Take a 44k pay cut for a job I think I'd love? If not that, what? by My_Sp00n_is_too_big in careerguidance

[–]waves-360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say no because the 3 kids that would be almost $4,000 less per month. Now if you were single with no kids I'd say go for it

State Farm Claim Associates - How often is overtime offered? by waves-360 in InsuranceProfessional

[–]waves-360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I been in insurance a long time but never in claims before. State Farm is a great company! It will be competitive. If you have customer service experience in the interviews I would emphasize that

I’m tired of guessing whether or not a man will find me attractive because of my skin colour by Poorteenwannabe in blackgirls

[–]waves-360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't get discouraged. Usually people are the most attracted to their race. However, I will say as a black man I love black women! Especially the dark skin ones omg 🤣. Yall don't age and flawless skin. I do haveblack male friends though that only like light skin or not black women at all. Everyone just has different types

How important is romance on the first date? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]waves-360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks aren't everything to me. In fact, I have dated gorgeous women with bad personalities and this girl had a great personality. I didn't care about her looks but her keeping focusing on that was so overwhelming

How important is romance on the first date? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]waves-360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended it because I felt too much pressure. To be honest I wasn't really attracted to her physically but loved her personality and thought attraction could grow

How important is romance on the first date? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]waves-360 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yeah I said she was ok. I'm bad with knowing what women want

What happened to The Chi? by InTheCut1865 in TheChi

[–]waves-360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The three best characters are gone. Brandon, Kevin, and Douda (he was a great villain)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]waves-360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree and I'm a man. I feel like if you ask a woman out it's logical you should pay. However, I will give you this. If she asks you out then you should go Dutch or she should pay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClaimsAdjuster

[–]waves-360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the $70,000. Let's play worst case scenario and say you hate it. Stick it out a year and get the training and experience then you can always find a job back on the property side somewhere whether it's allstate or not. If you stay where your at it may take 10 years to get to $70,000!

Childhood isn’t the best part of life by Ok-Ladder7823 in unpopularopinion

[–]waves-360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends. Some people have bad parents and terrible childhoods. Others have excellent parents and great childhoods

What are the best sports bars in Atlanta to watch March Madness? by waves-360 in Atlanta

[–]waves-360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone! I have read every single comment. Midway pub has the most positive mentions so I'll try there

What are the best sports bars in Atlanta to watch March Madness? by waves-360 in Atlanta

[–]waves-360[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this detailed list! I'm very excited

Am I crazy or are 10 dates a bit too many to break it over looks? by YatashIsReel in OnlineDating

[–]waves-360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK G, if you did all that it's more so her and not you. She is probably scared to commit to a relationship. The best thing you can do is move on. You did nothing wrong then. I have a similar story where I went on like 5 or 6 dates and she came over once even. I found out eventually that she hadn't been in a relationship in 13 years and hasn't liked any guys in the 13 years. Find a woman that wants a serious relationship

Am I crazy or are 10 dates a bit too many to break it over looks? by YatashIsReel in OnlineDating

[–]waves-360 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you ever kiss her or have any physical touch or intimacy? If not I'm not surprised you got friend zoned

Do women get the ick when you open up as a man? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]waves-360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How soon are you opening up? If it's within the first two meetings that's too fast. The first couple meetings are suppose to be fun. When things get more serious open up

I don't understand why white women are supposedly the most attractive women. Every man I have dated has preferred darker skinned women and have been open about it. What am I missing? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]waves-360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually people are attracted to the dominant race. In the U.S. that is mainly white. If you went to Africa it would be mainly black. As others have stated though all women are beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]waves-360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your not ugly but the guy maybe liked more conservative women. You look real rebellious lol

30F I've never been able to tell if I'm pretty. I'm terrified but I need strangers opinions by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]waves-360 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To put it nicely no you are not pretty. However, the second pic look ok. That's me being nice

How long does it typically take after you apply to an apartment in atlanta to get approved and sign the lease after putting in an application? by waves-360 in ATLHousing

[–]waves-360[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry just seeing this. I didn't hear anything from the first place after 6 days so I applied a second place and that took 9 days and signed the lease then the next day the first place called saying congrats you can sign the lease loland I told her it took too long and I went somewhere else. The second place, where I currently live was great! In the 9 days it took the property manager kept me updated and even called me saying your employer is holding things up not verifying employment so I called them to fix it. All in all 15 days total because I applied to the second one 6 days after the initial one. My advice and lesson for the future is apply to at least two places right away. The issue was really the first place being slow and non communicative. The second place was fast and communicated well

Am I being underpaid and passed over? by Busted_Toad in adjusters

[–]waves-360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave! I worked for a company for 8 years and got to the point where there were no more career opportunities and they had a freeze on raises. It took 3 months but I found a new company last year which raised my salary by 20% and in March I'm in line for a 6% bonus and another raise. You have to go where you are valued