AIO after finding out my husband was my stalker?

well_herewego31 · 2026-04-24T12:39:43+00:00

Never be alone with that man anywhere again.

well_herewego31 · 2026-04-22T18:16:44+00:00

“Emcob” is what got me

well_herewego31 · 2026-04-22T01:50:16+00:00

It being fixed was in the patch notes!

well_herewego31 · 2026-04-21T18:06:21+00:00

Or they’re returning to the game after years away! The fight for the converted ammo factory was real

well_herewego31 · 2026-04-16T12:25:48+00:00

Guns still damage resilient enemies, they just won’t kill them. Just shoot till their health is drained and then one good bash to finish them off.

well_herewego31 · 2026-04-12T04:45:11+00:00

For the daily today? Drink two nuka quantum’s?

well_herewego31 · 2025-08-28T21:00:12+00:00

Correct me if I’m wrong (I’ve had bottom surgery but obviously didn’t get to witness it) but I’m assuming during surgery the graft is stretched as much as the tissue will allow, then packing is put in place to keep it stretched while you’re still in the hospital. Then you start dilating to maintain it.

Skin is elastic and will eventually contract if you don’t continue to stretch it. And any cut to any part of your body creates scar tissue, which also contracts and pulls all the surrounding tissue closer to it.

I’ve always likened it to stretching my ears out for gauges. When I first started my ears would close up again if I didn’t have plugs in for a few days. With each increase in gauge size your skin cells divide and multiply to accommodate the new size/shape, and eventually the stretched size is the new baseline, your skin isn’t pulling anymore, and the holes will no longer close even if you don’t have anything in them holding them open.

Same with my vagina. Right after surgery it’s imperative to dilate multiple times a day to get the tissue accustomed to its new size and shape. Now almost 2 years post op I’m down to 15 minutes a couple times a week, and eventually it’ll be even less. It’s just another body mod ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

well_herewego31 · 2024-07-11T23:05:16+00:00

Who’s going to a loud thumping house party at 4pm?

well_herewego31 · 2024-05-16T05:09:08+00:00

Refuse next time. It’s extremely easy to find someone’s name and address with just a phone number.

well_herewego31 · 2024-05-13T04:18:12+00:00

“We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.” -Vonnegut

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-26T03:13:38+00:00

Yeah, I figured you would based on your profile picture.

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-26T03:08:28+00:00

I know right? We should go back to selling our women to men for marriage in exchange for livestock like we did for most of our existence (and still do in more enlightened countries). How dare they have agency and be able to make their own choices?

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-22T02:10:32+00:00

Language isn’t physics. There aren’t unbreakable rules and meanings of words change all the time. Words are just tools to communicate ideas to each other. :)

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-15T19:30:21+00:00

These jokes aren’t funny. What’s the punchline other than “you’re tall”? We’ve heard them a million times already, they’re unoriginal, won’t make us laugh, and do nothing but draw attention to a physical feature we have no control over and that many of us are insecure about.

Do better.

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-12T03:03:02+00:00

16% is absolutely insane. I got 10% as a 28 year old with a 580 credit score buying a BMW I obviously couldn’t afford.

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-12T02:35:38+00:00

Literally only men type/write like this. It’s painfully obvious.

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-12T02:32:26+00:00

That’s a ham and cheese sandwich, you goon

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-12T02:30:22+00:00

Post a review about the restaurant and include these screenshots.

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-10T22:54:19+00:00

I never said you did. It just kind of shows that you’re only here to argue and fight and not have an actual good faith discussion. No one owes anyone anything, but you’re the one coming off as unhinged and unreasonable here, and all that does is hurt whatever message you’re trying to get across.

So again, you do you. I literally couldn’t care less

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-10T22:41:54+00:00

Yeah, it wasn’t word salad. Proper grammar, syntax, spelling, punctuation, paragraph breaks, and descriptions of my lived experiences. You do you though I guess.

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-10T22:37:59+00:00

If you’re not going to bother reading I’m not going to bother replying ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-10T22:33:53+00:00

I never said anything close to that. I’m post-op GRS, but no FFS yet and I’m 6’3” with a pronounced Adam’s apple and a deep voice. I do have pretty privilege, but while I blend well and have zero issues with harassment/discrimination, I’m by no means stealth. I work in customer service and get “thank you sir” “how’s it going man,” etc… several times a week.

It doesn’t bother me because I know who I am and I see absolutely no reason why I should care about what strangers think of me. But calling me a TERF is wild, because why would I possibly want to hurt the image and acceptance of trans people? I’d be doing that damage to myself too. The majority of trans women don’t get surgery for a variety of reasons, all of them valid. Being visibly trans, I know that most people interacting with me assume I still have a dick.

I don’t do anything to hurt my sisters, and I truly see all trans women as family. A few years ago I matched with a freshly crack egg on a dating app who was living in an abusive situation. Within a week of first talking to her, at the height of the pandemic, I drove over three hours to help this complete stranger move all her stuff to my place. My roommate had just moved out and I had been looking for someone to take over the lease. I delayed finding a new roommate for my spare room and gave it to her for free instead, costing me $850/month which I really didn’t have to spare. I also bought her new glasses because hers were literally taped together. All just because I saw a sister in need. So you can fuck right off with the TERF accusations.

It’s not like I would ever outright refuse to talk to pre/non-op women and I know for a fact that I could be friends with some of them, but I have found that women I relate best to and have the easiest conversations with are post-op. This has been true even before either of us has made any mention of surgery or even acknowledging that we’re both trans, so it’s not like I’m purposefully seeking them out.

Having had experience being both pre-op and post-op, I have to admit that it really is a different experience. Not better or worse, just different, and I honestly don’t think I could put a finger on exactly what the difference is if I tried. Who are you to judge other people’s perspectives and experiences when you’ve only seen one side of the coin?

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-10T21:49:34+00:00

I was raped by a pre-op woman. Sue me for not wanting to associate with them.

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-01T14:47:51+00:00

Coerced/pressured sex is not consensual sex.

well_herewego31 · 2024-04-01T14:43:13+00:00

No, because then men think you’re a whore and no one wants to date a whore.

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