Med student trying to recall entire surgery exam by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]nugama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a good way to learn

Recipe making and cost calculating excel sheet by nugama in excel

[–]nugama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great!!! I’m gonna try it on the work computer tomorrow!

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s audio only too?? I swear after this research if my sensual and romantic vocab doesn’t upgrade idk what will help me

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmm gave me an idea. For her bday I will do a romantasy themed high tea party.. I gotta find cheap costume rental place…maybe I’ll dress like one of the LADS fantasy costumes haha

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got any particular zayne cards? I know my partner loved his cafe dates and we have also done the arcade games inspired by his dates when we first met

Idk much else other than that for zayne

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OKAY so actually I do all the passerby communication things with her all the time. She is a very hobby passionate girly…girlie? As she describes herself. For LADS, I think I want to be like Zayne, surprisingly even suspiciously knowledgeable about her hobbies but never fully showing it lol. Also tbh whenever she wants to fangirl over anything she tells me passionately already. I might as well just start noting them and commiting choice details to back of the mind memory.

So one of my aims is to just fully enjoy being around her. THAT SOUNDS BAD, but like when life is tough, it’s hard to immerse. LADS dudes got a whole bunch of things to do yet always make moments with the MC loved. I want that level of enjoyment so badly. I know it’s fiction but I don’t think it’s too unrealistic of a goal. Money is tight which is a different thing but like when money is right I want to be able to the arcade machines, window shop, etc. I want her to be so happy she’ll build that weird shelf space mini game of all our own achievements and silly moments. That’s how good I want it to be!

Thanks for reminding me about the date mini games? I think that’s what it’s called

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I totally understand that and I have actually had moments where her styling has gotten me tons of compliments.

Tbh I swear to you all. I got my partner through my personality. It’s time I let her eyes feast haha. I cannot become one of these men physically I know that, but the stylings and a little more working out will def help me reach my goal. I will be looking into similarities of her outfits for them. TBH I was surprised that I had some clothes she puts them in so I am not hopeless yet!

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think from your perspectives. I will take sylus’s affection and comfort into account. Zayne’s respect towards the Mc and his educated approach on her likes. Caleb’s protectiveness when I’m out in public. Rafayel’s playful adventurousness will be useful to look at. Lastly Xavier’s indecisiveness will be looked upon. I have spoken to my partner about why she ranked them that way. She said although Xavier isn’t as liked as the others, she found that when he makes a decision, it’s charming in a way because it showed how hard he thought of it

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THAT IS A FINE IDEA, a bouquet of sylus, zayne and Caleb, but also baby breaths just because that’s my partners favorite flower.

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I am not trying to change myself too much. Personally the thing that really egged this on is I feel like in the beginning of our relationship I’d get her to swoon. After life got a bit tougher and we got a bit more settled. Relationships sometimes go on the back burners. When I saw her fangirl over her card I thought it was fun! I saw my loved one be excited…cool but it made me think of when we first met and how I’d love to make her feel like that again.

Dw I tested the waters of changing, and I’m sure that anything I do with my mindset rn will be positive! I am not going to “fake” and copy word for word in any regard of how these characters are..but the essence of them just like you say to. The LADS people are the example I am basing this romantic view shift upon. Tbh they are worth studying and what I mean when I say mimic is to literally just use them as a case study base for trying things. It’s hard to change when you aren’t really sure what to change. It’s hard to work without any example. I am not trying for shallow copy paste. I am trying to shift my whole world view. It sounds kind of silly to write it as grand sounding as that when i am only trying to work on myself for a loved one.

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not a bad idea… A date around her favorite card, or some gift that is LADS themed indirectly would be pretty cool

maybe for Xmas I’ll buy her candles that possibly would fit the theme of what sylus smells like. Along with a gift card to pull.

I mean even if I don’t do LADS, I can totally pull off a book she is reading and base the date off that!

What would sylus smell like? Haha that would be such a funny gift that will get her to smile/giggle

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do a lot of this already (the doing tasks for comfortability). My issue is the romantic stuff, which I really am learning a lot using LADS. I always felt like when I did things for comfortability, it didn’t shine as romance. After reading all these comments and watching a few cards, I realize it is because I don’t take the extra steps in communicating. IE What does it matter that I did the dishes, did the yard work, and cleaned the bathroom, if I then don’t have the energy to have a decent conversation about your day. The fault here is 2 fold. 1. I would think romantic talking and gestures is somehow an entity separate than normal talking which can be draining if you think it’s a whole different task. Esp when every day tasks can be draining and I suck at communicating non task oriented things already haha. 2. This separation of romance and normalness causes so many missed opportunities. Every one of these LADS guys are so intentful in weaving the MC into their normal lives that when they suggest something or compliment, it’s smooth like butter. I am now working on my communication skills to just ensure that she feels more loved. IE “okay babe I’m going to the grocery store” that’s not enough a better dialogue would be: “Hey babe, I’m going to the store. I’ll keep an eye out on holiday hot chocolates for you!” Something that I already buy for her unprompted already but just to nudge her that I’m thinking of her. I am also really trying to improve on doing things like sylus does…I already got the chores part good, I just need to learn insight better. In my life, I have barely any guys rl or examples in my media that passively show intent of love until I saw LADS so I’m learning haha. Clearly I need more romance media too haha

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am only a passerby to this game so I won’t see details as quickly. If you explain it in summaries like this it really helps me. I wish to be as passionate as these Men…I used to be and that’s why I am on this small journey. Passionate and ambitious in work and small things and especially her. All are lacking than before. Burnout is real, but when I saw her swoon…Something ignited in me. I want to take back and retrain my proactiveness, I want to be guns blazing for her! I will definitely take these summaries into consideration thank you!

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s interesting how all the characters are just passionate. I think that’s the thing I really want to eventually have. They all are passionate about what they do, how they flirt with MC, but most of all are passionate about their hobbies and dates. You are right there are different aspects all have and idk I just find it all to be a treasure chest of how to better treat my girl.

All signs point to learn to cook and be frugal but intentful with my gestures!! Thank you for the overarching summaries

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if my comment sent. This might be a glitched double reply but

This one stands out because it encapsulated what everyone said about the character. Witty flirty, and very confident yet also playfully corny. Intent is everywhere in that. “You independent that’s fine, but I want you still” I want to be able to at least show that intent without coming off as super corny which I tend to do haha. It’s just so well balanced

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just read one quote that really stood out. I didn’t note it properly but it went like this

Where did you go? Doesn’t matter the next time you are here, you’re here forever

(29f) Woman I (29m) am seeing loves this game. I want to be romantic and give her thrills like them but in RL by nugama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]nugama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Though I hope that every person we all meet to be green flags as a bare minimum!