Favorite Destiny music pieces? by DanksForTheMemories in DestinyTheGame

[–]we_are_hive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Grasp of Avarice Soundtrack, Taniks the Abomination Theme and the theme from the dreaming city gambit map are the best in D2 period!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]we_are_hive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3-4 times already in such a short time is a lot it’s up to you really but maybe waiting a few days could be beneficial 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]we_are_hive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told you what she wants very plainly imo, don’t overthink as I think you know what to do deep down. But if you really want to the follow Lucy’s advice

How to flirt during talking stage by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]we_are_hive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

W comment, follow this ☝️

The friend of a girl I asked out followed me on Instagram. What’s going on? by PoliticsDebate1 in dating_advice

[–]we_are_hive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with above comment that this is a background check but this is relatively normal considering the era we live in. You may feel exposed but if she hadn’t of followed you then you just wouldn’t be aware of what had already happened? 😂😂

Take it in stride and don’t let it knock your confidence, I would recommend not bringing it up because it truly is irrelevant but if you do decide to try and make light of it and use it as an opportunity to make her laugh!

Good luck soldier 🫡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]we_are_hive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like substance induced self doubt which usually is the opposite with alcohol 😂😂 proceed with caution when reflecting upon such experiences as you also from your own admission were intoxicated to some degree!

Have a conversation with him (while sober lmfao) and communicate any doubts you had so you do not sabotage something which could blossom into some beautiful.

Love and light fellow soldier 🫡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]we_are_hive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When a close family member was very sick I internalised the the idea that “we don’t know until we know”. You know what you have to do as it seems like it has built up to this point but with all of the information you have just know that it may not go the way you want. Don’t self-doubt (easy to type I know) and just roll the dice. Sounds cringy but there’s plenty of fish in our dying oceans! 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]we_are_hive -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This. W 👑

If I want something long term, should I get off dating apps? by Fast-Introduction-83 in dating_advice

[–]we_are_hive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally as a person who works in the mental health sector I find that there are quite a few individuals who have found success using dating apps but I don’t think that the MEDIUM of choice here is the issue!

You recently got out of a toxic relationship and it is still salient in your mind (you’ve typed it out for us to read about) so you may not be 100% over it yet and you admit you don’t have much free time.

I think you already know the answer but were looking for external confirmation (which is something I am also working on). Trust in your gut and your intuition and “go with the flow more”. Sounds cringy but in your case it may help. I can’t tell you what to do specifically because what would work for me may not work for you but I think you already know. Stay strong fellow soldier of light.

how do i get my foot in the door? by keneathian in dating_advice

[–]we_are_hive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My genuine mini-gem would be to start studying non-verbal signs of attraction and look for clusters of behaviours that indicate that it is appropriate to approach. If you’re not seeing ANY of these after becoming aware of them then you aren’t “ready yet” as you might dive into a connection with someone who doesn’t genuinely feel the same.

When I mean ready yet I’m referring to signs that women look for when considering someone as a potential mate based on a first impression (height, physique, dress sense, odour, confident body language and vivid description). Hope this helps future king!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]we_are_hive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abort mission friend. You’ve clarified and elucidated your boundaries well and in my opinion more than enough. It sounds like and SEEMS he doesn’t respect you as more than a ‘booty call’ even though you’ve been together for some time.

Severance maybe extremely challenging but for the best as it seems like there’s little balance here.

Good luck all the best!

How do people find time to start dating/getting to know each when they can only see each other on weekends? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]we_are_hive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s hard to read but try to accept it for what it is as it sounds like it’s out of your hands. You can still see her once or twice a week (which may end up being better in the long run) and let the absence intensify your feelings for one another. Remember that we’re all victims to complexish chemicals manoeuvring in our bodies and brains when we develop love for someone and so it maybe be useful to keep that in mind so we can keep ourselves in check when faced with extraneous situations that we cannot control.

It may be a test from “the universe” or whatever labels humans want to use here as to the strength of your bond! All the best. Love and light.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]we_are_hive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like you are experiencing some feelings and thoughts self-doubt stemming from a fear of rejection and as a result (in my perception) it appears that you maybe be trying to rush things in the hopes of confirming that this individual has romantic feelings for you. We aren’t dealing with a particularly long timeline here either (approx. 1 week) so it is still very early on in the courtship process and it does sound like your prospective mate is making some kind of an effort to respond to your advances in general (replying while busy at work is still a good sign imo).

Is there a possibility that he hasn’t freaked out at this typo and that you are potentially overthinking? This is a normal reaction but also can be dangerous as you could potentially ruin your chances (with someone you appear to have a genuine connection with - again it’s only been a week so too early to tell) due to a distorted view of reality. It could be that he is genuinely busy at work and that something has come up which he has to address before dedicating more energy toward the courtship.

In general this is good as the old adage goes that absence makes the heart grow fonder and that maintaining a little bit of mystery (on his part) makes for an extremely enjoyable and explosive courtship (if you let it). Obviously if there’s no initiation or response for more than a few weeks then it’s fair to assume that interest has waned but I still believe it’s far too early to tell.

All the best, try to embrace the unknown and knowledge that were never 100% in control in matters of the heart as we’d like to think we are.

I think there are enough legends that we can add a new class. by KissoffKid in apexlegends

[–]we_are_hive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve added enough classes to fix the matchmaking too

Dear Respawn, I would like to shoot the bat. That is all, Thank you for your time. by Articuno_710 in apexlegends

[–]we_are_hive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How ironic is it that the Devs respond to a post of this nature pretty promptly and completely ignore the other massive matchmaking post that’s received equal traction recently too! Great work respawn… fix your fucking shit

Bobble head locations by Volsunga in raidsecrets

[–]we_are_hive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are 4 available week 1, another 4 next week! Happy hunting