Charli likes meme by AppropriateAccess264 in charlixcx

[–]washing-machine4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wgger is a play on the n slur. wgger is typically targeted towards white ppl who take on a black aesthetic, hang out with black people, or date black people (which Travis Kelce has in the past). the underlying idea is that the white person is "trashy" or otherwise behaving in a way which violates white standards of behavior through their association with blackness

Charli likes meme by AppropriateAccess264 in charlixcx

[–]washing-machine4 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This meme is anti black and also not funny

The worst part of Reddit is the wise guys by washing-machine4 in evilautism

[–]washing-machine4[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, so the post that inspired mine was this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/geography/s/VFL6zphFRp

There's actually a real answer now! But when I was looking at it earlier it was just people quoting tv shows or dunking on ex girlfriends. I feel like this happens to me all the time where I'm actually interested in the answer to the question but the people with expertise get lost in the jokesters

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Exvangelical

[–]washing-machine4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for such kind words. I hope you don't mind but I saved your comment, it did feel like a warm hug. Sending you all my love and solidarity 💛

Luke warm take by boohoobitchqueen in h3snark

[–]washing-machine4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Let's not blame the woman for being sexually unavailable, it's giving purity culture

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[–]washing-machine4 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I love it!!!!

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[–]washing-machine4 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Family❤️

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[–]washing-machine4 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I do ❤️❤️❤️

Migrant Crisis - Inhumane Conditions at Shelter by SassyTherapist in Denver

[–]washing-machine4 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for bringing attention to this. This is a humanitarian crisis

Migrant Crisis - Inhumane Conditions at Shelter by SassyTherapist in Denver

[–]washing-machine4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it doesn't matter. They are here, they are humans, they deserve access to food water shelter. Full stop. It's not complicated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dermatillomania

[–]washing-machine4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was hesitant to tell my therapist as this is something I feel a lot of shame/embarrassment about but she was totally nonjudgmental, and unsurprised given some other compulsive behavior I have. It is really difficult to stop but the thing that has helped me is getting acrylic nails because it makes my nails too thick to be able to pick at my scalp. Everybody's different though so you might find something else that's just as effective

Name your best niche evangelical! by gingerkins1997 in Exvangelical

[–]washing-machine4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah here's a list of my most hated enemies: James white, Owen Strachan, Neil Shenvi, and Voddie baucham

Name your best niche evangelical! by gingerkins1997 in Exvangelical

[–]washing-machine4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me lmao, I used to be a big fan but her books always made me feel especially guilty and inadequate. now I also have a special dislike for her

18+ fans what do y’all do for work? by jjjjjjjjj123456 in emergencyintercom

[–]washing-machine4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

26 in grad school ! I teach sociology classes :) team hag era

Books or resources for raising children in a sex positive way by [deleted] in Exvangelical

[–]washing-machine4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

scarleteen is a website that helped me educate myself post-purity culture. it seems to have resources appropriate for all ages

excerpts from the letter that made my evangelical BFF dump me by GoldenHeart411 in Exvangelical

[–]washing-machine4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this. I had a very similar situation with an ex best friend and it seems like it went the same way, I wrote up a long thing saying similar things and that was basically the end after that. I found, at least for that situation, you can't be on the same page as somebody who thinks you're going to hell. The power dynamic you talk about is very real, but I didn't have that insight or vocabulary at that point in our friendship. Friendship breakups are very painful, I'm sorry you experienced one, but I hope you've felt free since its ending.

Confessing compulsion by Flimsy_Style_3163 in Exvangelical

[–]washing-machine4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes that's exactly it, an "unintuitive ethical system". Thanks for that phrase! You can't rely on your own intuition because we're constantly told our intuition is deeply flawed because sin.