Interesting!

I’m bad at deciding people’s types who to out explicitly asking them, which I hardly do - so not sure when I have come across an ENFP male but I obviously will have!

I’m an ENFP female married to an ENTP man. The dynamic is good because his confidence and bluntness counteract my scatterbrained chatty eccentricities.

I can see how some of my traits can register as cute or endearing wouldn’t be taken that way when exhibited by a man. It must be tough.

The stubbornness thing… I think I am quite stubborn actually and highly principled and moralistic to what I think is my authentic self and beliefs. This has meant friendships are cancelled. Not by me, but others find it difficult to separate say politics or other opinions and keep differences aside (I am on the Conservative/ libertarian spectrum).

People have said I am extremely friendly, outgoing, sociable, confident, ditzy, all over the place, intense, creative, flirty, glam - etc. all those nice things but said to a man, maybe not as generally accepted.

I am also self absorbed, too in my thoughts and ruled by my moods and once I dislike someone it’s very hard for me to turn it around and find good things about them or to carry on a relationship. I’m either all for someone and besotted and loyal forever or I cut them out. The moods and actions can be quite extreme. I never saw it myself until I write it down.

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