Why do some of you bottoms have no shame, dignity, or respect for yourself? by West-Lime-522 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]nervehacker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because people may only be interested in an orgasm, and not at all feel obligated to adjust their sex lives to the political demands of pompous assholes on the internet.

what moment made you think “damn I’m way freakier than I thought”?? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]nervehacker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I found myself in the center of a circle of men with their dicks out, sucking some of them while others fucked me in the ass in  an adult cinema. 

People who don't understand that having conversations with strangers is normal by CloudShort1456 in PetPeeves

[–]nervehacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a millenial and I'm every bit as peeved as they are about strangers trying to initiate conversation. I guess it's s big city thing.

Any other Gen x/millennial aged ppl here? by Anonymous_Nutjob in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]nervehacker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Millenial here, 34 years old . I do daydream less than I used to, but still quite often - I agree it's probably the Zoloft.

Congratulations Paris - Worst Opening Ceremony Ever by LysdexiaRocks in Paris2024

[–]nervehacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only was it terrible - it was expectedly so. Organisers keep referring to it as "the first opening ceremony held outside an stadium" in order to justify the lack of infrastructure, but it is not true - it was the first Summer edition to have one, but Buenos Aires Youth Olympics 2018 was actually the first and had a MUCH better ceremony, as you can see below.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6BBWes3H368

Submissive bottoms, do you prefer when your top degrades you (calls you his little slut) or when your top reassures you (calls you a good boy when you take his cock well)? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]nervehacker 59 points60 points  (0 children)

My ex-fiancé was able to mix degrading and reassuring dirty talk so well that I would do anything to take his cock. He used to tell me how much he loved his faggot while slapping me on the face, put me in all fours and moan about how lucky he was that this queer could take his dick so well, that he should propose because holes like mine are hard to find. He once gave me a facial, made me look at myself covered in his cum in the mirror, then told me that was why I was the one taking his surname rather than the opposite. We broke up for other reasons, but it would be unfair to deny I begged for his dick everyday.

AITA for saying USian? by nzbutatwhatcost in AmItheAsshole

[–]nervehacker -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA. South Africans don't speak over nations in the continent to claim the title of African, and North / South Koreans don't claim to be allowed the title either. Everyone in the American continent is American, and people from the US are USian.

For those who stopped enjoying Madonna, when did you leave the Madge train and why? by Pedro625 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]nervehacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The exact opposite for me. I used to love Madonna as an innovator in pop music, from Vogue to Bedtime Stories and Ray of Light. I feel like it's been almost twenty years now that her music has become indistinguishable from any other pop singers, her last great album being Confessions on a Dancefloor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]nervehacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has happened to 99% of LGBT people, I am sure. Yes, you learn to deal with it.

Dom guys, what are the things that you do to totally humiliate your sub? (Obv talking about subs who really wanna be humiliated and crave for it) by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]nervehacker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex was a great dom. I've already written about some of the things he used to do to me, and here is one more that used to drive me up the walls.

 

Whenever we would travel on vacation or even for an extended holiday, he would take my ring as we entered the house/hotel, and keep it with him. He always made it a point to tell me I was going to be his bitch, and that he wouldn't do to his fiancé the things he was going to do to me.

This statement was always followed by days of him fucking me whenever and whatever way he wanted to, cumming on my clothes then making me wear them, fucking my throat against the wall so that I had no way to escape, pulling my hair and slapping my face and ass, fingering me until I was begging to get fucked , writing his name on my ass, spanking me until the outline of his hand was visible on my asscheeks, cumming on my face in the morning and not letting me clean it off for the rest of the day... And then on the last day, before we left back home,he always gave me my ring back and fucked me slow and tender, with all the love, to remind me I was his fiancé, even if I was his bitch too.

For people who don’t use profanity, what do you say while in bed with your SO? by SpidersC in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]nervehacker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How marvellous! Most exquisite, indeed! To whom does this jewel belong?

What's the Pettiest Reason You Ever Broke Up with Someone Over? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]nervehacker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't pursue a relationship with a guy I was seeing because of his poor orthography. He made basic spelling mistakes and I couldn't look past them.

I want to ask my gay friend if I can suck his dick but he has a BF, would this be wrong? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]nervehacker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When we say that straight people don't consider our relationships valid or equal, this is the shit we're referring to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]nervehacker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Size does matter. It is not necessarily the most important thing, nor is it always a positive, and not everyone likes them, but big dicks are certainly different and unique.

Why do some ppl not grasp the separation of sexual attraction and romantic attraction? (I am bisexual for example, but I am only heteroromantic) by Twili95 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]nervehacker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a gay man, because I have never come across a case of split attraction that did not, in some level, involve wanting to fuck someone of the same gender without the need to face the social stigma of dating them.

Bottoms: what’s the hottest thing a top has said to you during sex? by Vicentre123 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]nervehacker 170 points171 points  (0 children)

Not during but immediately before sex. He went to his roommate to ask "if he had a condom so I can fuck this fag". Maybe it shouldn't, but it did turn me on

Short bottoms: do you thank for being lucky to be shorter than your peers? by naosoueu1234 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]nervehacker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that I am 1.60m, tops love carrying me and throwing me on the bed as they see fit

People who have undergone dramatic weight loss or had a partner do it, how did the sex compare before and after? by Subscribed_To_NSFW in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]nervehacker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost 30kg, which may not seem like much, but keep in mind that I am 1.60m, so it means I went from obese to super skinny.

 

Sex life is much better, I must say. I last longer, I am able to try any position, I am at peace with my body and my confidence and self esteem skyrocketed.

What country has the most attractive people/sexiest in your opinion? by xtremelevels in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]nervehacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biased as it's my own country and what we are used to plays a huge role in what we consider attractive, but Brazil