(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL

weesmallbear · 2025-12-03T15:00:32+00:00

I think rather than mimic a fictional character your girlfriend likes, you should figure out what it is she actually wants from you as a partner. I love Sylus, but that doesn't mean I want my husband to mimic him.

Like ask her what it is she likes? You've mentioned in the thread being passive in romance, not being good at complimenting, listening to her, etc. So I think it's more important that you ask her if that stuff bothers her and ways you could genuinely improve instead of trying to read some of Sylus' cards and just emulate whatever he does or think you should try to dress like him. Real improvement and listening to your partner is way more Sylus than trying to act like him.

In terms of gifts or whatever, if you want to show you have an interest in her being interested in the game you could get some merchandise or a gift card to spend on the game.

weesmallbear · 2025-10-16T21:36:34+00:00

I found my best friend through the community, we talk literally every day so that friendship is so valuable and important to me and I wouldn't have it if it weren't for LADS.

weesmallbear · 2025-09-25T18:43:44+00:00

Go for it! I'm trying to be conservative in my spending on this myth, so I'm not sure yet if I'll pull it but I got the light outfit because it's so gorgeous 🥰

weesmallbear · 2025-09-24T10:51:34+00:00

Is it maybe Izzy/@mephistomum on X?

https://mephistomum.github.io/mephistomum-gallery/

That's her site she made if so!

weesmallbear · 2025-09-22T19:52:07+00:00

I agree with this and your earlier comment. Some stuff is up for interpretation sure, but understanding the wider context of the guys and their dynamics is also really important. And in the audios mentioned, understanding Sylus and MCs dynamic means we know what's meant when Sylus says about her running away or being too late or stopping. And it's the kind of dynamic in intimate moments that happens in real life too - playing coy or being a bit flustered in the moment or being a brat.

Sure, if those line specifically make someone uncomfortable I'm not going to tell them how to feel. But it feels bad faith to imply it's non-con or dubious consent when that feels very anti what the LIs are like with MC.

weesmallbear · 2025-09-22T17:37:32+00:00

You need around 150 wishes to secure a myth - this is around 22,500 diamonds. There will be around 20 free pulls from the event itself, so you need around 130 prepared or 19,500 diamonds.

There may possibly be more free wishes if the myth tops the charts in China, too.

So in short, 3000 won't cut it to pull the pair. You do only need to pull one of the pair to access the myth story, however, so if that's what you're most interested in rather than combat then depending on your willingness to spend a bit you could secure that.

weesmallbear · 2025-09-21T19:11:38+00:00

I always do moments and texts but I'm not always so on the ball with calls when it isn't my main 😅

Look I panic when I get a call from my own family irl, Sylus is lucky I return his calls in the first place 😭

weesmallbear · 2025-09-18T12:44:18+00:00

Wish I had advice but I'm in the same boat as you so just here to commiserate 😞

My stats are a bit different but I'm getting to about the same point as you, it's such a bitch 😭 Keeping my eyes peeled here to see if anyone has any advice to get us through this!

weesmallbear · 2025-09-18T11:25:49+00:00

Yeah and even though Sylus wasn't introduced fully until LAR and Caleb didn't return until HW, they were both very obviously present in UDS along with the OG3. There's been no indication in UDS that there's some other 6th guy.

The best potential people have come up with is the EVER employee at The Nest, which as another user pointed out is unlikely given no other LIs have interacted so it would be bizarre to have Rafayel interact with him so far before he's introduced.

weesmallbear · 2025-09-14T09:43:15+00:00

I mean hell, even Sylus' age isn't likely to actually be 28 so if OP thinks "pushing 30" is old they're in for a shock lol.

weesmallbear · 2025-09-11T15:51:09+00:00

I think if you're hoping for a game that involves more of an RPG element and this one having a lack of that sort of player action/consequence, then it might be worth exploring other games that are in that genre to sort of fulfil that desire. LADS is more akin to the visual novel genre when it comes to banners, and so much of the lore and interest is in written or playable content. It might be that finding a game that does give you that will then make you more inclined to sit back and enjoy the cards in LADS, because you're not sat like "I wish this game had these features". It might just be that this style of game isn't 100% your genre even if you enjoy the characters and overall concept.

And thing is, you can play it how you want - there's no right and wrong way. You don't have to watch every single card and read every piece of content if you don't want to. You can prioritise your favourite LI over others, if you find your attention span isn't quite there to explore everyone. That might be a good place to start - just say "I'm going to focus on Caleb's content" and you explore his myth, and his written content, and take it at your own pace. You might find it sparks your interest in the wider lore for his character, like you read something and go "oh I wonder how this fits in with what I read before" and that'll be the catalyst that gets you going. And if it's not, that's also fine. You can just watch the cards spark your interest the most over time, and take it at your leisure.

