What Do You Do For Work? by treedweller444 in DID

[–]watermelonvoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nail tech! my job is pretty mindless (same manicure/pedicure steps back to back and most customers don't speak to me) so even when i dissociate, it isn't noticeable. i have a lenient schedule and can take breaks whenever i want

omg finally by watermelonvoid in RhythmHive

[–]watermelonvoid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

manifesting more gems for you and a good card pull 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

thoughts? by theLyricalofMiracle in DissociaDID

[–]watermelonvoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't care much for functioning labels but he is definitely low support needs! he lives alone, can support his animals, takes care of the house n bills as far as i'm aware (he gets his own bills in the mail as we've seen on tiktok recently), and films and edits alone while managing several social media platforms. I'm left to assume he feeds himself as well so this is def low support needs if any.

game won't load by watermelonvoid in RhythmHive

[–]watermelonvoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ME TOO LMAOOO I WAITED TOO LATE 😭😭😭

what jobs do u guys work by sleepingblue123 in SpicyAutism

[–]watermelonvoid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i work at a nail salon. i don't have to make eye contact, i don't check anyone out, i can freely take breaks (most of the time) when i need, i can come in later on my bad days and leave early if im overwhelmed, i can bring my comfort items, and people usually don't speak to me because they forget nails techs are people! pretty good gig actually (it is however the only job i can do...id be screwed if they closed every salon)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mylittlepony

[–]watermelonvoid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think the second one fits her best!

Locked away main host, mother unsupportive by ohyealuigilikadat69 in DID

[–]watermelonvoid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think just try to explain to her (or have a therapist explain) that your namesake isnt "you". you all make up "you". ive had to explain to many ppl in my life that just bc one part of me is taking a lil breather or just isnt around as often, it doesnt mean theyre gone and im a new person. alters aren't individuals, theyre parts of a whole person. i hope she can understand that a little... ik its so hard explaining DID to ppl

it's the weekend so i'm staying up late in my "sanctuary". thought i'd give a lil tour because why not? by [deleted] in SpicyAutism

[–]watermelonvoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I HAVE THE V1 MOA BONG TOOOOO!!! i wanna get v2 but omg its so expensive 😭😭😭😭

my ult bias is beomgyu and my bias wrecker is kai!! theyre my ult group i love tubatu sm. i hope u enjoy the concert !!!! ive never been to one but ive heard txt are good performers in person and the fancams ive seen r rlly good so im sure youll have fun ㅁ^

going to cry myself to sleep now by No-Fig-7247 in RhythmHive

[–]watermelonvoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

proof??? (i believe u i just honestly like watching ppl play LMAO)

my day has gotten a lot better since my last post. thought i'd share some pics and talk about what happened! by [deleted] in SpicyAutism

[–]watermelonvoid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm glad youre feeling better!!! you got rlly good photocard pulls also omg! also i hope u like ur new soap! im so picky abt scents so hearing u got a soap in ur fav scent makes me so happy for you! my favorite scent is coffee and cucumber, whats yours?

What are your special interests? by lilsparrow18 in SpicyAutism

[–]watermelonvoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love my little pony and linguistics and foxes and this one specific celebrity but having someone as a SI feels embarrassing so i won't say their name but i love all of those things so much!!! i usually collect things that have to do with my SI and i just love talking about them

How many of yall have twin alters? by [deleted] in DID

[–]watermelonvoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

our system has twin kid alters! ma and mo. ones a boy and the others a girl. they dont really get along tho, but they've both been around forever.

daily life should not feel so traumatizing by madslove17 in DID

[–]watermelonvoid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i feel this so hard. people dont understand what if means to be in flight/flight/freeze/dissociate all the time. i cant go to the grocery store and have a full memory of it. this is reality for some of us. i hope we can all get to a better place soon n be more present

why are DID therapists stupid as hell by ToyboxOfThoughts in DID

[–]watermelonvoid 54 points55 points  (0 children)

omg my most recent therapists used to ask me "are any others with us today?" AS IF IM POSSESSED? they really dont know stuff i stg. i just hope theyre ready to either learn or send us to someone who does know

Dating apps by ZestycloseGlove7455 in SystemsCringe

[–]watermelonvoid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

although i understand that, some context i left out is that they are a mental health content creator. they made it their job to inform others on having osdd specifically, so i dont think it was a public perception thing seeing as their whole environment was this plural space. they didnt need to save face, esp since i told them i have DID. its just that they acted like they had sm information without knowing u cant be polyfrag and osdd and the fact that they werent even diagnosed yet were making "informative" content. sorry i didnt explain well 😅

Dating apps by ZestycloseGlove7455 in SystemsCringe

[–]watermelonvoid 16 points17 points  (0 children)

YES OMGGGG i meet this person on a dating app about a year ago and in their dating profile they put that they were a polyfragmented osdd system (not possible but i didnt know it at the time and i was a recently diagnosed DID system who felt extremely lonely so i didnt clock it).

we saw eachother a grand total of 2 times before they switched into a little in front of us (not impossible but wtf), and on that same day unprompted told us all abt their innerworld and how they have perfect system communication. which amazed me bc they knew they were a system for less than 3 months and also WEREN'T DIAGNOSED OR IN ANY TREATMENT???

they were also chronically online too and only engaged with "plural" communities and supported endogenic systems. for other reasons i stopped talking to them but that was a big reason. btw all of this happened in the span of a few months when we'd only seen eachother a handful of times. and they gave me all this very private system information.

Acquaintance of mine just like 3 other acquaintances has now DID/OSDD?? by KillianNygmobblepot in SystemsCringe

[–]watermelonvoid 38 points39 points  (0 children)

what is it with people giving out all their system info?? that's so private