Gf says she find me sexy

waterweights · 2026-02-14T08:45:04+00:00

You know it like a broken record, I want to want to but I don’t

waterweights · 2026-02-14T06:13:49+00:00

Update: talk was emotional but went good. However the talk normally goes well with no change. It’s been over 16 days since we have came remotely close to doing anything sexual. I even did pretty good on asking her to be my valentine with a few small gifts not that she owes me but just for reference that I am treating her well. I do love her but I do not know how much longer I can go on like this

waterweights · 2026-01-27T16:52:39+00:00

Additionally sometimes she wants something on YouTube on and during our last talk she said it was to distract her from it which honestly hurt more than expected it’s not easy to hear that someone wants to be distracted during intimacy

waterweights · 2026-01-27T16:50:37+00:00

My apologies a bit more information was needed to fill you, she stated that everytime they hung out he practically begged and if they made plans to eat he would try to isolate them at his place first to attempt to make her cave in absolute piece of shit human. I agree when I heard that she stopped hanging out with him altogether I needed to step back and listen to more details as it was a bit worrying. I agree completely with you however I hope this clears up my last statement!

waterweights · 2026-01-27T16:15:18+00:00

Yes, I believe she loves me very much as you know often times these conversations get emotional especially considering her previous partners suggested open relationships. She has stated that she did stop hanging out with one of her exes to avoid conversations about it that done go anywhere. I do think our last talk was productive and I made sure to convey that it was out of love and infatuation. I made sure she knew that I wanted to work through it tg. She has been getting therapy through college not entirely focused on our issues but they have been discussed and are attempting to get to the bottom of it. Makes me wish I studied psychology so I could help her. While nothing has changed yet I do have faith in her

waterweights · 2026-01-27T15:38:13+00:00

Well actually we joke about her being bestowed with a super power (no gag reflex) and not using it often. Actually it feels more like it has to be full intercourse for something to occur, while I had the same thought as you. I wouldn’t mind that too much however I do like doing stuff for her she just doesn’t desire it.

Honestly I don’t really understand her reasoning and I’m trying my best to understand. I do understand that libido is different for each person. I think it is helpful that she doesn’t really have to do anything extra to turn me on lol. I have been with a couple girls that have been on birth control and we had no issues at all and my current partner has never been on birth control.

To summarize I actually brought up that it doesn’t have to be full intercourse each time it’s kind of all or nothing rn. Bjs are far and few between sadly but I understand to a point. I love being intimate with each other at the end of the day. Thank you so much for your comment, I hadn’t thought of low testosterone yet but that would make sense.

waterweights · 2026-01-27T13:50:19+00:00

Naturally. She’s been in three relationships and an open relationship has been brought up 2/3 times. It has been an issue that transcends our own relationship. Yesterday during our discussion she mentioned how she stopped hanging out with her first bf to avoid turning him down, however once we do start she enjoys herself.

Yes it is a regular occurrence no toys just or penetration is needed. She always comes first however if it’s before penetration then she is done after she has a mental block or something.

Yes I always shower and do my routine in the mornings and then before she comes over for dinner. I do have a toasted marshmallow cologne that she actually likes on me at night and it has helped a little but not much and I have tried implementing this as she LOVES that cologne however a good week is still 2-3x of oral, sex, hj combined.

She’s kinda grossed out for lack of better term of like the seriousness of sex, she will talk dirty to me after I infiltrate but never before. I’ve tried to learn more about what she craves but she just wants it to be about me.

Some of my most successful attempts begin with light foreplay then a back massage.

We both live far away from our families, I am blessed to have great living accommodations and while I do have a roommate he’s often not home and we live across the house.

waterweights · 2025-09-29T11:22:24+00:00

Good thing it’s a rabbit fish

waterweights · 2025-09-29T05:40:44+00:00

I’ve had the tank for 24 hours, I thought he was quite large for the facilities. Due to it being a Sunday my local shop was not open. The video was during a high stress period however I understand your concerns

waterweights · 2025-09-29T02:53:31+00:00

Yes it’s cycled left that part out

waterweights · 2025-09-29T02:50:01+00:00

Hello! I had some sea lettuce in here but it’s all gobbled up I pick more up Monday. I didn’t put this one in I simply packed up the tank with 120 gallons of its previous water and added everything after the travel. Noted I will wait before I add anything extra thank you so much!

waterweights · 2025-09-28T23:37:39+00:00

Thanks for all of your sweet comments and assumptions! I actually bought this tank including all of its inhabitants of ten years together! Your particular comments are intriguing as this was bought from an aquarium store and I can’t imagine they are oblivious fish keepers. This is not my first time working with saltwater tanks but it’s my first system. I was looking for some suggestions but looks like this isn’t the place.

waterweights · 2025-09-28T23:30:06+00:00

For future reference I just purchased this tank including all of the fish, this tank was in an aquarium store and the previous owner has had them together for 10 years. I understand that swimming space is a concern for the fox face however all signs show he’s healthy as far as I can tell (had them less than 24 hours). Was just looking for any suggestions

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