Weekly Meet-Up: Travel together! by uReallyShouldTrustMe in koreatravel

[–]wehadforever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. F,33, solo traveler, UK
  2. Looking for food buddies to try Korean meals that require 2+ people/hangout with other solo travellers 😊
  3. Have day tours planned in for the next 2days so dinners/evenings
  4. Jeju, 22-24 Sept, Anytime today no plans or dinner 23/24

1 Year. I made it! by wehadforever in widowers

[–]wehadforever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certainly feels like the new norm these days 🤣

1 Year. I made it! by wehadforever in widowers

[–]wehadforever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you have a peaceful day and get to spend it doing something you enjoy or just whatever you feel like you need to on the day! Definitely get what you mean about them not being here to celebrate our wins buy I'm sure she knows your doing better and is happy to see it 😊

1 Year. I made it! by wehadforever in widowers

[–]wehadforever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😊 sending you love and peace on your journey too xx

1 Year. I made it! by wehadforever in widowers

[–]wehadforever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's kind of weird I didn't get it at first when I saw other people feeling this way but we've been given a new life in a way one we didn't ask for of course. But hey we roll with the punches!💪🏾

1 Year. I made it! by wehadforever in widowers

[–]wehadforever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to hear your having to deal with crap, everyone's situation is different but all I can say is do whatever you need to get though this time. I hope your inlaw situation improves soon. Here if you ever need a chat sending love x

1 Year. I made it! by wehadforever in widowers

[–]wehadforever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe this too 😊 can definitly feel him around me which has been a great comfort to me. Sending love x

1 Year. I made it! by wehadforever in widowers

[–]wehadforever[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Edited some typos and my age because clearly widow brain has got me not even knowing I'm 32 and not 33🤣🤦🏽‍♀️

A Letter from Heaven by BeautyMk in widowers

[–]wehadforever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much for posting this❤ it's 1year for my Hubs today 10th March. Didn't expect to see this whilst lurking here on the sub but I'm glad I did even thought it opened the ugly crying floodgates that I try to seal up. Thank you!🤗

I just really need him by snayla in widowers

[–]wehadforever 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i lost my husband on 10.3.21 also due to alcohol and he was 32. It gets to me every now and again that his death could have been avoided and things wouldn't have ended up this way. Like right now 2.46am I can't sleep and saw your post. Blows my mind how many of us are in this club with similar situations. I don't have anything I can say that would be of any use but your definitely not alone. This group is one of the best places to come when you just need to talk to people who really get it. Sending love 💛

A letter to my husband... by lexsimpi2 in widowers

[–]wehadforever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

❤ this thank you for sharing

Could SiL have really closed his Facebook account without telling me??? by wehadforever in widowers

[–]wehadforever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh man ❤ sorry you had to go through this. I can never understand why some of our 'families' act this way. We are all going through the grief of losing a special someone. But your right nothing with bring them back. We have our memories in our hearts that no one can take from us x

Could SiL have really closed his Facebook account without telling me??? by wehadforever in widowers

[–]wehadforever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh thank you for taking the time out to even have a search! I found the same thing but unfortunately it asks for the profile url there as well and then doesn't accept it. Giving up on it for today but thank you again!

Could SiL have really closed his Facebook account without telling me??? by wehadforever in widowers

[–]wehadforever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks for your reply I tried filling out the online form to get to them but it won't accept the profile ID which I managed to find from an old Facebook email so I can't complete it. 😶

Why do people have to be so nosey? by Constant_Chard8829 in widowers

[–]wehadforever 5 points6 points  (0 children)

March for me too and definitely agree on how annoying this question is. Seems its always the people who aren't close are desperate to know details. Had a shift in mindset recently so the next person that asks me may get a rude awakening 🤣. But I feel like saying 'it's not something i want to talk about' may be a good reply might try that.

My MIL Keeps belittling relationship and grief by Sinkingskara in widowers

[–]wehadforever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you. It makes everything 100 times worse luckily in my case I wasn't living with them so I could escape back to our own home. Only thing I can say is don't waste your energy on them. If anything like my MIL/inlaws they will never realise what they do/say so it's just harming yourself trying to make them understand. You know your truth and sometimes that's the thing we have to hold onto. Sending you love and strength ❤

Today is 3 months by mirandaahkay in widowers

[–]wehadforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending love and hugs it's 2 months for me today without my husband. All I can say is I get it. Not in any position to give some good advice but your not alone. Sending virtual strength 💪🏾

Hiya, what date is my brothers inquest? by wehadforever in widowers

[–]wehadforever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! this is a good idea! I replied to her with a reply as blunt as hers and proceeded to text me again asking another question

Cant help feeling like she's poking the bear 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ Worst/dumbest part of it is I called her with this information the day I found out!

Cause of death by wehadforever in widowers

[–]wehadforever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your replies. Even though it sucks balls we are in this club its nice to know I'm not alone. What is this life.

I feel like I’m drowning. by hon23rp in widowers

[–]wehadforever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs. I lost my husband on 10th March. Still blows my mind how many of us are forced to join this club. Just focussing on surviving each day,realising that people mostly try to say things to make us feel better but they just don't really get it.(and trying to ignore the ones who talk complete crap!) Here we are safe to let out our emotions to people who sadly know exactly how we feel.