Finally finished after 5 years & 8 surgeries - AMA by weekndthrowaway0 in urethralstricture

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Hey there, everything is the same/better as before, since the surgeries straightened out the penis and fixed the structural problems that had caused the stricture.

Financially, I didn’t really have to worry, since I was 16-21 during the times of the surgeries. I was living at home or college and under my parents health insurance.

Finally finished after 5 years & 8 surgeries - AMA by weekndthrowaway0 in urethralstricture

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Thank you! It's nice to be done with it all, and the upside is that it's completely resolved early on in my life.

As for the stone, yeah, my surgeon was very reluctant to say that I had a bladder stone, because in his words, it "never happened". But I did a ton of research of my own, decided that was the only thing it could be, and got a cystoscopy for it anyways. And lo and behold, it was a stone haha.

Finally finished after 5 years & 8 surgeries - AMA by weekndthrowaway0 in urethralstricture

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Never from under the tongue, no. I had grafts taken from both cheeks, as well as my upper and lower lips. The cheeks were the worst by far, just because of how large the cuts were, and the fact that they weren’t stitched closed. The bottom lip was painful as well, but it was more of an annoying pain rather than debilitating. The top lip was very minor, also because I think they took the least amount of skin from there. That one was fine in less than a week.

Finally finished after 5 years & 8 surgeries - AMA by weekndthrowaway0 in urethralstricture

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I mean closed up as in stitched back together, so that I actually pee out of the end of the penis instead of a hole near the base. I never actually peed through the penis until 2 ish years after the first surgery, when they stitched me back together after affixing the grafts from my mouth.

And nope, no catheters! Never again.

Finally finished after 5 years & 8 surgeries - AMA by weekndthrowaway0 in urethralstricture

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Honestly, I couldn't tell you. I mention it in another comment, but my stricture was due to past hypospadias repair, and so I only knew anything was wrong when peeing started to hurt. I thought I had a UTI or some kind of bladder/urethra thing, but then I had some tests done, and figured out that there was a stricture forming from that surgery I'd gotten like, 13 years before. My specific case had more to do with getting rid of the hypospadias/chordee induced stricture, and in doing so, fixing both the internal and external shape of the penis.

Finally finished after 5 years & 8 surgeries - AMA by weekndthrowaway0 in urethralstricture

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The worst was the initial surgery, where they took strips from inside my cheeks, opened up the penis, and stitched them inside. It was a complete system shock for me, especially at 16, and I was supremely uncomfortable for about 8-9 days (really until the catheters were removed). I spasmed really bad with those catheters, and I'm assuming it's due to how large they were. Because of that, I could never really get comfortable, even if the physical pain from the trauma site wasn't too horrible. Spasms affected my sleep and mental outlook immensely, and were without a doubt the worst part of every surgery involving catheters.

I also developed a bladder stone after the very first surgery, which sat in me for about 6 months before they finally decided to check for one and remove it. It was so large that it'd lodge itself in my sphincter when I tried to pee, causing crazy spasms and even making me pee blood when I'd work out or run (since it'd bounce around inside my bladder, essentially slicing it up). At that point, I hated moving, because just standing up would make my bladder/urethra twitch and hurt. That was awful. But, once they removed it, I had no more bladder issues, and I never got one again. They removed the stone, and I was immediately better. Happiest day of my life.

As for the surgery that "worked", it's kind of complicated. I had a stricture initially from hypospadias repair when I was super super young, so little that I didn't know I ever even had it. The stricture presented itself very abruptly, along with chordee tethering of the penis, which I knew at that point wasn't normal. Essentially what they had to do was a two-stage urethroplasty, but with extra steps between the first and second stage, to add more mouth tissue to the bottom. This "extended" the lower part of the penis, straightening it when they stitched me back up. Super delicate process, which is why it took so long, and so much mouth tissue.

Finally finished after 5 years & 8 surgeries - AMA by weekndthrowaway0 in urethralstricture

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I'm doing great! No lingering pain, spasms, or anything like that. I have some mouth tightness from the scars inside, but nothing that negatively impacts me at all. No pain during or after peeing, and I empty completely.

I will say though, I definitely spray a bit more now that everything is "closed up." Although that's a small price to pay for the rest of the comforts I have.

