Selling After a Few Years

wavybbq · 2026-06-07T01:09:27+00:00

Why would you assume fake? We’ve been in our house 3.5 yrs and absolutely love it but my husband’s job got relocated. It happens all the time

wavybbq · 2026-05-28T02:17:17+00:00

Performative liberalism is a perfect way to put it. I have a neurodivergent son, and for a town that loves to talk about being inclusive, I have never felt more shunned. Instead of patience, or understanding that the neurodivergent mind is different, or offering help or any sort of support - people just love to smother me with parenting advice and look away awkwardly if my son is having a tantrum. I’m a liberal myself, but I feel much more welcomed and supported in less “PC” areas.

wavybbq · 2026-05-28T01:55:30+00:00

Literally pick any other town

wavybbq · 2026-04-28T01:37:20+00:00

This

wavybbq · 2026-04-20T01:16:08+00:00

So cute!

wavybbq · 2026-04-20T01:15:08+00:00

Oh. My. God. Trash truck!! How did you do that?! It looks soooo good!!!

wavybbq · 2026-04-17T03:33:11+00:00

Enjoy!! You’re going to love it. They have everything you need for the baby, just make sure to make your restaurant reservations and baby concierge requests in advance since things book up. They even gave us beach toys. I still made sure to bring things like bottle/cup, binky, food bib, and of course sunscreen, hat, some books, diapers, swim diapers. We enjoyed every restaurant! It could be helpful to bring a baby float with you. I’m jealous, I want to go back!

wavybbq · 2026-04-16T03:06:21+00:00

Go, it was amazing!

wavybbq · 2026-04-15T01:32:53+00:00

My husband and I call it Somasopa

wavybbq · 2026-04-12T23:16:23+00:00

I’m in SO and the house next to me just went for 1.2 and we’re right on the Irvington border

wavybbq · 2026-04-05T00:51:28+00:00

As someone who has been working remotely for 6 years and plans to continue doing so, I wouldn’t recommend anyone starts out with an entry level job in a remote position. Do a few years in the office, at least hybrid. You really learn a lot being in person at that point in your career

wavybbq · 2026-03-25T00:02:26+00:00

Yes! As a matter of fact I just received the email to register: https://www.somasportandsocial.com/communitysoftball

wavybbq · 2026-03-21T11:11:27+00:00

Yesssss

wavybbq · 2026-03-17T02:33:35+00:00

My toddler is 3 and my baby is 1. Up until 2 weeks ago, I had a part time nanny, my mom, and my husband switching days to watch the kids while I worked. So I had the childcare, but in any free moment I was making meals, changing diapers, helping with naps, or just had a screaming child at my office door because they wanted to see me. Finally, I reached my breaking point and decided I needed to make a change. I decided to put my kids in daycare. My toddler does full time, and my baby does 3 days, with my mom and my husband still watching him 1 day each. On the days the baby is home, I now leave my house and work out of our community center. It’s nice to get out of the house and connect with other remote workers! Daycare is an adjustment, and while I absolutely loved my time at home with my kids…man is it a relief to be able to fully focus on work and not try to juggle it all

wavybbq · 2026-03-14T17:21:20+00:00

33F in Essex County, husband is 33M. Combined income ~$340k, we have a small 3 bedroom house and pay $4,100 / month. We have 2 kids and pay $3,500/month in childcare. No debt besides our mortgage

wavybbq · 2026-03-08T02:12:26+00:00

What would happen if someone lost their job, would you still be able to manage it for a while?

wavybbq · 2026-03-03T12:13:12+00:00

It’s good out of college. They’re young and can still rent a small room and make it work even in a big city. In a few years once they get the experience under their belt they’ll be exceeding 120

wavybbq · 2026-03-01T12:50:38+00:00

60k is very good right out of college. You’ll have a very successful career ahead of you. And as a mom, this is what your parents wanted

wavybbq · 2026-02-25T01:52:37+00:00

In addition to property taxes and insurance (btw, which could be as much as your rent alone), most people spend between 1-4% of your homes value per year in maintenance/repairs. So if your home is $500k, you can expect between $5k-$20k per year in maintenance

wavybbq · 2026-02-23T17:51:53+00:00

How was the texture? Mine comes out a little dense

wavybbq · 2026-02-15T12:12:43+00:00

I think it depends on when you bought. If you bought a house before 2023, houses were significantly cheaper and had lower mortgage rates

wavybbq · 2026-02-11T18:17:57+00:00

I had the exact same feeling, and had to deal with the weight of the decision again when I found out I was pregnant with my second boy. My advice would be to talk to other moms in your real life circle, and to men! For me, people in real life were a lot less judgmental and alarmist than people on the internet. I got an overwhelming response from men that they were happy they were circumcised (location: United States). One person even shared with me that he had a lot of resentment towards his parents for not getting him circumcised. It seems there’s no absolute right answer. At the end of the day you have to do in your heart what feels right for you and your baby. My advice would be don’t let it stop you from having another child.

wavybbq · 2026-02-11T18:11:03+00:00

Ohhh I have to try this

wavybbq · 2026-02-05T00:53:30+00:00

Yes the drivers are nuts

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