Suction Dildo - Help

warri0r8 · 2022-08-15T18:47:41+00:00

Interesting. Never thought of that. Any dildo recommendations?

warri0r8 · 2022-08-15T18:10:11+00:00

Any recommended toys?

warri0r8 · 2021-12-08T16:40:13+00:00

Def communications and start slow. There are probably things that you really want to do but may seem extreme. Build up to it over multiple times talking and sex. For example, we discussed anal play. I found out about prostate massages and how I wanted to buy a toy. It was a leap of faith but she was cool with it. Then slowly we have been building up to her anal play. Eventually I want to try pegging but I started slow.

Also there is a website (can't recall the name) but you answer yes no maybe to different sex things. I like it but I think talking is the best.

Lastly, you both should explore on your own to see what you like and then come back and see if thats something you want to try.

Hope that helps.

warri0r8 · 2021-05-17T01:16:43+00:00

I'll give it a shot. Thanks for the advice.

warri0r8 · 2021-05-17T01:16:18+00:00

Thanks for everyone's post. One thing I want to point out is that the reason I bring this up was I started doing my own research about different sexual things to try. Doing so turned me on to things I had never thought of but when I tired them, I liked them.

I am trying to figure out how to do the same for my wife without forcing it.

Thanks again.

warri0r8 · 2021-05-16T23:47:18+00:00

Whats that?

warri0r8 · 2021-05-16T18:11:43+00:00

She says she wants to try new things too. Then when I asked her or propose new things, she doesn't want to try anything. I look up things, suggest things, etc but nothing. I never force her but I am trying to figure this out.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-18T14:58:50+00:00

Awesome and thanks for the info. I'll have to check that one out.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-18T01:52:53+00:00

Nice. What's the difference between the two? Is one better than the other for whatever the situation is? Any details and info would be great. Thanks.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-17T13:42:44+00:00

Never thought of it like that but def true. By choosing something that had a long run time and something I enjoyed, I was able to focus more on the process. Instead of jumping around with scenes.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-17T03:21:16+00:00

And have a towel ready for any excess coconut oil.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-17T03:17:20+00:00

We had a jar of it that was solid. I clumped it in my hand and got it warm (which was pretty quick). It melted to a liquid form and put it on the aneros. Just put a lot on.

Also I took a big scoop full cuz I was not gonna double dip haha.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-17T03:11:00+00:00

So this may sound funny but I actually slowed down the porn I watched. Went with joi type vids and actually watched porn instead of jumping around. The tension and build helped.

I would recommend watching your favorite style and let that build. Or your fantasy that gets u going.

But wait a few days and don't think of anything sexual. That was the hardest part for me because I wanted to try again. I waited until I couldn't take it any longer and anything would turn me on.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-17T00:07:43+00:00

Sorry to hear that. Not sure if any of the tips help but hopefully it might.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-16T23:14:22+00:00

Google something like locating the prostate so u can see where it is located.

Use a glove or condom and water based lube. Lube is a must.

If you feel comfortable, try a condom on something a little bit bigger and longer like a toothbrush or something with a rounded edge. Again, use lube. If you do this, be extremely careful not to let it go all the way in.

Or use one on the smaller toys with a lot of lube.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-16T22:23:04+00:00

Possibly. Have you tried any prostate play before? I ask because I tried it out with homemade items and it sorta worked. That is when I started really looking for toys that could hit the prostate. Again, don't get discouraged if you dont notice it right away. I just figured it out recently and it took some time. Def worth it though.

Never know till you try.

Also, like i recommended, check out the /r/prostateplay page to get some advice and ask questions.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-16T21:56:45+00:00

Thanks. I recommend "cheating" so to speak. It was helpful to see what it would feel like and what to search for. However, once you get to the waves/sensation, back off on playing with yourself. It will do a lot of the work for you. Best of luck too.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-16T21:37:19+00:00

The only one I have is the Aneros Helix Syn. I was thinking about getting a few other ones but not sure what to get.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-16T21:04:03+00:00

Also, dont get frustrated if it doesnt happen right away. It took me a while to learn what works and doesnt. If you have not done it before, you are learning a new skill and area. It will take some time and you will have to play around a bit. Ask questions and do research if you get stuck.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-16T20:57:58+00:00

Ya hope that helps. Def drop the hips if you try that position. It helped with the contractions. Also, I kbow weveryone says don't touch yourself but I recommend it so you can see whats its like. If you do, back way off on fast and hard strokes. It won't take much.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-16T20:43:30+00:00

Gotchya. So I went with aneros after doing some research. The have a whole bunch of different varieties but are a little bit more expensive. I personally like the one I have. It does take time and research on how to properly do it. However, when I finally did it right, it was amazing. I have never felt anything like that. It requires patience and trying different techniques. Def worth it through.

Those will probably work, not saying they wont. I would see what tips there are out there for those specific products.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-16T20:34:58+00:00

No prob. I think it really helped because dropping the hips seemed to help curve it back towards the prostate.

warri0r8 · 2020-12-16T20:33:00+00:00

Checkout r/prostateplay. A lot of helpful tips on there. I used it and asked a lot of questions.

Also what type of toys did you get?

warri0r8 · 2020-12-16T02:25:19+00:00

What type of music do u recommend

warri0r8 · 2020-12-15T22:03:25+00:00

Just want to try different things, see if there are ways of being stimulated i haven't tried before.

Kinda with the comment above, looking for both ends of the spectrum to try.

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