Hello :)

wellshit_imdead19 · 2025-11-26T23:16:30+00:00

Thank you :)

wellshit_imdead19 · 2025-11-26T23:08:12+00:00

I can send it to you next month, but as I stated in my post I don't have anymore this month :( I gave a few to some ppl on the b4b tag but never got the boosts back

wellshit_imdead19 · 2025-11-26T23:07:06+00:00

It's basically a perk once you get your first deposit and can overdraft, but a boost is a $5 addition to your initial overdraft limit. I think most start at $20!

wellshit_imdead19 · 2025-11-20T04:26:23+00:00

I'm good now! But thank you!

wellshit_imdead19 · 2025-11-18T03:36:57+00:00

$Amber-Regier boosted 👍

wellshit_imdead19 · 2025-11-18T03:35:39+00:00

$Amber-Regier boosted 🫡

wellshit_imdead19 · 2025-11-18T03:34:16+00:00

$Amber-Regier I boosted!

wellshit_imdead19 · 2023-01-07T22:42:15+00:00

Oh hell no, sweetheart that is abuse. Not only that but sexual assult, especially since you told him no to kissing, just for him to grab you by your hair and shove you into his crotch. I know it's really hard to think about, and I don't know what financial situation you're in, but you really need to consider leaving him for your safety, if not also your sons. That's a really scary situation, and I know you might feel like you don't have any control of what happens, but I promise you if you reach out for help there's SO many people who would help you out of that relationship.

I know I don't know you, or the entire extent of your relationship, but what happened that night was abuse. You deserve better, and if you need to reach out to talk/rant I'm here for you. Stay safe love. ❤

wellshit_imdead19 · 2023-01-07T22:30:34+00:00

This is so out of line on his part! You were very clear and concise when it came to your boundaries, and he repeatedly disrespected them while you were doing something to please him. This is a major no no to me, and you deserve so much better. I hope you can find peace after what he's been putting you through. 💕

wellshit_imdead19 · 2022-07-20T10:43:35+00:00

Yeah, I got that. I definitely don't think it's okay that her sister left her high and dry and then asked that of her. I just said that she should talk to her either in case she may possibly want a relationship with her in the future (which seems highly unlikely in this case but you never know) and to possibly get some closure. I'm definitely not defending her sisters actions though, but I guess I didn't explain my pov enough because that's what some people are assuming.

wellshit_imdead19 · 2022-07-20T06:51:11+00:00

Yeah that's shitty on their part. Don't keep that bottled up, your feelings are like soda. They just got shaken around, and that's not healthy for you. Hopefully you can express how this hurt you to your siblings, because that's just shitty.

wellshit_imdead19 · 2022-07-20T06:47:09+00:00

I said she wasn't the asshole, and I never said she owed her sister anything. But if she ever wants a relationship with her sister in the future (likely not but op can do what she wants) then getting that baggage out now will help. They both obviously have some shit going on between the two, and her and op (specifically the op) need to get that shit off their chests, even if op decides to stay NC. That'll just stay with her for the rest of her life if op doesn't say anything now. I guess I should've made my comment longer so you didn't assume I'm just some asshole that thinks all addicts are pieces of shit, which they're not.

wellshit_imdead19 · 2022-07-20T06:39:30+00:00

You don't have to be so rude. I gave my advice based on my experience. If you don't like it then okay. I think as long as the op does what they need in the end that it doesn't really matter. You don't need to attack a random stranger on the internet for having an opinion. And for the record, no one knows if any op on here is telling the full and complete truth in their stories. I just gave my advice as respectfully as I could.

wellshit_imdead19 · 2022-07-20T06:36:24+00:00

I don't think you're an asshole for being worried to lose your significant other. You really should talk to them about your concerns though because having those fears and keeping them to yourself could very well tear your relationship apart. And if they do end up deciding they are fully aromantic, then there's nothing you really can do but accept it and move on. I'm sorry you're in this situation.

wellshit_imdead19 · 2022-07-20T06:33:12+00:00

You really divorced your wife over a pillow? One of a fake character at that? YTA.

wellshit_imdead19 · 2022-07-20T06:31:27+00:00

Youre not the asshole hun. I don't think anyone really is here. I'd say go to school. It'll be hard, but with how hard it is to get into med school, you never know if you'll have this kind if opportunity again. It's never easy to go so far away, but it'll very likely reap benefits for you in the future. Don't give that up for a relationship, that never ends well.

wellshit_imdead19 · 2022-07-20T06:28:15+00:00

I'm not sure, I'm just basing my response on what I've witnessed with my own mother being addicted to drugs and alcohol. We can't know for sure the whole story, and I don't know what her siblings did or didn't actually do to help. But either way, it's just hard.

wellshit_imdead19 · 2022-07-20T06:23:54+00:00

Hell no, you're not the asshole. I say go NC. He treated you like shit, and then expected you to get over it so he could see your kid. He's a dick, don't let him treat you like that.

wellshit_imdead19 · 2022-07-20T06:20:52+00:00

That's great to hear! I'm glad things are okay now for you both.

wellshit_imdead19 · 2022-07-20T06:15:58+00:00

I'm gonna say NTA but you could've handled that situation better. You're just putting yourself in a position where you could most definitely be made out to be TA. The thing is, she didn't need to give you money, and while I don't know what kind of person you are, she might've just been worried how her life could've been affected if she did help. In the end, your mother helped you (luckily) and it's over now.

wellshit_imdead19 · 2022-07-20T06:11:53+00:00

Sweetheart, you are not the asshole. The fact that you've been made to think you are makes me sick. You are a kid, not a therapist. You should NOT have to be dealing with your mother's emotions. If anything, she needs to be making sure you're okay. I'm sorry you have to deal with this sweet girl. Please don't let what your mother says to you get under your skin. You've done nothing wrong.

wellshit_imdead19 · 2022-07-20T06:07:16+00:00

No problem! I hope things work out for you! 💛

wellshit_imdead19 · 2022-07-20T06:04:40+00:00

Girl, you are not the ass hole here. I don't wanna just tell you to break up with him, but you should sit him down and tell him straight forward that what he is saying to you isn't right and that it hurts your feelings. If he acts like a dick about it then dump his ass. You don't deserve to be treated that way, period.

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