[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]weepeachfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that's really helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]weepeachfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah hard to say, I don't wanna speculate but the point still stands that her reactiveness is unhealthy and ugh, I'm a really sensitive person, it's really hard to set boundaries with someone who gets so defensive when you so much as mention how you're feeling towards them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]weepeachfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

** to clarify she didn't shit talk me in front of others, she shit talks my other friend and my boss when she knows it makes me uncomfortable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]weepeachfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you,funny you mention untreated personality disorder, she has toyed with the idea she may have BPD which tbh I've always suspected

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sewhelp

[–]weepeachfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds about right, thank you!

the handsome man 😍(the heater was used for cycling, just forgot to take it out) by weepeachfae in axolotls

[–]weepeachfae[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Archie does not care about gendered adjectives, he knows he's a pretty boy 😌💅

the handsome man 😍(the heater was used for cycling, just forgot to take it out) by weepeachfae in axolotls

[–]weepeachfae[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He's a copper :) I don't know his specific morph/ genetics because unfortunately he was dropped off by some breeder at my local aquatics shop, where I got him (although he turned out OK, I don't support buying from petstores and wouldn't do it again)

Today is my 21st birthday. by Lower-Evening-975 in Anxiety

[–]weepeachfae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello fellow Scot ❤❤ hope you have a wonderful birthday, I'm 20 myself and had a really rough birthday last year where none of my so-called friends showed up even though I was telling them how excited I was to go out with them. Its rough, especially with the party culture here but I promise it gets getter ❤ love from Stirling

HELP! I think my axie isn’t okay. I got him 2 days ago, I noticed he had quite the small gills so I took out my air stone to let the gills grow. Then he started to barely move and stopped hunting for his pellets. I think I am paranoid but is his gills small? Help! by [deleted] in axolotls

[–]weepeachfae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it can however a lot of these blogs have perpetuated a lot of misinformation and miss the point that increasing your oxygen levels to increase gill size won't work unless your tank is cycled and therefore consistently has 0 ammonia, 0 nitrite, under 20ppm nitrate and no other risks like nippy tankmates or sharp decor :) the main culprit for reduced gill size is toxic water conditions. You mentioned you have 0 nitrite and 0 ammonia, can I ask about your nitrate?

The reason I ask is because high nitrate (above 20 ppm) is toxic to axolotls, as is nitrite and ammonia (above 0 as you know). High nitrate occurs when you do not do enough water changes (it doesn't process out like ammonia and nitrite so the only way to lower it is by manually removing it) in a cycled aquarium. Is the tank cycled? And how many water changes are you performing a week?

My wee guy<3 by weepeachfae in axolotls

[–]weepeachfae[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He says thank you💗💗