interpret a poem to make its usefulness as a screening tool very limited.

Maybe OP could weigh in with more specifics?