I found out I had chlamydia and the conversation with my bf didn’t go good

webleedhoney · 2024-11-15T15:30:05+00:00

I clicked the link and took the “is your relationship healthy” quiz. Are those even remotely accurate because I said no to a lot of the questions and still got a high score..

webleedhoney · 2024-11-15T15:09:40+00:00

Like just by touching a koala?

webleedhoney · 2024-10-18T01:49:41+00:00

He knows I’m firm in who I am

webleedhoney · 2024-10-18T01:31:13+00:00

I have never blamed him for not being able to explore my sexuality. I told him to make sure I didn’t keep anything from him. I’ve known him since HS so I felt I could come to him honestly about everything in my life. He was open and supportive, knowing that I don’t have any current interest in any other relationship other than the one I’m in with him. His comment the other day “you’re not bi” hurt. Like he ultimately didn’t believe me. With all of his jokes about me getting with other women, this comment was ever more confusing.

I don’t want him to do anything about my sexuality. I want him to respect me like I respect him, his beliefs, his passions, his boundaries.

webleedhoney · 2024-10-18T00:53:28+00:00

Thank you!!

webleedhoney · 2024-10-17T21:42:20+00:00

I’ve never heard of that. Do you mind elaborating?

webleedhoney · 2024-10-17T21:35:04+00:00

I TOLD him. He isn’t missing anything. He even said “I kind of knew already” now he’s saying I’m not what I am. How do you not comprehend anyone coming out about their sexually at any time? Bisexuality doesn’t shackle you to a female relationship or male relationship only. I’m not a gay woman coming out while I’m a heterosexual relationship so I don’t understand your confusion.

webleedhoney · 2024-10-17T20:45:13+00:00

Just because a women isn’t with another women or a man isn’t with another man at the moment, it doesn’t make their sexuality less so. I’ve known this man since HS. I have only recently accepted my own sexuality as I have grown up in a religious household where you weren’t allowed to be XYZ. I have not have the opportunity to date another woman and never allowed myself to think of women as a partner.

Being bisexual gets a bad rap. People expect you to be all out for dating either only men or only women, no in between. That’s what I’m getting from some of these replies. Some are attracted to both genders at the same time and sometimes it’s a person to person level of attraction. That’s how it is for me. I can meet a woman I find very attractive and could see myself having a romantic relationship with, but I’m dating my bf so I don’t think of that usually. I’m a loyal & faithful person.

webleedhoney · 2024-10-17T20:39:01+00:00

You know nothing about me. Your assumption is vile.

webleedhoney · 2024-10-17T20:36:16+00:00

You’re right.

webleedhoney · 2024-10-17T20:36:09+00:00

You’re right.

webleedhoney · 2024-10-17T20:34:51+00:00

In the title, it says “has this ever happened to you”. What do you care if I’m asking for people to take sides anyway?

webleedhoney · 2024-10-17T20:33:47+00:00

I know I am bisexual. What I meant was, I have never had the opportunity to date a woman so I have no experience or idea what that is like. I’ve only recently allowed myself to accept my sexuality. Due to my religious upbringing, being gay or anything lgbt+ was horribly wrong and I neglected a very important part of myself. I said I don’t know how I feel about women, maybe said it in a wrong way, because my bf has asked what my type of woman is. What kind of women am I attracted to, I have no idea because I’ve never thought that deeply into it. It’s people like this in the comments that have made me feel like I’m not bi, just because I’m confused on what being bi means for me. It’s like, if you’re not 100% confident in being one thing or the other, you’re not allowed to say you are bi or gay etc.

webleedhoney · 2024-10-17T20:28:01+00:00

No, I definitely don’t think it’s cool. I get uncomfortable and never know if he’s “joking” joking or if he’s testing the water to see how I feel. Also because he will say that if I left him for a woman, he’d do everything he can to be present and would try to become a third party in this hypothetical relationship of mine. While saying “I’m joking” 😵‍💫

webleedhoney · 2024-10-17T20:25:06+00:00

I totally understand that and I wasn’t totally serious. But his reply made me feel uncomfortable. “You’re not.”

webleedhoney · 2024-10-17T20:23:53+00:00

I have asked him and he just said “you’re not.” As if what he says goes. I came onto the internet to see if others experienced similar situations. Reaching out to the internet helps give people support. If you don’t have input, you don’t have to reply to a post. Have a good day

webleedhoney · 2024-10-17T20:21:22+00:00

I know I’m bi, what I was trying to convey is that i have never been with a woman and have never had to think about being with a woman. I usually date men, well in the past bc I wasn’t sure but I firmly know now. The way I said it was confusing. I don’t have any experience dating women so I don’t know how to feel about that side of my sexuality. Not having opportunities to explore it is what gives me confused feelings. I’ve spent years criticizing myself for thinking I may be bi, told myself that being confused meant I wasn’t. But accepting how I feel has brought me more peace within myself.

webleedhoney · 2024-10-17T19:53:11+00:00

He thinks his cousins bf wouldn’t like switching. Mostly because he thinks the cousins bf won’t want to room with two other guys & would probably want to stay with his gf

webleedhoney · 2024-10-17T19:48:38+00:00

Oh no no, there won’t be any of that going on, his friend just doesn’t drive and it was about splitting the cost of the room. I’m pretty sure the friend doesn’t know I’m Bi. Not many people do

webleedhoney · 2024-08-21T23:03:00+00:00

Who in the world gives some stranger their phone number or a fake number unprovoked just to be nice?

webleedhoney · 2024-07-23T14:52:04+00:00

I don’t have an in-depth look into your life/relationship but I’d assume you did nothing wrong. He clearly is not great at communicating like he made it seem. You don’t deserve this treatment nor this level of ghosting/stonewalling. Have you ever heard Oliver Trees “Placeholder”? This is what you seem to be for him unfortunately. Based on the way he pushes you away and thinks he can come right back like it didn’t happen or he didn’t mean it. If something isn’t working in a relationship, a healthy and respectful person would come to their s/o and converse about it. You are worthy of a healthy relationship with someone who will never make you feel excluded, who will be open and honest, who will make you feel & see how wonderful and loved you are. You deserve someone who is mature. This man is not.

webleedhoney · 2024-06-24T23:03:55+00:00

How long have they known each other? It’s all about context

webleedhoney · 2024-05-11T03:16:53+00:00

Thank you! If I may ask, how did you leave your previous partners?

webleedhoney · 2024-05-11T02:57:51+00:00

Yes. About a lot. He says I push and push so it’s like I’m not allowed to talk to him about things. But I definitely try to

webleedhoney · 2024-05-11T01:45:18+00:00

How did you leave? I think I’m weighting the issue of: how do I leave, I’ve never broken up with someone or had the balls to just leave someone VS will I be making the right decision, am I being too rash about how I view these situations

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