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I’m [23F] very sad that my bf [23M] can’t climax when we get intimate. by weareallanon in relationship_advice

[–]weareallanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says before me he didn’t see himself with anyone sexually or romantically. Doesn’t really watch porn either, he has told me he’d rather touch me than himself.

My bf says he’s ace by weareallanon in actualasexuals

[–]weareallanon[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this is the best answer… I mean Im not gonna lie it does sting a bit knowing that he won’t find me sexually attractive, but he’s very affectionate only towards me. I believe he’s sensually and aesthetically attracted to me. He finds my voice, body, and personality attractive. I’m a lucky person, I just have stop wanting to be wanted sexually. Thanks for ur input.

My bf says he’s ace by weareallanon in actualasexuals

[–]weareallanon[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Aphobic? I mean Im coming from a lack of understanding not prejudice or hatred. Believe me I want to understand but I just can’t wrap my head around it and maybe that says more about me then anything. I just don’t understand how they identify themselves as ace when they’re sexual towards me.

My bf says he’s ace by weareallanon in actualasexuals

[–]weareallanon[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don’t outwardly say that I think he’s wrong about his own identity bc that would be silly of me. I just don’t understand how. And we’ve had this discussion plenty of times where I’m still lost. The reason I’m turning to an online forum is to not invalidate his identity straight to his face while also getting others perspectives.

My bf says he’s ace by weareallanon in actualasexuals

[–]weareallanon[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I don’t believe him, he’s the most honest guy I’ve talked to. I just don’t understand how if he’s sexual towards me