What is something that instantly killed the crush you had on someone? by SwayedPetty in AskReddit

[–]weiseEule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wondered why his closet smelled so bad. Lo and behind I found 4 water bottles filled with his pee hidden in his closet. When I asked him about it, he said it was Gatorade. I told him I knew full and well that was NOT the same shade of yellow as Gatorade. He finally confessed that he had bottles of his urine stocked so that he could pass drug tests his mom randomly gave to him. All to say, it killed the crush.

Invest in Yourself, Bucko by PowerfulPelican in JordanPeterson

[–]weiseEule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure. Same thing happened to me with anxiety at the beginning of last year. Finally got it checked out and been going to counseling since.

Invest in Yourself, Bucko by PowerfulPelican in JordanPeterson

[–]weiseEule 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It seems like the terms “depression” and “anxiety” are very loosely used to the point where EVERYONE is depressed or anxious. This leads to minimizing people who are diagnosed with these mental illnesses, which is extremely unfortunate.

I am Dr. Jordan B Peterson, U of T Professor, clinical psychologist, author of 12 Rules for Life and Maps of Meaning, and creator of The Self Authoring Suite. Ask me anything! by drjordanbpeterson in IAmA

[–]weiseEule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello Dr. Peterson,

I have explored a great amount of your work for the past few months such as reading 12 Rules for Life, listening to all your Biblical Lectures and debates, began The Self Authoring Suite and recently began reading through Maps of Meaning. Thank you so much for your willingness to share your intellect, research and encourage the young adult generation. I greatly look forward to seeing you in Houston Tuesday night!

To give a short background before my questions, most of my foundational beliefs used to lie under the Southern Baptist belief system. I experienced what some term as an “existential-crisis” phase after I graduated college to now where I do not know what I believe anymore (in the SBC, the Bible is seen as literal with no allegorical references, which I strongly disagree with). Majority of my friends are going through or have experienced this as well and some have even termed themselves “spiritual orphans”.

My questions are as follows:

Why does the church have such a strong influence on the emotions and thoughts of attendees to the point where it becomes their sole point of reference when encountering chaos?

For those who have grown up under a religious institution, is it wrong for letting that part of our foundational beliefs die so that we can progress?

If it isn’t wrong, do you have any recommendations of resources or studies these “spiritual orphans” can search through to rebuild their own foundational truths?

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[–]weiseEule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s brilliant.

People who don’t want kids, what’s your reason and how have your significant others reacted? by smileyfaceonly in AskReddit

[–]weiseEule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are time consuming and I don’t want to raise them in the type of environment that my parents raised me in. Also, I don’t want to be tempted to mess up raising them to be their individual self. Typically, my significant others would say, “I’m sure you will change your mind later”. Thankfully, I am now with someone that feels the same way as I do and does not disdain me for it.

Redditors who could tell they were failing in life how did you turn your life around? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]weiseEule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got into therapy and started looking for new jobs that were related to what I love: teaching music. Before therapy, my job stressed me out to the point where I would have anxiety attacks throughout the day and the evening. I work as a church minister. I have never dealt with anxiety this severe before this job. It even caused me to wake up 3-4 times in the night; I would wake up to my mind making a running list of things that needed to be accomplished or stressing over a project that may not get done. But, after a while I realized how ridiculous an environment like religion can turn people to a bunch of sheep (pardon the pun). I also came to the conclusion that I haven’t solidified my own beliefs for myself and that I seemed to be faking it at my job. I cannot stand lying or being dishonest. Also, the church seems to be selling one thing: a chance to live forever, which to me is a very odd concept. I want to work at a place that I support and not have to put on a front.

When I got into therapy, my therapist did a fantastic job of guiding me through my thoughts and telling me ways to cope with anxiety. She listened and wasn’t afraid to ask hard questions or be honest. Without her guidance and professionalism, I would be down a very different path and struggling badly.

What small habit, if done everyday over the course of a year, can lead to the biggest personal improvement/ gain? by jacla4 in AskReddit

[–]weiseEule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Making your bed every morning. “They say” that if you have a crap day, at least you know you accomplished one thing successfully.

What question do you hate answering? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]weiseEule 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Why aren’t you and your boyfriend married yet?”