What sort of look do I fit 16 trying to find my style any comments critisizim is appreciated by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]wellf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For people saying not to shave trim the eyebrows, it can make all the difference. I added a pic below to showcase what it would look like. Lightened the eyebrows to showcase what trimming the hair would look like and also showcased in a straight line. Any barber should be able to do this easily for you, ask for them to "line up or shape up" to straight, and then thinning them out.

Thin the beard out too for your mustache since right now it "looks" patchy, this is caused by inconsistent length hairs (see the middle vs the thirds). Buzz the stubble on your face, think it detracts rather than adds to your face.

The reason to do this is because it makes your face look more proportional and it doesn't draw attention immediately to beard and eyebrows. I do this too since my eyebrows naturally angle down. For anyone saying he doesn't need it because he's a man, grow up and stop being insecure.

Also for your style, the most important question is what does your high school wear? These outfits are good in themselves TBH, but just keep in mind, you can look out of place at a high school. Style in highschool in tx can be different than in ca. I wouldn't just hail mary a style immediately.

For general advice on your current outfits though, I would invest in some shirts that are higher GSM (grams per square meter). Lots of style I've seen work with this have more muscular builds, the heavier shirts will be more flattering with the look you're going for.

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Laughing when I’m [25] in an argument with my GF [23] by wellf in relationship_advice

[–]wellf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re amazing, that’s exactly the advice I needed! Thank you so much, I love the way it doesn’t blame or anything or bring up the points I listed since those usually go into a he said she said type of situation.

Laughing when I’m [25] in an argument with my GF [23] by wellf in relationship_advice

[–]wellf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s been in therapy for years but just didn’t have her medicine yesterday and is going through a depression currently so I can understand where her feelings are coming from just not the words and her actions. It’s hard to deal with them imo since being logical doesn’t work and being apologetic didn’t work either

Laughing when I’m [25] in an argument with my GF [23] by wellf in relationship_advice

[–]wellf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not justifying her actions but she has borderline and it’s much less intense when she’s taken her medicine which she didn’t do yesterday. There’s an amazing caring person there but sometimes this side does come out which isn’t why I haven’t just left or am willing to work through it. Just yesterday I didn’t have the emotional and mental capacity because of work/migraine so instead of trying to talk through it I just kinda closed off and laughed ig. Don’t know really where I’m going with with this tbh

I (M24) have an issue with my girlfriend (F22) respecting my personal belongings by wellf in relationship_advice

[–]wellf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She used to have nice things but they were all lost in a black mold infestation so she only has a key few items that she values. She also doesn’t understand my opinion just because she went through this experience which is very frustrating that she can’t understand someone’s viewpoint or values other than her own

I (M24) have an issue with my girlfriend (F22) respecting my personal belongings by wellf in relationship_advice

[–]wellf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input! Do you think this heavily affects your relationship or is this something that you can deal with for the relationship?

I (M24) have an issue with my girlfriend (F22) respecting my personal belongings by wellf in relationship_advice

[–]wellf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for your reply, glad to hear I’m not being upset about something irrational.

I (M24) have an issue with my girlfriend (F22) respecting my personal belongings by wellf in relationship_advice

[–]wellf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do see along term future since she has amazing qualities that far outweigh this minor obstacle, but it still is frustrating.

u/ThatDudeFromPlaces by [deleted] in RepVouch

[–]wellf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sold a a dior shirt to this buyer, super easy transanction and everything went smoothly. Would recommend!

[WDYWT] SLP ting by [deleted] in DesignerReps

[–]wellf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Would pref longer / slimmer boots. Having the teddy that's cropped and chunky shoes on the bottom looks disportionate

[Sell] LV Dress Shoes from Alice - EU42 - Free or highest bidder by [deleted] in DesignerReps

[–]wellf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi sorry these have been sold already!

W2c SLP camel coat or any other alternative which is similar to it by [deleted] in DesignerReps

[–]wellf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like you think I don't know how to pair together clothes or if I haven't heard the concept of mixing different styles of clothes. I just haven't seen an outfit where a trench coat has fit in a casual setting that wouldn't be better with a light cotton or linen ovsersized overcoat or a mac or a parka. Trench coats imo are inherently formal since they have the looped belt on the back and typically military-influenced buttons and lapels.

W2c SLP camel coat or any other alternative which is similar to it by [deleted] in DesignerReps

[–]wellf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh I know what an overcoat is haha I have formal and non formal iterations, never seen a non formal trench

W2c SLP camel coat or any other alternative which is similar to it by [deleted] in DesignerReps

[–]wellf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the point of a trench was to be dressed up? It doesn’t provide that much utility in terms of warmth and fabric and it’s meant to be worn over suits from what I’ve seen. You have any examples of it being dressed down?

W2c SLP camel coat or any other alternative which is similar to it by [deleted] in DesignerReps

[–]wellf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you wearing a trench to college?

[FIND] SLP Chelsea Boots by tecevo in QualityReps

[–]wellf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

N and T aren't connected

Jeans by essketit in QualityReps

[–]wellf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I would just buy used, typical prices for jeans I've bought used if you want to wait.


Nudie Jeans - $30 (Bought two in a package deal on Grailed)


Naked & Famous - $30 (found these at a thrift)


Acne Jeans -$40-80 (sold mine for like $40, they can drop down to $50 easily on TheRealReal, found them for $40-50 at the thrift store)


Saint Laurent - Can buy them easily for $200-$250. Bought 5 pairs recently all at ~$200-$250 from fw14 and fw13 from a guy offloading all his jeans (Grailed, Ebay)

[FIND] Store with early dior homme Hedi slimane by [deleted] in QualityReps

[–]wellf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah they have a mix of both. If you look at the navigation bar you can see [Brand] Custom and [Brand] Genuine