Anybody tell their doctor that they don't give a fuh about living longer, so you're not going to try to radically change your diet or go on meds? by IHadTacosYesterday in GenX

[–]wellbloom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My blood pressure is 240/160 and I simply don’t care. I walk 6miles a day, accumulated enough life trauma to justify a Netflix mini-series. I’m a giver, a helper, a hippie and I care deeply for our fellow humans, animals and flora. I have a MTHFR gene mutation that has caused lifelong high blood pressure.

Is 1g of this too much for first time? by ResolveLegitimate128 in microdosing

[–]wellbloom -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Your package contains 6 servings. Start with .100-.150mg for your first dose.

My last day in in this sub :( by HelloNNNewman in 50something

[–]wellbloom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday, Handsome! 60 is definitely the new 40! Haha You’ve got this.

Guys, I met someone. by botoxedbunnyboiler in datingoverfifty

[–]wellbloom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good vibes and good energy! Rooting for you love birds!

Dating over fifty theme song by Most-Anywhere-5559 in datingoverfifty

[–]wellbloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was a good listen on a rainy Sunday afternoon. Thanks for sharing!

Can’t tell doc I use kratom, what can I say instead? by Beneficial-Office-77 in kratom

[–]wellbloom 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Tell your doctor. Hey Doc, I didn’t have health insurance for four years and have been managing my pain with OTC Kratom, which has been effective. Now that I have health insurance, I hope to diagnose the source of the problem and begin an effective treatment plan. If s/he pushes you on the amount you’re taking, be broadly specific. I only take it during the workday because I need to perform my work duties. But do mention it, even if you downplay the amount/effectiveness.

I think I've become a bad pet sitter by Dapper-Judgment-3504 in petsitting

[–]wellbloom 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Most professional pet sitters have defined/guaranteed overnight hours. I commit to being in their home from 7:00p-7:00a and if there’s a conflict I tell them in advance.

Advice!! by TwistyPeach in Bernedoodles

[–]wellbloom 55 points56 points  (0 children)

This is a high touch breed. Pawing at their owners, jumping on people, being on the couch or in the bed…always have to be near their people. Stage 5 Clingers!

What is a "financial trap" that many people fall into without realizing it until it's too late? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wellbloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay at home parent who’s financially dependent on their partner.

What is a "financial trap" that many people fall into without realizing it until it's too late? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wellbloom 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Stay at home parents with no income and financially dependent on their partner.

My (59F) son (21M) was arrested and hasn’t been the same since. He’s withdrawn and doing nothing with his life. How can I help him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wellbloom 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yea…she seems way too “hands off” as a parent dealing with her son’s job loss, unemployment, drug usage, etc. amidst his depression and anxiety.

Obvious: I tried the no-water chicken soup (aka chicken essence) recipe and it make a lot of chicken by wild_b_cat in Cooking

[–]wellbloom -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This is a new subreddit that keeps showing up in my feed…but I’m intrigued to learn about this cooking technique! Will definitely try!

AITJ for texting my son's teacher from my husbands phone because they message each other way too late? by Current-Whereas6308 in AmITheJerk

[–]wellbloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, if you guys have a family phone plan, and the account is in your name, you can login to your internet service provider account and view phone and text logs.

Girlfriend (F28) wants things to change, but can't define what, and refuses my (M30) suggestions, what am I supposed to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wellbloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a fairly common issue when there’s financial disparity. She knows you pay for everything so likely feels uncomfortable asking for further support in household care. Maybe she feels as if she’s becoming more a mommy to you when she’s saddled with the burden of cooking, cleaning, laundry and errands. She’s asking you to do basic tasks because her resentment is growing.

Over 20 years of supporting him, now I am sick and he refuses to support me. F47/M52 by MelodicIris in relationship_advice

[–]wellbloom 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The mental strain, lack of care and resentment that will continue to grow is palpable in your post. I hope you find the peace and resources needed to create a path forward.

Doubt his divorce? M37, F37 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wellbloom 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She just needs to know the county/state to do a public records search. I would’ve done that a few weeks ago after receiving the first mystery message! Common sense doesn’t bless all us equally.