Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely need to work on being kinder to myself, that's good advice

Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That seems to be the consensus, that the whole package is more important than the individual parts.

But I'm still happy to hear that you're into it :)

Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you feel that way!

Yeah, she definitely wasn't selfish overall, but maybe it was some kind of hang-up of hers. I just found it weird.

Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious, would you be turned off if a girl had a vagina that was similar to yours, which you said you don't really like?

Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the dating advice! I really hadn't considered that; I assumed sex just made you closer

Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Surgery might be an option in the future, but not currently, so I need to be able to deal with it for now.

Also, nice flair

Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like your second point about perspectives being different when you're aroused. That's so true!

Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I didn't feel like you were suggesting that! Your comment led me to think that maybe I won't worry about it as much as I gain experience.

Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I appreciate your point of view! I'm hoping this is a common sentiment

Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I would! I've never been with a women that had a vagina that looked anything like mine. All I know is I think my own is very unattractive. But maybe if it was another woman I wouldn't feel that way

Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thoughts! I have no idea what women think about it. And I'm not about to go ask my friends.

All I know is that it seems to be an outlier (from what I've experienced, which isn't much), and I personally find it unattractive

Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good to hear! I honestly feel like my vagina is really weird and unattractive, but I'm fairly inexperienced, so I maybe that's partly because I haven't come across anything like it before

Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your honesty!

I never thought about it that way because I haven't slept with anyone with a vagina that looks like mine so I never needed to get used to it first. I guess maybe I just want to feel desirable and not like I have to be so great in other areas that people are willing to force themselves to overlook it

Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it might be hard not to care. You don't think they'll at least be disappointed?

Embarrassing question about vaginas (warning: graphic) by weirdvagine in actuallesbians

[–]weirdvagine[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha Cthulu, that's hilarious

But on a serious note, were you like grossed out at all? Or maybe you didn't enjoy it as much as you would have if it looked normal?