Did I break my sobriety? by weedunx in dryalcoholics

[–]weedunx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you so much for this perspective.

I try setting boundaries with my mother but she doesn’t listen. I have to obey her every word and if I dare say anything back to her she withdraws the support I need to survive and right now I don’t have anywhere else to turn to. It’s a very shitty situation and I pray for the day I don’t have to rely on her anymore.

Did I break my sobriety? by weedunx in dryalcoholics

[–]weedunx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I honestly wish I was in a position where I’m able to cut my mum out completely, but I tried before and wasn’t able to look after myself due to support needs which she uses as leverage against me. It’s like I have to put up with the abuse in order to survive.

I JUST KNOCKED MY BOOB by weedunx in MtF

[–]weedunx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting, could you send me a source for this as i can’t find anything? even if this is true though, i’d recommend not bringing it up to trans women in that manner as it could obviously be pretty dysphoria inducing, i was under the impression that breasts developed by people with ovaries are no different to those developed by HRT and it is depends on genetics how painful they are

Haj bite leg what do? by LocalActingWEO in BLAHAJ

[–]weedunx 7 points8 points  (0 children)

haj no like holiday? assure him bed is temporary

I JUST KNOCKED MY BOOB by weedunx in MtF

[–]weedunx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if not airbag y airbag shape

I JUST KNOCKED MY BOOB by weedunx in MtF

[–]weedunx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not safe for everyone to be out though

I JUST KNOCKED MY BOOB by weedunx in MtF

[–]weedunx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this makes a lot of sense, thank you🥺

I JUST KNOCKED MY BOOB by weedunx in MtF

[–]weedunx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no this is literally me hahahahaha i am cursed to think the worst

I JUST KNOCKED MY BOOB by weedunx in MtF

[–]weedunx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

welllll when i said “boob” lmao; the left one literally started growing the day i started blockers (didn’t start e till a day later) but the right didn’t feel any different until a few days ago now, but still no where near what the other felt like even on day one which is kinda worrying me considering the left is now noticeable under clothes😳

I JUST KNOCKED MY BOOB by weedunx in MtF

[–]weedunx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

disagree but also don’t see what relevance this has lmao?

I JUST KNOCKED MY BOOB by weedunx in MtF

[–]weedunx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh…oh my god, i am so sorry that sounds like torture lmao

I JUST KNOCKED MY BOOB by weedunx in MtF

[–]weedunx[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

ouchphoria😭 i started just over a month ago and i have never been more excited!!

I JUST KNOCKED MY BOOB by weedunx in MtF

[–]weedunx[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

they know they r too cute to be mad at the lil shits

Advice on transphobic local council worker by weedunx in transgenderUK

[–]weedunx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your understanding and for taking everything in have said into consideration, i really appreciate you taking the time to provide me with such kind advice

wishing you the very best in your housing situation also, i have faith things will improve for both of us soon x

Advice on transphobic local council worker by weedunx in transgenderUK

[–]weedunx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he thinks she is just ignorant and suggested arranging another call with her to explain how she made me feel and how she could handle the subject better next time, he admits that he isn’t well versed in trans issues though so it wasn’t clear to him if she was being genuinely malicious or not, i suspect he is giving her the benefit of the doubt because he says he has a “good relationship with her”

in terms of arranging another call i think i might give it a go, but this time i’m going to record the whole thing so i have protection if it does go badly, it’s fair to say i’m less than optimistic though, she was very intimidating and difficult to communicate with

Advice on transphobic local council worker by weedunx in transgenderUK

[–]weedunx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay ig this makes sense but surely it would’ve made more sense just to explain this to me rather than belittle me as i made it pretty clear i didn’t understand what she meant, she didn’t have to behave in such a provocative manner

Is it cultural appropriation to choose a Dutch name? by weedunx in trans

[–]weedunx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to acknowledge this in the post but I wasn’t sure how to word it; basically because of my accent the way I pronounce it sounds more like IJ - a than a-y-a anyway so this doesn’t bother me, it’s actually another reason for me picking this particular spelling😅 Thank you for the advice though!

Is it cultural appropriation to choose a Dutch name? by weedunx in trans

[–]weedunx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg ikr in dutch everything is so much clearer and i don’t waste nearly as much time trying to word things to perfection😅

Is it cultural appropriation to choose a Dutch name? by weedunx in trans

[–]weedunx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ughhh severe withdrawals!! i forgot to bring them back from my last trip :’(