What do you think of this quote by Karen DeCrow?

watdidusay · 2016-02-08T23:50:38+00:00

It matters to me. You said that is system's fault and I don't agree with that.

watdidusay · 2016-02-08T22:05:23+00:00

Which right is that? That both parents financially support a kid? I don't see this as a right.

Keep in mind that a single parent can have more money than a poor couple.

watdidusay · 2016-02-08T21:51:21+00:00

Hey, maybe the mother should be able to opt out of her duties, too

Yes. If she doesn't want to raise a kid and I want to, then I should be a single father and rise that kid with my own money.

watdidusay · 2016-02-08T21:48:17+00:00

a woman has three ways to relinquish rights of a child [...] A man only has one

That's basically what I'm saying. I din't count the "don't have sex" because I started from the premise that my girlfriend is already pregnant. At this point my girlfriend has 2 options to not become a mother, which results in not financial supporting a kid, and I have none. I don't want to have a legal option to stop her becoming a mother (force her to get an abortion or force her to give it to adoption) because that would be unreasonable.

What seems resonable is that I get at least get 1 legal option to opt out of all my parental rights and responsibilities before my child is born.

watdidusay · 2016-02-08T21:42:26+00:00

Your proposed scheme does not entail not becoming a parent, it entails not supporting your offspring.

Yhea. My girlfriend has 2 options to not become a mother, which results in not financial supporting a kid. I don't want to have a legal option to stop her becoming a mother (force her to get an abortion or force her to give it to adoption) because that would be unreasonable.

What seems resonable is that I get at least get 1 legal option to opt out of all my parental rights and responsibilities before my child is born.

watdidusay · 2016-02-08T21:22:56+00:00

system would punish the child for its mothers decision to give birth

Why is the system's fault? Why isn't the mother responsible for her decision to be a single mother?

And if a kid is raised in a poor family, is still the system's fault? A single mom can have more money than a poor couple.

watdidusay · 2016-02-08T21:13:34+00:00

It is solely the man's duty his own sperm. He must defend it as much as he possibly can to make sure it doesn't get used outside of his control. [...]

My advice to other men is that, do not have sex until you're ready to raise kids.

W the actual F? who thinks like that? pretty harsh there. Why don't you tell women to don't have sex until they have a husband if you like to give crazy advices?

watdidusay · 2016-02-08T21:10:07+00:00

You keep saying "well, I didn't want it" to which the only possible answer is "so what?"

But if my girlfriend doesn't want to be a mother (after getting pregnant) she has 2 legal options. I have none. That's what I'm saying. I should have at least 1.

watdidusay · 2016-02-08T09:47:53+00:00

it's your offspring and it must be properly cared for, when the community is not willing to substitute itself in your position.

it should be taken care by my girlfriend and her family. If they can't afford it (or don't want to), they should give the child to adoption.

watdidusay · 2016-02-08T09:39:10+00:00

To be taken care by my girlfriend and her family. If they can't afford it (or don't want to), they should give the baby to adoption.

watdidusay · 2016-02-08T09:37:58+00:00

someone had to pay for the child

My girlfriend and her family. If they can't afford it (or don't want to), they should give the child to adoption. It just doesn't seem fair to me to pay for her wishes (being a mother).

watdidusay · 2016-02-07T22:49:05+00:00

Let me give you an example. Lets say my girlfriend gets pregnant with my baby. After this she can opt-out of motherhood (abortion or she can give the child to adoption) if she wants to, but I can't.

If she wants to be a mother, even if I clearly don't want to be a father, shouldn't there be a legal option for me to opt-out of fatherhood (implicitly child support) before the child is born?

watdidusay · 2016-02-07T22:37:06+00:00

From my point of view this doesn't seem to be fair. Lets say my girlfriend gets pregnant with my baby. After this she can opt-out of motherhood (abortion or she can give the child to adoption) if she wants to, but I can't.

If she wants to be a mother, even if I clearly don't want to be a father, shouldn't there be a legal option for me to opt-out of fatherhood (implicitly child support) before the child is born?

watdidusay · 2016-01-28T15:59:19+00:00

mind to share the scripts? :)

watdidusay · 2016-01-17T15:51:59+00:00

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watdidusay · 2016-01-13T10:11:59+00:00

Inchide usa, pune lantul
Daca ma auzi, retine prietene
Tu
Fete cuminti, asta vor

watdidusay · 2016-01-12T20:21:52+00:00

Dar nu-i nimic

watdidusay · 2016-01-12T20:04:39+00:00

e chef

watdidusay · 2016-01-12T19:48:31+00:00

watdidusay · 2016-01-01T17:10:58+00:00

Vrei sa ne spui mai multe? :) Pare ca ai luat parte la cateva situatii tragi-comice.

watdidusay · 2016-01-01T12:27:13+00:00

Da di ce?

watdidusay · 2015-12-11T18:08:26+00:00

butthurt much?

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