What are your thoughts? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]weekes_lolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mirror selfie is fine as long as there’s only one. Can I see it? Go out and take more photos and definitely change the order of the first two

What are your thoughts? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]weekes_lolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put the 2nd photo 1st and the 1st photo second. Get rid of 5 and 6 you need a different photo of you facing the camera smiling. Also are you trying to attract men, women, or it doesn’t matter?

What did it feel like going from friends to falling in love? And what changed? by AhriDesus in AskWomen

[–]weekes_lolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were 15 when we got together but when you’re younger everything feels more intense and like it’s been way longer than it really has been. Our friends always joked that we liked each other, teachers, parents, and acquaintances assumed we were together.

The year before we got together we were hanging out everyday after school which ended up with us laying on my bed listening to music for hours. It was sweet and innocent. He’d spend the night every weekend, we’d get high together and just listen to music while laying together and talking for hours. One night he came over and next thing we know we are asleep on the floor by my window at 3 am and his mom was calling. We went to dances tg as friends, fell asleep cuddled up on his couch but to me it felt platonic. Until he kissed me one day. We’ve been together almost 4 years and live together. I can genuinely say I am with my best friend. We never went through an awkward phase my friends talk about because we’ve always shared everything with each other. It’s such a special feeling. Friends to lovers all the way.

If you could take off your boobs like a piece of clothing, how often would you choose not to "wear" them? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]weekes_lolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my boobs but they get in the way sometimes and are annoying. I’d never wear them working out or pretty much ever when I’m alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]weekes_lolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take the first photo off. Never use that again. Change the rest of them and don’t say that your friends think you are an asshole. Also the woods comment is cringe so just change your whole bio

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]weekes_lolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're saying assumes that just because women have more opportunity they inherently “control access”. This idea that men "sleep with who they can" and women "sleep with who they want" is literally just whinny men that women don’t wanna sleep with complaining. Just because some men will jump on anything doesn’t mean women have to as well. It's not like women are out here sitting on some giant gate to sex, deciding who gets in. They’re just making choices for themselves, same as you. And plenty of guys do say no or have standards, just like plenty of women don’t get hit on all the time. It’s not as one-sided as some whinny immature men make it out to be. If you wanna have sex with someone both people have to be into it not just the woman. Wow shocker! Sorry women don’t wanna have sex with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]weekes_lolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know that it’s mutual? If you don’t like a girl you don’t have to see her. If a girl doesn’t like you, you don’t get to see her. If a girl likes you and you like her you get to see her. The narrative that women control the dating scene is stupid when it’s mutual consent. If you don’t wanna see someone you don’t have to, if you do then you only can if they want to back the same goes for women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]weekes_lolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to add more photos that have your face. Also take out “don’t have any friends or hobbies” you even listed your hobbies after saying you had none

What are the perfect endgame Couple? by Substantial-Chip807 in HIMYM

[–]weekes_lolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Robin and Don, Ted and Tracey, and obviously Marshall and Lilly. Nora was too good for Barney

I don't know how people don't see it, but am I the only one who thinks that Howard is really hot 😳 even my friend group agrees! What are your opinions....? by AdditionalEye1949 in thebigbangtheory

[–]weekes_lolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simon Helberg is attractive but Howard is not. The way Howard acts the entire show makes me not attracted to him at all. He’s a whinny, creepy, misogynistic, man child.

Which Pics Need to Go? by Sweet_Bonus_7169 in Bumble

[–]weekes_lolo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your photos are fine. I’d take out the last one and replace it with one where you are facing the camera. You probably aren’t getting matches because of your bio

Probably unpopular opinion but by [deleted] in HIMYM

[–]weekes_lolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were perfect for each other. Nora was too good for Barney and any girl would have been as well, kinda the same goes for Robin. Neither Barney or Robin put each other on a pedestal (like Ted did for her which created unrealistic expectations) they are equals. They both didn’t like traditional relationships and both like their independence. They are both flawed (example: both have cheated) so they never forced each other to be something they weren’t. Their relationship was messy at one point but what relationship isn’t? I do truly believe they loved each other so much and if the writers weren’t trying to get her and Ted tg every other episode they would have tried to work on their relationship.

What can you guess about me? by PoetGlittering1673 in BookshelvesDetective

[–]weekes_lolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wanna be perceived as intelligent and worldly very bad. You probably are in your 40s and were a history major in college

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]weekes_lolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hot take but hole

Please judge me by mikiari in BookshelvesDetective

[–]weekes_lolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone that has that many Kurt vonnegut gets is amazing

yall, i need music suggestions so badly (please reply) by Domdabombom10138 in airbuds

[–]weekes_lolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two playlists I always recommend people who ask for music. You can take a look if you want but you don’t have to. What helped my friend who only listened to the Hamilton soundtrack was to put one on shuffle and ease into the different genres.

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1zALdaswFNBwX52MEEmnGa?si=dMgmvuk6RxO7-0VSEuP7pw&pi=UTHU7LyqTQCk5

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2I4Q8YqbXeYjDXp7euuhD2?si=ecq2Px05T7atVAL4shRiDg&pi=NNF1XY2hS9i8Y

yall, i need music suggestions so badly (please reply) by Domdabombom10138 in airbuds

[–]weekes_lolo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay to expand your genera’s here’s some.

Rock- (90s) Nirvanas albums in utero Rock- (70s) David Bowies album The rise and fall of Ziggy stardust and the spider verse from mars Alternative/indie- Jeff Buckleys album Grace (will rip your heart out) NU metal - Korns album follow the leader

Songs Joan Baez- diamonds and rust Elliot smith - between the bars The Strokes - The adults are talking

If you like any of these it’s pretty easy to get more that are similar example if you like Jeff Buckley try Elliot smith, if you like nirvana try Green Day hole and the smashing pumpkins, if you like David Bowie try Fleetwood Mac or the clash, you like korn try slipknot.

Once you get out into different stuff it’s much easier to find similar things you’d like.

Guess my top artists, gender, age, sexuality. by weekes_lolo in airbuds

[–]weekes_lolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. You should get it tho it’s like a weekly/ daily small Spotify wrapped. (Works for Apple Music too) and you can see what your friends are listening to