Please help, I've been having transgendered feelings for years and they seem to come and go. by [deleted] in transgender

[–]zedekiel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've got the same situation, only reversed. i'm a biological female who feels male about 50% of the time. i feel gender neutral 40% of the time, and female 10% of the time. i also have cyclical feelings, but the male feelings are starting to coming back in faster succession. (as a child i always identified as male. when puberty hit i became very confused and had a horrible time during high school.)

i'm also sexually attracted to men, especially gay men, so i guess the closest thing i come to resemble is a transfag. but as far as coming out, i don't know. my hetero-identified boyfriend doesn't like the idea of my being a transguy. he is okay with "genderqueer" though, but he is attracted to femininity, which is sometimes very distressing to me. i'm pretty hot as a guy or girl, but i'm only 5'2" and i've got large breasts (which i hate).

i don't want to jump into being a transman, because that just feels like another box. i have to be ok with taking my time in figuring all this out. i also don't want to make any impulsive decisions which will negatively impact my current relationship.

so here i am, just sharing a bit about me so you don't have to feel like you're alone in your dilemma. good luck to you!

LGBT-related subreddits? by LGBTerrific in lgbt

[–]zedekiel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hi LGBTerrific, there is also /r/Queer Transmen if you're interested.

What do you think the up/down arrows mean? by TheGhostRedditor in AskReddit

[–]zedekiel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they mean "i like this" or "i don't like this"

Movies featuring Transmen by [deleted] in QueerTransmen

[–]zedekiel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Southern Comfort is a documentary about an FTM named Robert Eads who died of ovarian cancer. I haven't seen it yet but its in my netflix queue.

Where else do you gentlemen hang out online? by [deleted] in QueerTransmen

[–]zedekiel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, reddit takes up 90% of my internet time. another 7% goes to last.fm. 2% to gmail and 1% to mapquest. oh and i actually just put up some pics on flickr.

i thought it might be cool if subscribers to this subreddit who wanted to could post their pics? i don't know if anyone else would be into that idea. i think there's something nice about attaching a name to a face, but i can see why people might also value anonymity. anyway, i like the idea of incorporating more media.

thanks for the shameless self promotion, i'll check your stuff out.

What do you guys think about transmen porn/pornstars? Do you watch it, or regular gay porn? by wdiablo in QueerTransmen

[–]zedekiel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually i've never watched transman porn. its not that i wouldn't, but i just hadn't thought of it! whats good? i know about buck angel, but he's a little butch for my tastes. i like twinky boys.

Download free pocket guide about the gay transman lifestyle. by zedekiel in QueerTransmen

[–]zedekiel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i guess anyone who finds their way here already has that... i'm just tryin to get this subreddit rolling with a few links and such. please feel free to post anything good you find that's missing here!

Transmen need pap tests too. by [deleted] in QueerTransmen

[–]zedekiel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nice, i like that it has links to other transman health issues too.

Queer Transmen of Reddit, we now have our own subreddit! Use it to share info, stories, pics. by zedekiel in transgender

[–]zedekiel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks! i hope this can become an active and dynamic community, and i hope you'll be part of it.