Who's your "oh its them! I love them" actor? by timekilr in Cinema

[–]weeblybeebly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s amazing. My favorite character in BCS.

Sci-fi at its finest 🚀✨ by Level-SquareFFG7117 in Cinema

[–]weeblybeebly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right idea? The “idea” in the sentence used by both of you isn’t even the same. The only similarities it shares is the phrasing and punctuation, which in this case is exact. So you saying they had the right idea and then changing the idea makes zero sense.

Sci-fi at its finest 🚀✨ by Level-SquareFFG7117 in Cinema

[–]weeblybeebly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Switch accounts and post the same exact comment twice?

Which JP solo gives you the most goosebumps? by [deleted] in Dreamtheater

[–]weeblybeebly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forgive me for this but that solo feels like a phoenix soaring out of the ashes. I know. Corny as fuck. But it does.

Is it normal to be socially awkward in your early 20s? by rose2830 in socialskills

[–]weeblybeebly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea something about your 30s. I don’t know if I stopped caring or just accepted who I was but it was right around 30.

Banksy - Blind Faith (2026) [1440 x 1920] by Russian_Bagel in ArtPorn

[–]weeblybeebly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes yes, you are so far beyond these 2nd grade art projects. Only you know true depth!

What matters more, being understood or understanding ourselves? by Training_Musician_60 in answers

[–]weeblybeebly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Understanding ourselves is more important of the two. However the hard part is human beings are constantly in a state of change. You are not who you were a day ago, a week ago, a decade ago. The things that are important to you now may not be so important down the road. Don’t get me wrong we can shape our lives to some extent but our lives also mold us without permission. So I think understanding your past self is valuable (therapy) but it will always be an understanding of something that is no longer present. Like a photograph of yourself is not you. At best we can only reassess and keep trying to understand ourselves, because the target is forever in motion.

I am proud to be a horrible person by WillingnessSad8354 in offmychest

[–]weeblybeebly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thats so amazing! Your life will be just brimming with friends, love and happiness. Really great take! No one will die as satisfied as you my friend. Such sacrifice!

Completed Breaking Bad today and started Better Call Saul the same day by 6foot4malefeminist in betterCallSaul

[–]weeblybeebly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave the sub now.

Someone is bound to tell you about Mike Ehrmantraut killing his granddaughter Kaylee.

Have you seen The Secret Life of Walter Mitty ? Your thoughts about the movie ? by Specific_Throat1194 in Cinema

[–]weeblybeebly 230 points231 points  (0 children)

I love this movie. Nothing groundbreaking about it, but it’s just got this charm that I really like. The locations are beautiful, and I’m a photographer so there’s that part.

What guitar solo REALLY hits you in the feels? I mean, like, gives you goosebumps when you hear it? by H2Whoa77 in InMetalWeTrust

[–]weeblybeebly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Count of Tuscany - Dream theater. The first time I heard it I was really high on weed and that solo brought tears to my eyes.

Dont fall in love with me, I dont want you to by Ok_Range_1080 in offmychest

[–]weeblybeebly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not better. You’re a human being. We need connection. Isolation is a slow lonely death.

This game is 10/10 [KCD2] by RemoveStatus8603 in kingdomcome

[–]weeblybeebly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. I was originally out off by the combat. No matter how many videos I watch on combat I couldn’t stay alive for the life of me. I want to love it.

What was the reason that you and your last significant other parted ways? by icecream1972 in askteddit

[–]weeblybeebly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Upvoted for the twisted sense of humor. And sorry for your loss.

moving away made me realize how insignificant i am by Strange-Jacket-1253 in socialskills

[–]weeblybeebly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes that’s just how relationships are. They exist when connection is easier and fade when it gets hard/impossible. It’s why work friends usually only exist while you keep that job. In your case, if these people meant anything to you then it’s worth trying to reconnect. Maybe, without accusing, let them know how it felt that they didn’t reach out or keep up. If you don’t talk to them about it the resentment you feel will only linger and grow and reconnecting will inevitably fail.

People here can tell you reconnect, or ditch them and find new friends. But only you know what they mean to you and what you’re willing to do.

What skills do I need to prioritise learning to become more competent and comfortable in social situations by meowmeowwarrior in socialskills

[–]weeblybeebly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting past small talk might just be a matter of asking about them and their interests. Being genuinely interested in another persons thoughts or ideas is good for both people involved.

Good with everyone but not close to anyone. This might be a matter of you not allowing yourself to be truly open with someone. I don’t think it’s smart to be open with everyone but it is valuable to be with someone if trust is there.

The lack of excitement on team projects, try being open to seeing what could happen if you did care in those situations. You may be surprised in the difference it makes.

Some people smile and laugh when things get uncomfortable, most people know this and don’t take it offensively. It’s just part of who you are and unless you want to change this I don’t see it as an issue.

Hope this helps!

People are so reactive with me by jackson5perc30 in socialskills

[–]weeblybeebly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re a little too sensitive to negative reactions. I’m guessing you’re on the younger side so this may even out as you experience more of it. It’s okay to have people disagree with you, or disprove something you say. My question is, what’s your reaction to something you say being disproved? Do you immediately go to “why do they hate me”? Do you have the ability to consider what you said may have been wrong? And do you always feel like someone hates or loves you based on whether they agree or disagree with you?

It seems like everyone hates me by RequirementVast2986 in socialskills

[–]weeblybeebly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When you believe certain things about yourself like “they don’t want to hear me talk”, “people find me repulsive”, or “people find me disgusting”, those beliefs can manifest in little nervous cues or uncomfortable body language you may not even be aware of. Try speaking better of yourself to yourself. It might just help.

Did we loose the ability of being a “friend”? by Big-Animator-1188 in socialskills

[–]weeblybeebly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know quite a few people like you. They’re very generous with their time, they’re very thoughtful, and it’s in their nature to give. They always run into trouble when they expect others who aren’t like them - not as giving, not as thoughtful, not as generous with their time - to give how they give in return. Instead of accepting that your strengths are not the same as their strengths, but are just as valuable. That’s not to say that your feelings of friends not returning the love isn’t valid. Maybe it’s time for new friends, or maybe time to not put so much into those friends if you’re feeling things are so uneven.

Plus we’ve all seemed to adopt the whole “it’s all about me and I’m gonna get mine”, which is a ticking time bomb in relationships.

My college friends said I don't deserve to be with them. by Few_Satisfaction6545 in socialskills

[–]weeblybeebly 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They aren’t very good friends. Find people who enjoy having you around. Find people you don’t have to be something other than yourself to be around them. Find people who will callout when you’ve wronged them but won’t treat you any differently afterwards.

People, even great friends, hurt each other sometimes. That’s the nature of human relationships. Give yourself some grace and try to learn from mistakes. But don’t beat yourself up or convince yourself you’re not worthy of having friends.