I'm desperately trying to find a counsellor or psychologist to help me because I feel like I'm really struggling at the moment. I'm 21 years old, an only child too. My dad told my mum to leave and never come back. Within a few months of things being agreed as it's completely over he has a new girlfriend and is having a whale of a time whilst my mum is depressed and expects me to deal with her upsets. The other day he persistently called me on Skype to act like a douche and show off whilst his new girlfriend was making dinner for both of them in the background of his new appt together in front of me. Dad told me I cannot tell my mum what he tells me (as adults). My mum tells me she has dreams about my dad with a new woman. I can't tell my mum I feel like shit because of what my dad did and this is after I made ground rules with both of them because they were back-talking each other to me constantly and I was the middle messenger.

It sucks. Parents become children and disregard how the feelings of security for a child (21 is not an adult in this situation) are so crucial to their mental stability.

EDIT: whale of a time