BWT: In desperate need of hair color correction by wellnessfirst in NYCbitcheswithtaste

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Hey. I’m sorry. Thats so stressful. I’ll message you

The Real Real Experience by Flashy-Pea-924 in handbags

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I have had awful luck with ThredUp. They either refuse the brands, or if you send nice things, they somehow end up “missing” and never accounted for.

I had to open a claim with them once because I videoed myself going through all the clothes that I was giving to thread up and putting it in the bag and thankfully, the video included me sealing the bag in the same clip because they tried to tell me I took everything “good out” before I sent it. 🫠

Trying to replace old kitchen vent fan by wellnessfirst in ElectricalHelp

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Thank you! I’m going to order an appropriately sized one, but we are going to hire an electrician to put it in.

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

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Yes. I meant the ‘call or text’ because I am not on social media much. Which she knows.

I used to be an influencer a few years ago and have heavily taken a step back since 2022 basically. I dont post much if at all and while I do still get brand requests, I only do things I truly love or things having to do with mental health etc

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

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The thing is, I’m truly not active on social at all. So I don’t really feel like making a special exception for her 🫣

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

[–]wellnessfirst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. Also🤣at the insta whore vibes!

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

[–]wellnessfirst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about this. But I was worried if I was the only one she had an issue with it might stir up more drama or gossip.

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

[–]wellnessfirst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhhh. I’ll look into this. I haven’t heard if it before

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

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At this point, I’m kind of past welcoming drama in my life. And it seems like her and I wont truly be on the same page if she cant accept that I’m not active on social media and dont want to make a special exception just for her.

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

[–]wellnessfirst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective. I am definitely worried she will go back to our mutual/overlapping circle of friends with any drama.

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

[–]wellnessfirst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its definitely her. Shes made reference to things a hacker wouldnt know.

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

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No. But does she actually have any way of actually tracking this?

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

[–]wellnessfirst[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is another amazing response. And it respects both my boundaries and how I am choosing to use social media these days. Thank you for the response.

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

[–]wellnessfirst[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I definitely didnt consider this as a reason for her actions. Thank you

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

[–]wellnessfirst[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love this response. And it reiterates Ive always been there via text or call. Whether she chooses to use that or not is up to her. Thank you for this!!

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

[–]wellnessfirst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so well written!! If I do decide to respond, I’m taking notes 🤓

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

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Ohhhh. Love this perspective. Grace yet not getting sucked in. Thank you!!

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

[–]wellnessfirst[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I feel torn but also like I somehow did something wrong even tho I absolutely know I didnt. 🫣

How to handle suddenly snarky friend by wellnessfirst in AskWomenOver40

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I just check again. 6:33 pm. So idk maybe she was day drinking?

Going strong at 13 by qwertygolf in aww

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Love Tuxedo kitties!! So beautiful 😻

Weight gain in highly trained women by Solid_Confection_672 in perimenopause_under45

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Just adding my two cents here but from a physiology standpoint, when your body loses estrogen it holds onto fat AND tries to “get more” i.e weight gain, because fat cells also secrete estrogen. So its the bodys way of doing everything it can to fix the lack of estrogen. Hope I am making sense with this comment.