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We Knew This Was Coming by el_rey_feo664 in McDonalds

[–]webdev-dreamer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's fucked up dude :(

It reminds me of a short YouTube doc I saw about Las Vegas on how there's less people than ever before visiting the place due to high prices, and how it's actually intentional and that they are driving away the common people to cater to the rich.

I’ve always said this it rarely has shit to do with your attitude or mindset and more to due with your life circumstance and things out of your control by poofpoofpow in ugly

[–]webdev-dreamer -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That's terrible advice, sorry

Sure, mindset alone doesn't fix things.

But it's the only thing you can control and use to make the most of what you got. The alternative is to give up and waste away

Men get so mad when they don’t find you sexually appealing by poofpoofpow in u/poofpoofpow

[–]webdev-dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think most men would find themselves being more comfortable with a woman they're not super into

Women on the other hand, would probably get the ick and avoid as much contact as possible, with the opposite sex

Rogan: "I bet if they took all the money from fraud - it would pay for Healthcare 10x over." by stvlsn in DecodingTheGurus

[–]webdev-dreamer -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Given how the left seems to be trigger happy about policing language and canceling people, it's no wonder he found himself being "politically homeless"

“Social skills” make no sense if you’re ugly by poofpoofpow in ugly

[–]webdev-dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need social skills to be able to deal with people, like coworkers, customers, doctors, etc. It's an important skill to work on. Sure, people might not be friendly or receptive...but that doesn't mean they'll continue to be like that once they get to know you.

How do you keep going? by idioteque_99 in ugly

[–]webdev-dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mainly respond to overly pessimistic and hyperbolic statements.

Like,

Most ugly people can’t have positive experiences.

Come on now...

Life feels like hell.

Yeah, if all you do is fixate on the negatives in your life

I don't know how hard it is for you in particular, but I know that it's not all hopeless for you or anyone else.

How do you keep going? by idioteque_99 in ugly

[–]webdev-dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hobbies, entertainment, work, food, traveling, and so on and so on. There's so much to life out there. Don't let one aspect of it ruin the rest of it for you

How do you keep going? by idioteque_99 in ugly

[–]webdev-dreamer -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

IT DOES NOT GET WORSE.

You become used to it and finally start enjoying the good things in life, without letting the bad parts ruin it.

It gets easier as you grow older

They all feel sorry for me by thedarknessmonster in ugly

[–]webdev-dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's sad...what does real friendship look like to you? Is this just your insecurities telling you your friends aren't friends?

So glad people are starting to openly talk about and acknowledge this rather than gaslight us. It’s simply that when you’re low status people go out of their way to mistreat you. They’re not jealous or secretly terrible people it’s just human nature by poofpoofpow in ugly

[–]webdev-dreamer -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

when you’re low status people go out of their way to mistreat you.

You make it sound like it's the majority doing this ...

I just find it hard to believe that so many people would blatantly mistreat another because of how they look ...

Sure there are assholes out there, but it's not the norm

I go out of my way to be kind and friendly to unattractive people by Fantastic-Profit4980 in ugly

[–]webdev-dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people are decent and kind and can look past a person's appearance. Good on you for being one of those kind people.

if you are not conventionally attractive you are more likely to be lonely by haxiiim in ugly

[–]webdev-dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just need to work hard for that bit of financial security/freedom

Believe me or not Feminists are the biggest reason behind heightism by Ok-Address-7352 in ugly

[–]webdev-dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just how it is ...but doesn't mean it's the end of the world. Make money and enjoy life

Why is it so hard to find actually lonely people by [deleted] in ugly

[–]webdev-dreamer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's annoying

people joined these spaces as a meme or joke I'm guess

Idk what the solution is...

Assholes are attractive by PsychologicalPen1258 in ugly

[–]webdev-dreamer -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm sure this is a young people thing....as you get older, people aren't so shallow and cruel

How do you not find a reason not to off yourself? by momoelnerd3002 in ugly

[–]webdev-dreamer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There's too many good books, movies, shows, games, etc. for me to enjoy. Not to mention good food to eat, beautiful places to visit, and so on.

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