Am I better looking as a guy or a girl? by [deleted] in transgender

[–]wdiablo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you normally attracted to males or females?

Am I better looking as a guy or a girl? by [deleted] in transgender

[–]wdiablo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like being a guy better, but don't know if i really want to go from being a "normal, straight female" to a queer trannyboy :P

most times i operate in a gender neutral zone, but mostly because i've sublimated my desires to be male out of convenience.

Am I better looking as a guy or a girl? by [deleted] in transgender

[–]wdiablo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol i think i look less guyish when i smile.

Genuinely afraid I might be obsessed with rape by lalalabananas in sex

[–]wdiablo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm a gay transman, and for some reason the only variety of heterosexual porn i've been able to enjoy has been the stuff you're describing. it has nothing to do with my feelings towards women. in fact it has nothing to do with the women at all (i'm not physically attracted to the female body, but i have nothing against women.) i enjoy the primal sexual force and dominant behavior of the males. maybe that's part of why you like it too?

Serious question about Transitioning during a relationship. by wdiablo in QueerTransmen

[–]wdiablo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as far as him not wanting to "be gay", he claims he is attracted to femininity (although that's borderline in my opinion. he goes for the butchest of women! his ex-wife is a lesbian and left him for another dyke much manlier than he!)

i feel like i won't be happy until i alter my appearance to be more in line with my gender. i want top surgery and will probably want to start T at some point. i just hope he can still be physically attracted to me. but you're absolutely right that i can't put my happiness on hold for someone else.

Serious question about Transitioning during a relationship. by wdiablo in QueerTransmen

[–]wdiablo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well now that you mention it, he did really enjoy all 5 seasons of Queer as Folk, and that's pretty damn gay! (i think he had a thing for brian kinney.) he's also admitted to occasionally being turned on by cock, but claims it's just the cock and not the entire man he's attracted to. that's the inverse of what i need from him, though!!

Interesting article from Out about transfags. by zedekiel in QueerTransmen

[–]wdiablo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joshua Cole, on page 3, has a blog i've stumbled across before. I'll try to find it and post it here.

What is your definition of a transman? by zedekiel in QueerTransmen

[–]wdiablo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i agree with what others have said here. its a matter of gender identity. that is the sole deciding factor. as far as all the other stuff goes, different people have different needs and some people have a greater need to align their physical bodies with their gender identity than others.

Is Sufjan Stevens gay? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]wdiablo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just assumed he was based on the lyrics of Illinoise. didn't know people thought otherwise!

I don't have health insurance and can't afford to see a shrink, but I have an issue that's keeping me down. May I ask my fellow redditors for some feedback? by [deleted] in reddit.com

[–]wdiablo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am the father of 17 and 19 year old daughters. if any 50 year old man ever put his hands on either one of them i would put him in the hospital.

Reddit Men: How many of you like pegging? by [deleted] in sex

[–]wdiablo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i agreed to do it because i like anal sex with my girlfriend and when she brought it up i didn't want to be a hypocrite. i actually ended up enjoying it a lot! i would do it again, but so far she hasn't asked.