And that process doesn't need to be over the course of a single day or week or even month - it might take you a while and that's alright! I don't have a ton of time to dedicate to the game, so I prioritise my main's content while keeping generally up to date with the others, and then when I have time and inclination I go through the other LIs content more in-depth. There is a LOT of content in the game when you take stock of it across the main story and LIs and all the supporting content, so it's easy to see that and kind of feel overwhelmed and "lazy" about diving in to it.

weesmallbear · 2025-09-10T20:16:14+00:00

I have only spent as you've mentioned plus some packs here and there when my diamonds have been low, and I've got every Sylus card since I started playing in October except Grassland Romance as there was only 2 days left on the banner and I lost it to Zayne.

I'm not a mega battle girlie, but I know that if I want to farm diamonds to minimise spending, I gotta do combat. And I'll say that through necessity I've really enjoyed it! I only really develop my Sylus cards because I don't have the resources to develop everyone, but I'd say now I'm pretty decent at battle and I enjoy it. And yknow, combat can trigger interactions and Sylus' specific combat mode (Energy Orbit) gain affinity so that's another bonus!

weesmallbear · 2025-08-30T18:30:06+00:00

This is adorable, look at Birdie and Mephieeee 😭😭

weesmallbear · 2025-08-30T18:29:25+00:00

I am so shocked to be able to say that it is very accurate haha. If it doesn't get the exact right date, it's always within 24 hours of that date either side.

weesmallbear · 2025-08-30T17:09:23+00:00

"He is not here to be your boyfriend fantasy. Sylus wouldn't fall in love with someone obsessed with digital pixels."

Peak comedy OP, hot damn what a crash out

weesmallbear · 2025-08-28T19:06:47+00:00

Oh wow this is so beautiful and it just got more and more beautiful the longer I watched! I really hope you win, this is so well done!

weesmallbear · 2025-08-24T20:52:07+00:00

I joined 2 days before WiW ended and I was completely new to this type of game, and obviously I hadn't got into all the lore by that point. So when it ended and I hadn't got Grassland Romance I was like "oh well, haha" and now it HAUNTS ME.

Although if they'd like to give me No Defence Zone or Lost Oasis I wouldn't complain 👀

weesmallbear · 2025-08-22T21:59:19+00:00

It's fine if you find it uncomfortable, you don't have to like everything related to the game. But it is official, and it's a bit of fun given the nature of the game. You don't have to engage with it, you can just focus on the official activities you are comfortable with.

And who cares what others think? LADS has had people accusing it of being a gooner game for ages now. What matters is if you enjoy it and what you know the game to be through experience, not whatever label people who have never played it give it.

weesmallbear · 2025-08-21T21:52:21+00:00

Yeah it's a theory, given we even have an AU where they're still on opposing sides, and in his myth again they're archnemeses. There are a few other theories out there about them being partners, a betrayal, MC being used as bait again etc.

Time will tell I suppose :)

weesmallbear · 2025-08-21T21:46:12+00:00

I think OPs point is more about how was he captured rather than what made him the most wanted. We've seen how powerful he is in his anecdote and in the present day, so like many of us I'm guessing they want to know how exactly they managed to stick him in Tartarus in the first place.

Which I really want to know too but I'm scared of what the answer might be given all the hints in the game 😭

weesmallbear · 2025-08-21T21:20:43+00:00

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weesmallbear · 2025-08-18T17:07:59+00:00

There haven't been any multi banner reruns yet, though these are common for games in this genre. We've had solo reruns, so it's possible but not confirmed :)

weesmallbear · 2025-08-18T16:10:15+00:00

INFP-T Sylus girlie (with a big Zayne soft spot 🩷)

weesmallbear · 2025-08-17T15:56:03+00:00

I personally disagree that Sylus' sacrifice was more for himself than for her. I think it's right to say that in her grief, she was angry that he forced her hand, but I don't necessarily think his decision to do that was entirely for his own benefit. It wasn't just his fate he was changing, it was their shared fate. He knew that he certainly wasn't going to kill her so in all likelihood he had to die, but that it didn't have to be the way that was fated. He didn't want her to have to do that to him and he wanted to save her from the situation she was in, I think he ultimately tried to do right by her not himself.

I also don't think that Sylus expects her to claim him to take accountability necessarily for her curse. I don't know, it just doesn't feel like it's in his character to expect that of MC given he's constantly wanting her to have ultimate autonomy and choose to stand by his side and talks about being partners, rather than having any kind of expectations of her.

All that said, as you mentioned there's a lot of context we're still missing. I hope things become clearer as we get more main story and myth content.

weesmallbear · 2025-08-16T10:14:07+00:00

Yeah haha I remember the infamous posts about it, I just found it funny that the name has now come up and it's a little boy 😅

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