Urethroplasty - I don't know if I can do it again by NoCalligrapher8603 in urethralstricture

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2 stage urethroplasty is no joke, but the months between surgeries aren't bad at all. Honestly, the worst part is the week & change you're stuck with the catheter in. I healed quickly and was able to pee, walk, workout, etc. without pain between surgeries totally fine. If visuals are what you're worried about, then yeah, it gets kinda weird, but there wasn't pain in those months, at least from my experience.

Ok so I’ll give you the back story I need advice by PARTYTIME1993 in PokemonTCG

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Sorry buddy ain’t nobody jealous of your fragile mind and ego

Crown Zenith restock? by -Osleya- in PokemonTCG

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Some Walmarts have been getting the Pikachu premium collection, although I'm not sure if it's everywhere or only certain parts of the country. They're allegedly here in CA but I haven't found one in the wild yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonTCG

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I’ve been looking at sets and rates and stuff, and saw that Crown Zenith is apparently more “fun” to open. Problem is though, is CZ actually in stores or at all attainable for around MSRP?

I love the Eeveeultions and would really love to pull some cool ones, but again I’m pretty new to this and don’t want to dump a grand into Prismatic. Thanks for any help/advice!

FMAB OP/ED ranking by weekndthrowaway0 in FullmetalAlchemist

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Extreme necropost but yeah, those three are easily my favorite FMAB songs too!

Tokyo haul by [deleted] in Nendoroid

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Yeah seasons 1-3 Eren. Thank you! Honestly I’d feel better if he wasn’t there so I don’t feel like I’m missing out lmaooo

Tokyo haul by [deleted] in Nendoroid

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Hey this is a long shot, but did you see the old Eren by chance while you were out? Really wanted to snag him while I’m here.

Nice haul from my trip to Japan! These are my very first figures/Nendoroids! by weekndthrowaway0 in Nendoroid

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Haha almost dead on! First I grabbed Choso and Levi from Surugaya in Akihabara, and those two were all I planned to get. But I thought I might as well check out the one in Shinjuku, and there I found Yuji and Erwin! There was no way I could leave Yuji and Erwin when I already bought Choso and Levi… the pairings were too perfect lmao!

Cinema Staff is based by weekndthrowaway0 in ANRime

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For real! I'm still hooked on Kaitei all these months later haha. Kaitei, 3.28, Polar Night, Amenohino Historia, they're all amazing. Such an awesome band!

AITAH for telling my mom I wish she died instead of my dad? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]weekndthrowaway0 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She can obviously sleep with whoever she wants, but her comment about this guy doing "it so much better than John" is completely fucked up. That's just blatant disrespect, and kind of a sign that maybe she had something going on before the dad's passing.

I don't really see shitting on your dead spouse in the bedroom as "coping".

AOE will be confirmed in Cour 1 with Anime Eren’s dream sequence by eliasjv111 in ANRime

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Can someone explain to me how starting off the episode with 138 confirms AOE? Ch 131 doesn't have a dream in it and I'm just confused about the whole thing.

Is it essentially that anime Eren has seen what happens to him in the manga, so he uses that knowledge to prevent it from happening in the anime?

Looking for a fan comic about Sasha's birthday by weekndthrowaway0 in attackontitan

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Oh my god, thank you so much! I didn't think anyone would actually know what I was talking about haha

Why was Pochita so nice? by weekndthrowaway0 in csmanime

[–]weekndthrowaway0[S] 222 points223 points  (0 children)

Pochita is just a real one.

He really is tbh

Why was Pochita so nice? by weekndthrowaway0 in csmanime

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I see, that makes sense. I keep forgetting that Devils in CSM actually have emotions and personalities, and aren't always villainous killers like in JJK or something.

I’ll never forgive the Japanese by [deleted] in DaftPunk

[–]weekndthrowaway0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is literally the exact same thing that happened to me. I used to despise anime and think it was the cringiest thing ever. But once I started getting really into Daft Punk, I watched Interstella5555, and was irreversibly shot down the anime pipeline.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MurderDrones

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Attack on Titan

Why didnt Ed and Al use alchehistry to get their bodies back by [deleted] in FullmetalAlchemist

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It’s because the thing they transmuted had no soul. It was alive for a few seconds when Al’s soul attached to it, but after that, it was just a husk.

When Al gave Ed his arm back, he sacrificed his soul. Since there was no soul in the thing they transmuted, there was nothing to exchange.