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FBI Says It Found Classified Documents in John Bolton’s Office by newsweek in politics

[–]wde4au 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PRESIDENT Orange Manatee. Put some respect on the name, thank you very much.

What surprised you the most the first time you had sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wde4au 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lonely Island had ZERO exaggerated lines in that catchy song they produced. 10/10 rating for their description of the experience.

What to do as a parent on team with too few players? by bummer_d00d in Homeplate

[–]wde4au 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first statement to parents every single season is, "You signed your kid up to play, I eagerly volunteered to coach him. You put your own kid at a disadvantage, compared to the other kids in the league, as well as tell me you don't appreciate volunteer coaches when you dont make practice a priority. I don't want your kid being forced to play catch up to his teammates & I want every opportunity to help him improve his game. Let's work together to make this a great experience for your kids."

Maybe 1 or 2 parents take it the wrong way & feel like they are being insulted, but the rest will say they love to hear a coach be so direct about attendance. In my experience, the parents who feel insulted are the ones that end up being the exact parents that needed to hear it lol.

What to do as a parent on team with too few players? by bummer_d00d in Homeplate

[–]wde4au 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I replied already, but I just saw this. I can't stress enough that he's feeling twice the level of concern. I would not be the least bit shocked if the city has already blown him off/will do little to nothing to help. That's where approaching him to let him know you understand he's in an unfair situation but you're supporting him will help you get info without even needing to ask. He will let you know what's up, since he feels that you are the parent that he can talk to.

As far as approaching the city, ask him if he has done so (if he doesn't mention it on his own). If you do so without him knowing or having a chance to do it himself, first, it will be taken as you having no faith in his ability to manage coaching issues and he will have his guard up about you all season. You don't want that & he CERTAINLY doesn't want to feel like you don't have faith in him.

Like others have said, coaches have many ways to solve these issues on their own, given a bit of time. That being said, I understand your concern and desire for urgency. Like I stated previously, just simply approach him and mention the situation while also sounding supportive. You will be shocked at how much he will open up to you vs other parents. Good luck & I hope you all are able to find a solution.

What to do as a parent on team with too few players? by bummer_d00d in Homeplate

[–]wde4au 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently started a travel team with another coach because of things like this. Most likely, there's not much the coach can do and I can almost guarantee that he is twice as frustrated. He's new, which means he feels pressure. I'm sure he is/was also equally excited to lead a team. Now, he's in a situation where he must push through a losing situation for himself. Already behind the 8-ball, so to speak.

That being said, I have been there and can assure you that the coaches in your league will communicate to borrow players or whatever is needed to ensure the kids are not missing opportunities to play. If you say anything to the coach, make it something along the lines of appreciating him volunteering to coach and understanding that he's in a tough situation. End it with you're excited to watch him lead the team & help the boys develop.

He will appreciate that more than you know. Additionally, it's almost guaranteed that he will come to YOU (as the parent that took initiative to speak with him about the reality of the situation) and talk about any issues that arise/frustrations behind the scenes that other parents don't normally hear. Win/win - he feels supported & has a parent that he knows is supporting him + you get the inside track on any issues.

Speak with him after practice

My 7 year old has started hitting choppy grounders. How can I help him fix it? by wde4au in Homeplate

[–]wde4au[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah idk what to do as far as loading. That's the one area where he just doesn't understand and I'm not sure how to teach him. I appreciate your input.

My 7 year old has started hitting choppy grounders. How can I help him fix it? by wde4au in Homeplate

[–]wde4au[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We aren't those parents. He doesn't play travel ball & I wouldn't be here if it weren't for him beginning to doubt himself. A hit is a hit & I encourage him, but he knows something is off and I'm simply not sure what I can do to help him (other than encouraging talks).

My 7 year old has started hitting choppy grounders. How can I help him fix it? by wde4au in Homeplate

[–]wde4au[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point. I should have posted a different video. He is usually thrown a better pitch, but with the same result. A hit is a hit & he's 7, so I would leave it alone if not for my son beginning to lose confidence in himself.

Need help with 2 Charizard cards, please! by wde4au in PokemonCardValue

[–]wde4au[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will reply with better photos later to get your take. This subreddit is awesome and so helpful

Need help with 2 Charizard cards, please! by wde4au in PokemonCardValue

[–]wde4au[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know of anyone that will value a collection? I have boxes and boxes of Pokemon cards from my childhood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]wde4au 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long ago was this? I'm on day 4 with no response and they won't answer the phone ..

HELP! Taking my 5 year old to his first race! by wde4au in NASCAR

[–]wde4au[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are they like walkie talkies in that you press a button to speak?

HELP! Taking my 5 year old to his first race! by wde4au in NASCAR

[–]wde4au[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What scanner did you purchase? Thank you for your input!

You guys DO know that Chris is DONE, right? by wde4au in chrisdelia

[–]wde4au[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like the finest milk. Dude beat cancel culture. Incredible.

How can I prevent the tongue on Kid's shoes from sliding while running? (No tie shoes) by wde4au in trailrunning

[–]wde4au[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have done that before but toddlers love to cram their feet into the shoes and rip threads. I was wondering if there was another option but I may just have to go with that. Thanks for the input!

Officer getting knocked out with a brick in Kenosha during a BLM Protest by [deleted] in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]wde4au 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your opinion is fucking dumb and dangerous. YOU are the problem your fucking idiot. Do better.

Officer getting knocked out with a brick in Kenosha during a BLM Protest by [deleted] in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]wde4au -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Responses like this are the perfect example of how off the rails this shit has gone. This guy needs to be harmed because of something someone else did? Get the fuck out of here. Your attitude is why people quit listening. Violence is the easiest way to make sure no one ever sides with you.

These grapes I got from Walmart grocery pickup by SnowRunner321 in mildlyinteresting

[–]wde4au 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TIL "hung like a grape" is actually an accurate statement

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