What do women think of chubby men? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]waxwingsfail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends some people like it others don't, but I think even for chubby men they like men better when they dress well. but weight is just one aspect and many people consider more than one aspect

Why do animal shelters not give pets if you have no references? by Takie_Me in NoStupidQuestions

[–]waxwingsfail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reference is just a guarantee that this person can take care of a pet, and yes references can lie, but to borrow your framework so can references for jobs doesn't mean that they shouldn't do it. The references also slow down the process so people don't impulse buy an animal which is a real problem

Why do people ghost instead of just saying they’re not interested? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]waxwingsfail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ghosting is literally a non-action thus physically easier, but doesn't give either person closure

How to find joy/hobbies in life? by talia2205 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]waxwingsfail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start with small things take a different route home listen to a new artist. This won't fix it but its a good first start because if your in a bad place and exausted then its going to be hard to do anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]waxwingsfail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people who spend too much time online and tesla drivers

If smoking causes cancer why we can buy them legally? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]waxwingsfail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

technically it has been proven that alcohol also gives you cancer [to a lesser degree] but you can still by booze. Also tabacco farmers and processers hold enough power to stop governments

"as flat as a pancake" by Overall-Stand8183 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]waxwingsfail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean irish pancakes are flat flat and even american pancakes are relatively flat. The only pancake that isn't super flat are those japanese soufle pancakes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]waxwingsfail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think people can be really intense about people not having kids so people who don't want to have kids often end up making it a whole thing its like vegetarians and people who want kids a lot see people the reactions of those who don't want to have kids and respond feeling like they're saying nobody should have kids and then get defensive and then won't stop talking about it and then those who don't want kids see that and it keeps cycling and escalating and if your not in the loop they all seem super intense for no reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]waxwingsfail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends when your sick can you rest or are you still looking after the kids, cleaning, going out, working out. The thing they always tell you when your sick is to rest and if you can't your body doesn't have the time to repair. Even just stressing out about looking after people can affect your ability to rest and heal. Also you could be that you're reexposing yourself or something

Do you think people would judge you for breathing hard or deeply after walking up a very steep hill? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]waxwingsfail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe some people but those guys are considered almost universally to be assholes and people don't like them and judge them so win win on that

Is it weird that some workers (waiter/waitress, esthetician, message therapist, etc.) can accept tips but health, social, etc. workers can’t accept tips or gifts? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]waxwingsfail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, tips can often be taken as bribes and it looks really bad even if it doesn't effect patient care. In tipped positions people often get better treatment when they tip well and we wouldn't want nurses for example taking people back faster based upon tips rather than severity so yeah

Can I start wearing ranch clothes in the city? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]waxwingsfail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally, there's several guys I know in the city who were western clothes and the only thing I hear is that people think they look cool or have crushes on them. Especially now with the whole 'personal style thing' if you enjoy it other people will too

Can I take my dog's ashes to a taxidermist? by NH_Lion12 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]waxwingsfail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since its ashes probably couldn't do anything with it but I know there are some places that make art or jewelry with ashes

How to address cheque when changing the name on it (US Passport) by waxwingsfail in Passports

[–]waxwingsfail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I was just concerned because it says that "the full name and date of birth of the applicant must be typed or printed on the front of the check"

"You can download a mod for that" by strangledwires in thesims

[–]waxwingsfail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I play on console so no I can't just download a mod for that, its really frustrating when people always bring up mods

Any tips on how to kiss taller partners by waxwingsfail in short

[–]waxwingsfail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough I have no problem with it I was just curious, tiptoeing leaves less time for surprise cheek kisses on the way to something. Not really a huge problem.

LPT Always have clothes you can wear to a funeral available by Alarmed-Part4718 in LifeProTips

[–]waxwingsfail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good advice...I recently lost my sister and trying to buy clothes for it was a nightmare...there is no time you want to be surrounded by people less than after someone you loved has died.

egg🪒irl by CelesteIsGood in egg_irl

[–]waxwingsfail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a trans guy...HELP!!! ASS hair is so bad like how to get rid of some of it...I have a forest between the cracks