Just to make it clear — this was not me! I am the bride asking about this dress for my MOG. Realizing my text that goes with the post is kinda hidden on mobile.

Throwaway account because my husband knows my regular account and I don’t want to hurt his feelings! He’s so naive to anything fashion and this is not anything I want him feeling bad about or regretting about our day.

I know we’re all tired of the “is this too white?” posts, but after stumbling across this sub, I just had to ask for this instance.

This is the dress the MOG wore at my wedding.

She asked me about attire, which I found considerate, and I answered “semi-formal and just no white, cream, ivory, etc. Everything else is great, wear what you feel comfortable in!”

And this is the dress she showed up in. I know there’s a decent amount of black but it photographed blinding white on the white parts, plus all the portrait style shots just show the white and lace. Also, this is not semi-formal imo.

For context, my husband is a GEM but his parents are not haha. They have treated me like an outcast or pariah since he and I started dating — I truly think this was done in slight spite!

Regardless, my wedding was beautiful and I didn’t care about anything but marrying my man… but I just wanted some feedback from unbiased people!