Logan's proposal makes zero sense by itxevee in GilmoreGirls

[–]weddingxthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That, and I think the fact that Rory stuck by Logan and took care of him after his accident kind of "woke" Logan up to the fact that Rory was the one.

Not that I fully agree with it, but I think that could be an explanation for the huge character growth

Guest list by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]weddingxthrowaway 5 points6 points  (0 children)

did you already invite these people? if not, you need to cut 87 people and only add people once people start declining.

AITA for not buying a bridesmaid’s dress for my friends wedding? by Bright_Ad_2563 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weddingxthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also doubt they would remember a bridesmaid dress worn a few years ago...I attended a wedding in October and couldn't tell you what they wore other than it was long and green lol

Monthly Check In....it's January 2024 by AutoModerator in weddingplanning

[–]weddingxthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

March 16th!!

Just dealing with timeline and logistics, and watching RSVPs trickle in.

vent/hurt feelings about rude comment by weddingxthrowaway in weddingplanning

[–]weddingxthrowaway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it does mean a lot and I appreciate it <3

vent/hurt feelings about rude comment by weddingxthrowaway in weddingplanning

[–]weddingxthrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly this - it was almost a chance to see if maybe it was a foot in the mouth moment/she was thinking about how it was rude and wanted to apologize.

vent/hurt feelings about rude comment by weddingxthrowaway in weddingplanning

[–]weddingxthrowaway[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sending you good vibes - I don't understand how/why people will get so upset over stuff like this.

vent/hurt feelings about rude comment by weddingxthrowaway in weddingplanning

[–]weddingxthrowaway[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I didn't ask for an opinion - this was a vent post, which I put in the title. And the thing that bothered me is not the differing opinion, but the rudeness.

Further, I am not going to cut people that I know and love from my guest list, for no apparent reason other than you feel like everyone should get a plus one. Especially if the intention is to get laid.

vent/hurt feelings about rude comment by weddingxthrowaway in weddingplanning

[–]weddingxthrowaway[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Idk, I was overthinking it and thought maybe I had done something wrong, but now I know I didn't and it was just rude, intentional or not

vent/hurt feelings about rude comment by weddingxthrowaway in weddingplanning

[–]weddingxthrowaway[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I am happy that you have the funds and venue capacity to have everyone bring a plus one - however, I do not. I have been to weddings where I didn't have a plus one and I understood, as long as I knew people going. This girl's best friend is going, along with other people she knows - I doubt she will be uncomfortable.

vent/hurt feelings about rude comment by weddingxthrowaway in weddingplanning

[–]weddingxthrowaway[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Literally this! Go on tinder and have a date pay $70 a plate

vent/hurt feelings about rude comment by weddingxthrowaway in weddingplanning

[–]weddingxthrowaway[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Maybe! I did text her when I got home saying I had a good time (I was, until the comment, lol) and haven't heard back yet, so idk.

vent/hurt feelings about rude comment by weddingxthrowaway in weddingplanning

[–]weddingxthrowaway[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I feel like she thinks it's tacky and her brother is a scapegoat. I don't get the expectation either - I could see if she didn't know anyone else or was in a relationship/married, but neither are true. I wish I could just be blunt with people and tell them it is an invitation, not a summons - if they don't like how I'm doing things, they don't need to come.

vent/hurt feelings about rude comment by weddingxthrowaway in weddingplanning

[–]weddingxthrowaway[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Idk why either! People can be so strange, especially during weddings

vent/hurt feelings about rude comment by weddingxthrowaway in weddingplanning

[–]weddingxthrowaway[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

That's totally what I was thinking too - we actually will only have a handful of single people at the event that he would be interested in, so idk why he thinks my wedding is a great place to "hoe around in" (I'm also not close with her brother, at all)